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joe40001 09/03/17 1:50:50 AM #51:	KarmaMuffin posted... Millennials posted... She, however, said that she would "never go for a guy like me." So I was like, "Okay what is that supposed to mean?" And she was like, "just your personality and the way you dress. You're also very immature." Naturally, I was offended by that, not because I wanted to be with her or even have sex with her but because I knew all the sordid details of all the gross shit she did with all the trashy people she did it with. She bagged some hotties but she also slummed it fucking hardcore and basically prostituted herself, so it was just mind bogglingly offensive that I would not be good enough for her based on that. I understand not being attracted to someone and not feeling "it" but to imply there was something wrong with me just bugged the shit out of me. I was with you until this This just screams of insecurity It screams of insecurity to not like it when somebody you thought was your friend who routinely spends time with horrible people says "you are beneath her standards".? Let's take sex/romance out of this. If a somebody you thought was a good friend said after years of you helping them out that "you are worse than drug addicted abusive assholes" that wouldn't bother you? --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif <cite>joe40001 posted [p:885932567] in is dis how... [t:75728871]...</cite> <quote><cite>KarmaMuffin posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Millennials posted...</cite> <quote>She, however, said that she would "never go for a guy like me." So I was like, "Okay what is that supposed to mean?" And she was like, "just your personality and the way you dress. You're also very immature." Naturally, I was offended by that, not because I wanted to be with her or even have sex with her but because I knew all the sordid details of all the gross shit she did with all the trashy people she did it with. She bagged some hotties but she also slummed it fucking hardcore and basically prostituted herself, so it was just mind bogglingly offensive that I would not be good enough for her based on that. I understand not being attracted to someone and not feeling "it" but to imply there was something wrong with me just bugged the shit out of me.</quote> I was with you until this This just screams of insecurity</quote> It screams of insecurity to not like it when somebody you thought was your friend who routinely spends time with horrible people says "you are beneath her standards".? Let's take sex/romance out of this. If a somebody you thought was a good friend said after years of you helping them out that "you are worse than drug addicted abusive assholes" that wouldn't bother you?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MutantJohn 09/03/17 2:03:26 AM #52:	I think there's a difference between being a nice person and being a nice guy. I think it's important not to conflate the two concepts. --- "Oh, my mother; oh, my friends, ask the angels, will I ever see heaven again?" - Laura Marling <cite>MutantJohn posted [p:885932928] in is dis how... [t:75728871]...</cite> <quote>I think there's a difference between being a nice person and being a nice guy. I think it's important not to conflate the two concepts.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joe40001 09/03/17 2:06:39 AM #53:	MutantJohn posted... I think there's a difference between being a nice person and being a nice guy. I think it's important not to conflate the two concepts. There isn't much of a difference unless by nice guy you mean "nice guy" (with airquotes) which has come to mean what white knight types like to characterize incels as. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori http://i.imgur.com/TheGsZ9.gif <cite>joe40001 posted [p:885933013] in is dis how... [t:75728871]...</cite> <quote><cite>MutantJohn posted...</cite> <quote>I think there's a difference between being a nice person and being a nice guy. I think it's important not to conflate the two concepts.</quote> There isn't much of a difference unless by nice guy you mean "nice guy" (with airquotes) which has come to mean what white knight types like to characterize incels as.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KarmaMuffin 09/03/17 10:20:00 AM #54:	joe40001 posted... It screams of insecurity to not like it when somebody you thought was your friend who routinely spends time with horrible people says "you are beneath her standards".? No, it screams of insecurity to let "I'd never go for a guy like you" bother you. I have plenty of friends who if they were of the right sex, I still wouldn't want to fuck them because of their personality. There's nothing wrong with that, doesn't mean anything other than the two of you aren't compatible as lovers while being great friends. Who knows what she meant by everything after that question. She could be telling the truth, she could be lying, she could have been too drunk to properly explain herself, she might think he's boring that at least the druggies were exciting, she might have thought that'd spare his feelings better than "you're ugly," or she might think of him too much like a brother to want a sexual relationship... idfk and idc. I won't defend her on that part. What I will say is that letting the comment "I'd never go for a guy like you" bother him is insecurity playing up and you gain nothing by pushing it further (as you can see that he still thinks she's the best friend he's ever had and unfortunately they're not friends anymore). Should've just dropped it because it's not like he wanted to bang her anyway so why bring that up? <cite>KarmaMuffin posted [p:885942845] in is dis how... [t:75728871]...</cite> <quote><cite>joe40001 posted...</cite> <quote>It screams of insecurity to not like it when somebody you thought was your friend who routinely spends time with horrible people says "you are beneath her standards".?</quote> No, it screams of insecurity to let "I'd never go for a guy like you" bother you. I have plenty of friends who if they were of the right sex, I still wouldn't want to fuck them because of their personality. There's nothing wrong with that, doesn't mean anything other than the two of you aren't compatible as lovers while being great friends. Who knows what she meant by everything after that question. She could be telling the truth, she could be lying, she could have been too drunk to properly explain herself, she might think he's boring that at least the druggies were exciting, she might have thought that'd spare his feelings better than "you're ugly," or she might think of him too much like a brother to want a sexual relationship... idfk and idc. I won't defend her on that part. What I will say is that letting the comment "I'd never go for a guy like you" bother him is insecurity playing up and you gain nothing by pushing it further (as you can see that he still thinks she's the best friend he's ever had and unfortunately they're not friends anymore). Should've just dropped it because it's not like he wanted to bang her anyway so why bring that up?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
coolsurfer800 09/03/17 10:34:59 AM #55:	Nice guy is just another word for wimp or pushover. --- No, John. You are the demons. Moms are tough. <cite>coolsurfer800 posted [p:885943290] in is dis how... [t:75728871]...</cite> <quote>Nice guy is just another word for wimp or pushover.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 09/03/17 10:39:40 AM #56:	KarmaMuffin posted... Who knows what she meant by everything after that question. She could be telling the truth, she could be lying, she could have been too drunk to properly explain herself, she might think he's boring that at least the druggies were exciting, she might have thought that'd spare his feelings better than "you're ugly," or she might think of him too much like a brother to want a sexual relationship... idfk and idc. I won't defend her on that part. What I will say is that letting the comment "I'd never go for a guy like you" bother him is insecurity playing up and you gain nothing by pushing it further (as you can see that he still thinks she's the best friend he's ever had and unfortunately they're not friends anymore). Should've just dropped it because it's not like he wanted to bang her anyway so why bring that up? Because it is insulting, If everything he stated is true ( there is not reason to doubt him). Then that is a horrible thing to say. If criminals met her standards then someone who has her back all the time should make her standards. Then she says he is immature when she is a criminal. --- Bender: Well, everybody, I just saved a turtle. What have you done with your lives? <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:885943464] in is dis how... [t:75728871]...</cite> <quote><cite>KarmaMuffin posted...</cite> <quote> Who knows what she meant by everything after that question. She could be telling the truth, she could be lying, she could have been too drunk to properly explain herself, she might think he's boring that at least the druggies were exciting, she might have thought that'd spare his feelings better than "you're ugly," or she might think of him too much like a brother to want a sexual relationship... idfk and idc. I won't defend her on that part. What I will say is that letting the comment "I'd never go for a guy like you" bother him is insecurity playing up and you gain nothing by pushing it further (as you can see that he still thinks she's the best friend he's ever had and unfortunately they're not friends anymore). Should've just dropped it because it's not like he wanted to bang her anyway so why bring that up?</quote> Because it is insulting, If everything he stated is true ( there is not reason to doubt him). Then that is a horrible thing to say. If criminals met her standards then someone who has her back all the time should make her standards. Then she says he is immature when she is a criminal.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KarmaMuffin 09/03/17 10:46:56 AM #57:	cjsdowg posted... If criminals met her standards then someone who has her back all the time should make her standards. Not at all. This is why people make fun of "nice guys." <cite>KarmaMuffin posted [p:885943717] in is dis how... [t:75728871]...</cite> <quote><cite>cjsdowg posted...</cite> <quote>If criminals met her standards then someone who has her back all the time should make her standards.</quote> Not at all. This is why people make fun of "nice guys."</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mario masta 09/03/17 11:04:33 AM #58:	KarmaMuffin posted... Millennials posted... She, however, said that she would "never go for a guy like me." So I was like, "Okay what is that supposed to mean?" And she was like, "just your personality and the way you dress. You're also very immature." Naturally, I was offended by that, not because I wanted to be with her or even have sex with her but because I knew all the sordid details of all the gross shit she did with all the trashy people she did it with. She bagged some hotties but she also slummed it fucking hardcore and basically prostituted herself, so it was just mind bogglingly offensive that I would not be good enough for her based on that. I understand not being attracted to someone and not feeling "it" but to imply there was something wrong with me just bugged the shit out of me. I was with you until this This just screams of insecurity While that may or may not be true, there were still a million better ways she could have phrased her response about his personality and immaturity. That's incredibly insulting especially coming from her of all people. --- ...I guess... <cite>mario masta posted [p:885944339] in is dis how... [t:75728871]...</cite> <quote><cite>KarmaMuffin posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Millennials posted...</cite> <quote>She, however, said that she would "never go for a guy like me." So I was like, "Okay what is that supposed to mean?" And she was like, "just your personality and the way you dress. You're also very immature." Naturally, I was offended by that, not because I wanted to be with her or even have sex with her but because I knew all the sordid details of all the gross shit she did with all the trashy people she did it with. She bagged some hotties but she also slummed it fucking hardcore and basically prostituted herself, so it was just mind bogglingly offensive that I would not be good enough for her based on that. I understand not being attracted to someone and not feeling "it" but to imply there was something wrong with me just bugged the shit out of me.</quote> I was with you until this This just screams of insecurity</quote> While that may or may not be true, there were still a million better ways she could have phrased her response about his personality and immaturity. That's incredibly insulting especially coming from her of all people.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Millennials 09/03/17 11:30:48 AM #59:	It was more curiosity than insecurity. I wasn't even insulted by her saying that, more by what was to come. If she had said, "oh, I just don't see him that way" or "he's not the guy for me," I wouldn't have given it a second thought. To say she would "never go for a guy like me" is a very open-ended testament to what she thought of me not just as a potential lover but as a person in general. "A guy like me" could've meant a lot of different things and tbh I didn't expect them to be as nonsensical as they were. <cite>Millennials posted [p:885945294] in is dis how... [t:75728871]...</cite> <quote>It was more curiosity than insecurity. I wasn't even insulted by her saying that, more by what was to come. If she had said, "oh, I just don't see him that way" or "he's not the guy for me," I wouldn't have given it a second thought. To say she would "never go for a guy like me" is a very open-ended testament to what she thought of me not just as a potential lover but as a person in general. "A guy like me" could've meant a lot of different things and tbh I didn't expect them to be as nonsensical as they were.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MutantJohn 09/03/17 11:38:34 AM #60:	I kind of get what KarmaMuffin is going for but I'm more on Millenials' side. Or at least, I'm able to empathize with his reaction a bit more. Fundamentally again, hos is hos is hos, man. --- "Oh, my mother; oh, my friends, ask the angels, will I ever see heaven again?" - Laura Marling <cite>MutantJohn posted [p:885945543] in is dis how... [t:75728871]...</cite> <quote>I kind of get what KarmaMuffin is going for but I'm more on Millenials' side. Or at least, I'm able to empathize with his reaction a bit more. Fundamentally again, hos is hos is hos, man.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pkmnlord 09/03/17 1:06:31 PM #61:	Millennials posted... To say she would "never go for a guy like me" is a very open-ended testament to what she thought of me not just as a potential lover but as a person in general. "A guy like me" could've meant a lot of different things and tbh I didn't expect them to be as nonsensical as they were. Yeah, it even works in reverse, it's like when bitches say they want to find a guy like you but you're a guy like you. --- http://i.imgur.com/MP7ZznH.jpg <cite>pkmnlord posted [p:885949327] in is dis how... [t:75728871]...</cite> <quote><cite>Millennials posted...</cite> <quote>To say she would "never go for a guy like me" is a very open-ended testament to what she thought of me not just as a potential lover but as a person in general. "A guy like me" could've meant a lot of different things and tbh I didn't expect them to be as nonsensical as they were.</quote> Yeah, it even works in reverse, it's like when bitches say they want to find a guy like you but you're a guy like you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 09/03/17 1:09:11 PM #62:	pkmnlord posted... Yeah, it even works in reverse, it's like when b**es say they want to find a guy like you but you're a guy like you. I think that one just means you are ugly to them( I got it before) and I can see any other reasoning . --- Bender: Well, everybody, I just saved a turtle. What have you done with your lives? <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:885949462] in is dis how... [t:75728871]...</cite> <quote><cite>pkmnlord posted...</cite> <quote> Yeah, it even works in reverse, it's like when b**es say they want to find a guy like you but you're a guy like you.</quote> I think that one just means you are ugly to them( I got it before) and I can see any other reasoning .</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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