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Went to a concert last night.
On Facebook it said the girl I hung out with last year (but hadn't seen in months cause she always cancels) would be there, but I didn't expect she actually would be.
She was there.
It was super awkward at first. Like she was so happy to see me, but I was kind of annoyed cause she had been blowing me off.

As the night went on she got progressively drunker.Regardless of how she has been I am still a good guy so I hung out with her and made sure she got home safe. She was there with a friend from work and he seemed like a good guy so he probably would have done the same as me but he was talking to a girl he met so I did him a favor by taking her home for him.

She was trying to make out with me most of the time I was with her, but thankfully she didn't try anything else.

Even though I was hung up on her for awhile seeing her and being around her really didn't bring back any feelings or anything so that's progress to me. She kept saying how much she misses me (something I have heard before), so I guess it's possible we will start hanging out again, which would be fine, but if we don't I'm cool with that.
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wow you guys are overthinking your messages

literally learn how to be a chad
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gna647 posted...

wow you guys are overthinking your messages

literally learn how to be a chad

Breh
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Damn she actually responded you guys weren't pulling my leg

Now the second problem I have is that I said I was 5'10" on my profile but I'm really 5'6" 264 so uhhhhh
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She wants me to put our relationship on Facebook. It really annoys me, but I understand that some people just like having that information up there.
Still though. She's met my friends, I've talked about her to my friends that I talk to. She's not a secret. Why does she care about Facebook people I never talk to.

I'm just not ready for all the stupid "aww", or "about time!!" Messages from people I don't even talk to.
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MacadamianNut3 posted...

Damn she actually responded you guys weren't pulling my leg

Now the second problem I have is that I said I was 5'10" on my profile but I'm really 5'6" 264 so uhhhhh

Why you lying bro
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MacadamianNut3 posted...

Damn she actually responded you guys weren't pulling my leg

Now the second problem I have is that I said I was 5'10" on my profile but I'm really 5'6" 264 so uhhhhh

Dude? You lied by 4"? That's too much. You done fucked up. 1-2" MAX.
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emblem boy posted...

Why you lying bro

https://www.twitter.com/heightismxposed?lang=en
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emblem boy posted...

She wants me to put our relationship on Facebook. It really annoys me, but I understand that some people just like having that information up there.
Still though. She's met my friends, I've talked about her to my friends that I talk to. She's not a secret. Why does she care about Facebook people I never talk to.

I'm just not ready for all the stupid "aww", or "about time!!" Messages from people I don't even talk to.

I want to do that >_>

we have been "actually" dating for over a month now but in hindsight we talk about how we've been dating since like July

it still feels like she's trying to keep us on the dl and it kind of hurts
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emblem boy posted...

She wants me to put our relationship on Facebook. It really annoys me, but I understand that some people just like having that information up there.
Still though. She's met my friends, I've talked about her to my friends that I talk to. She's not a secret. Why does she care about Facebook people I never talk to.

I'm just not ready for all the stupid "aww", or "about time!!" Messages from people I don't even talk to.

See the positive side: by making it official the chances of her having second thoughts and suddenly breaking up with you (which kind of happened to me) lessen.
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ArchangelBaruch posted...

emblem boy posted...

She wants me to put our relationship on Facebook. It really annoys me, but I understand that some people just like having that information up there.
Still though. She's met my friends, I've talked about her to my friends that I talk to. She's not a secret. Why does she care about Facebook people I never talk to.

I'm just not ready for all the stupid "aww", or "about time!!" Messages from people I don't even talk to.

See the positive side: by making it official the chances of her having second thoughts and suddenly breaking up with you (which kind of happened to me) lessen.

Ehh, that's not really one of my concerns. If she wants to break up, fear of it being public shouldn't go into the decision.
It's been 4 months and she's even told her family about me. I haven't said shit to my family though. It's not something I talk to them about

TheGoldenEel posted...

emblem boy posted...

She wants me to put our relationship on Facebook. It really annoys me, but I understand that some people just like having that information up there.
Still though. She's met my friends, I've talked about her to my friends that I talk to. She's not a secret. Why does she care about Facebook people I never talk to.

I'm just not ready for all the stupid "aww", or "about time!!" Messages from people I don't even talk to.

I want to do that >_>

we have been "actually" dating for over a month now but in hindsight we talk about how we've been dating since like July

it still feels like she's trying to keep us on the dl and it kind of hurts

I get that some like just knowing that information is out there and the confirmation that neither of them are being sneaky and trying to keep the other a secret. It's just that it's not my worry at all, but apparently it seems to be a worry for her.

I'm just gonna have to take the L on this issue. It's not a hill worth dying on.
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I did it.

I turned off notifications though. As far as I'm concerned, the post doesn't exist
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Kissed my tinder date, pretty happy about how it went. We were even talking about what we're gonna do next.
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I matched with a girl again who I went out with two summers ago. The bizarre thing is that she doesn't seem to have any idea that we've met before. We went on three dates and slept together on the second one. It ended after she seemed to get irrationally annoyed about a story I told on the third date, and we never spoke again after that.

I was totally fine with it ending that way and was going to ghost her after that date regardless. But now she wants to meet up for drinks, and I'm not sure if she'll connect the dots in person and flip out. The only reason I'm considering this is because she has absurdly large breasts for her frame, but this wouldn't go anywhere serious under any scenario.

I've had two first dates before with girls who'd forgotten we'd gone out previously, but never with someone I'd hooked up with before.
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What was the story that annoyed her?
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OpShaft posted...

What was the story that annoyed her?

One of my co-workers is married with two kids and brags about still fucking other women. The guy will share stories about these women, sometimes showing us pictures if they're hot enough. He doesn't care.

The girl asked me why I wasn't outraged and didn't confront him about his behavior, and I said it wasn't my business. This got her really steamed.
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I haven't shaved in like a month, and my hair is way past due for a haircut.

While I feel ready to reinstall the dating apps I feel like I can't until I shave and get my hair cut because I currently look nothing like any pictures I have, but I really don't want to shave to cut my hair yet, lol .

I know I don't look good with facial hair or shaggy hair either, so eventually one day I will finally be like "Oh man I look like shit" and take care of it.
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Reinstall and when you get a date, you'll be motivated to cut it
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decided to reopen my tinder account (didn't really bother with it first time round)

been superliked apparently, very intimidating imo, don't like being told someone liked me
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dgb909 posted...

don't like being told someone liked me

Isn't this the whole purpose of the app, @dgb909? To find out if people like you???
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Silver Bearings posted...

dgb909 posted...

don't like being told someone liked me

Isn't this the whole purpose of the app, @dgb909? To find out if people like you???

yeah this is true but i'd rather not be told upfront someone has liked my profile, prefer the surprise
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dgb909 posted...

Silver Bearings posted...

dgb909 posted...

don't like being told someone liked me

Isn't this the whole purpose of the app, @dgb909? To find out if people like you???

yeah this is true but i'd rather not be told upfront someone has liked my profile, prefer the surprise

The surprise comes when you message them and they never reply.
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This girl that super liked me almost a year ago is strange

She was pretty hot, jet black hair Spanish white girl, petite fit body with nice tits.

we texted a bit. We only went on two dates. FIrst one we had lunch and second we went to the fair

After the second date she said she felt like she wasnt really feeling chemistry between us but wanted to be friends. I told her thats fine. But I stopped talking to her after that night.

But since then, shes literally always the first one to view my snapchat story. Pretty much since that day we met. I dont even follow her on snapchat but she shows up on my views.

And when I see her around campus shes always staring at me. I have a feeling she was lusting over me but didnt want a relationship. At the time, I was aiming for an relationship so maybe thats why she bailed. Lowkey wish I smashed lol.
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billcom6 posted...

I haven't shaved in like a month, and my hair is way past due for a haircut.

While I feel ready to reinstall the dating apps I feel like I can't until I shave and get my hair cut because I currently look nothing like any pictures I have, but I really don't want to shave to cut my hair yet, lol .

I know I don't look good with facial hair or shaggy hair either, so eventually one day I will finally be like "Oh man I look like shit" and take care of it.

I'm the exact opposite. Whenever I shave I usually don't like to go out for a week or two to let my beard grow back in. Look much better with it, as far as in nightlife situations.
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Downloaded apps again on my bday (the 14th). Here is my experience thus far

Girl 1, cool, nice. Says she doesn't do relationships, lives close. Was ok looking I guess, expected better from her pics. Still very smash-able. Texts me often, hits me up all the time. Haven't been able to sched another meet up with her. She's younger and devotes weekends to partying. Weekdays I'm busy after work.

Girl 2: We matched long before but we finally had a chance to meet up. Super attractive in person. She has made it clear she wanted date 2 and asked me out. Meeting again on Sunday

Girl 3: We talked a lot but she isn't as attractive as her pics and lives far. She hits me up a lot. Very nice and very clear about her liberal political leanings.

Girl 4: O god, catfish and taller than me even when she isn't wearing heels and I am 6 feet tall. She invited me up but I said I can't. Super awkward

Girl 5: Nice and cute, she's down to see me again. Didn't find her all that interesting, we'll see what happens

Girl 6: Like girl 5, downed 5 drinks during our date. Not sure if I should text again or not but she did say that she wants to see me again when I dropped her off

If my sunday date goes well I will delete these apps again. I dont have time for so many first dates

masticatingman posted...

billcom6 posted...

I haven't shaved in like a month, and my hair is way past due for a haircut.

While I feel ready to reinstall the dating apps I feel like I can't until I shave and get my hair cut because I currently look nothing like any pictures I have, but I really don't want to shave to cut my hair yet, lol .

I know I don't look good with facial hair or shaggy hair either, so eventually one day I will finally be like "Oh man I look like shit" and take care of it.

I'm the exact opposite. Whenever I shave I usually don't like to go out for a week or two to let my beard grow back in. Look much better with it, as far as in nightlife situations.

Well you probably have good facial hair.

I can only grow a goatee then patchiness everywhere else.
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So my girlfriend wants to try Anal

Anyone know good lube To buy? Also Im embarrassed to go through the checkout line with the Trojan brand lube >___>

Shes been wanting to experiment sexually....I kinda dig it
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gna647 posted...

So my girlfriend wants to try Anal

Anyone know good lube To buy? Also Im embarrassed to go through the checkout line with the Trojan brand lube >___>

Shes been wanting to experiment sexually....I kinda dig it

Just go with some normal KY. Does great for me.
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Ky?
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gna647 posted...

So my girlfriend wants to try Anal

Anyone know good lube To buy? Also Im embarrassed to go through the checkout line with the Trojan brand lube >___>

Shes been wanting to experiment sexually....I kinda dig it

Just go through the self checkout
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Https://imgur.com/gallery/63emP

Hopefully this works. Not good with pics
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Buy it online
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gna647 posted...

So my girlfriend wants to try Anal

Anyone know good lube To buy? Also Im embarrassed to go through the checkout line with the Trojan brand lube >___>

Shes been wanting to experiment sexually....I kinda dig it

just do it. not as bad as you think
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Nobody is even gonna notice you're buying it. Retail workers don't really give a fuck, they're used to weird shit
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Astroglide for lube
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Don't attempt to have anal sex until she has experiment and used some type of plugs first.
You can't just go from nothing to full on anal.
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billcom6 posted...

Don't attempt to have anal sex until she has experiment and used some type of plugs first.
You can't just go from nothing to full on anal.

Don't listen to this guy
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Condom broke. Gonna have to get a plan B tomorrow...
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You are in a committed relationship. Tell her to get on fucking birth control.
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billcom6 posted...

You are in a committed relationship. Tell her to get on fucking birth control.

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She's used it in the past. She doesn't like how it messes with her hormones. Sex drive and stuff like that
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OpShaft posted...

billcom6 posted...

Don't attempt to have anal sex until she has experiment and used some type of plugs first.
You can't just go from nothing to full on anal.

Don't listen to this guy

If not plugs at least prep with fingers. Why wouldnt you listen to a guy saying to be cautious with anal?
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emblem boy posted...

She's used it in the past. She doesn't like how it messes with her hormones. Sex drive and stuff like that

There are lots of different forms of birth control
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TheGoldenEel posted...

emblem boy posted...

She's used it in the past. She doesn't like how it messes with her hormones. Sex drive and stuff like that

There are lots of different forms of birth control

When she was younger, she's tried the pill, shot, and the type where they insert some thing into you down there
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emblem boy posted...

Condom broke. Gonna have to get a plan B tomorrow...

No 24 hour pharmacy?
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Been chatting it up with a qt pi and was told by some of my online friends that I should send her a dick pic to jumpstart things

So Friday night I sent her one but it wasn't a pic of mine. I doubt she will be able to tell though. Now I'm just waiting to see how things go from here
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MacadamianNut3 posted...

Been chatting it up with a qt pi and was told by some of my online friends that I should send her a dick pic to jumpstart things

So Friday night I sent her one but it wasn't a pic of mine. I doubt she will be able to tell though. Now I'm just waiting to see how things go from here

Good move. You should be laying down some pipe soon for sure.

mrtopgoon327 posted...

emblem boy posted...

Condom broke. Gonna have to get a plan B tomorrow...

No 24 hour pharmacy?

Not that I can think of
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emblem boy posted...

Not that I can think of

next time google it man. gotta be one nearby
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MacadamianNut3 posted...

Been chatting it up with a qt pi and was told by some of my online friends that I should send her a dick pic to jumpstart things

So Friday night I sent her one but it wasn't a pic of mine. I doubt she will be able to tell though. Now I'm just waiting to see how things go from here

Two questions:

1) whose dick was in the pic?

2) why wouldnt you just use your dick?
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I found one using Google that looked a couple inches shorter than mine at ~3 and the same skintones

I didn't send her mine because I want that night to be a surprise for her when it happens
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