Board 8 > Were you praised as a kid?

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foolm0r0n
08/23/17 1:22:28 PM
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Were you often praised for your skills/intelligence as a kid?





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LeonhartFour
08/23/17 1:23:59 PM
#2:


yeah I did and I never get praised anymore

I miss those days
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digiiiiiiiii
08/23/17 1:25:13 PM
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fuck facebook status

i need those retweets

and none of that bullshit favoriting either, real god damn retweets
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ninkendo
08/23/17 1:29:37 PM
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Nope I was top of my class and never got any praise,because it was expected of me

Now when I get praise these days for something either I did in my job or for someone else I don't know how to process it because I never got it before
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GenesisSaga
08/23/17 1:33:41 PM
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I was not praised as a child, I was worshiped
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INCEPTlON
08/23/17 1:39:37 PM
#6:


Yes i did and I do not enjoy it now. I like a simple " Good job" but excessive praise makes me feel uncomfortable
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velocycloraptor
08/23/17 1:41:25 PM
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Nah best I ever got was "that's what you are supposed to do" type stuff

Hate getting praised now bc I have no idea how to deal with it and assume the person is lying or something
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foolm0r0n
08/23/17 1:41:33 PM
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GenesisSaga posted...
I was not praised as a child, I was worshiped

Praise Genny
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CeraSeptem
08/23/17 1:42:13 PM
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No, and praise beyond a basic appreciation makes me deeply uncomfortable
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Jakyl25
08/23/17 1:50:36 PM
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Often praised as a kid, hate it now

Instilled me with a sense that my worth was tied to grades
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kateee
08/23/17 1:51:20 PM
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i only like anonymous praise. please do not praise me to my face.
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foolm0r0n
08/23/17 1:53:47 PM
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The praise I got as a kid didn't make me change my sense of worth, but it made me very disillusioned with praise in general since I felt it was always so cheap and given for the dumbest achievements that were not praise worthy at all.
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MysticBrohan
08/23/17 2:10:56 PM
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never praised growing up
i wouldnt say i dislike being praised now, but im pretty bad at taking a compliment
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Jakyl25
08/23/17 2:31:54 PM
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foolm0r0n posted...
The praise I got as a kid didn't make me change my sense of worth, but it made me very disillusioned with praise in general since I felt it was always so cheap and given for the dumbest achievements that were not praise worthy at all.


I interpreted the relationship between praise and achievements oppositely

If these achievements are what I'm getting praised for, they must be the only ones worth caring about.
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ChaosTonyV4
08/23/17 2:36:36 PM
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When I did things worthy of it, probably?
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RyoCaliente
08/23/17 3:23:26 PM
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Never got praised, only heard I could be doing better.
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pjbasis
08/23/17 5:33:49 PM
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I never gave much thought to this before.

I don't really care if I'm praised or not I guess, but I'll take a compliment.
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HotDogButts
08/23/17 5:54:11 PM
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Praised constantly growing up, def made me think I was better than everyone else when I was younger (or at the least just infinitely smarter), prob was a bit of a douche because of it, if I had to guess, but I was never really full of myself. Probably took me until high school to realize there were plenty of other people as smart/smarter than me, and college to realize that work ethic, responsibility, etc >>> intelligence. Don't think I'm particularly intelligent anymore and do not like receiving praise these days, just makes me uncomfortable.
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Mr Lasastryke
08/23/17 6:40:44 PM
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where's the "was not praised and don't have strong feelings one way or the other if i get praised now" option?
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thundersheep
08/23/17 6:43:51 PM
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HotDogButts posted...
Praised constantly growing up, def made me think I was better than everyone else when I was younger (or at the least just infinitely smarter), prob was a bit of a douche because of it, if I had to guess, but I was never really full of myself. Probably took me until high school to realize there were plenty of other people as smart/smarter than me, and college to realize that work ethic, responsibility, etc >>> intelligence. Don't think I'm particularly intelligent anymore and do not like receiving praise these days, just makes me uncomfortable.


Yep, this sounds like me.
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Cybat
08/23/17 6:55:06 PM
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thundersheep posted...
HotDogButts posted...
Praised constantly growing up, def made me think I was better than everyone else when I was younger (or at the least just infinitely smarter), prob was a bit of a douche because of it, if I had to guess, but I was never really full of myself. Probably took me until high school to realize there were plenty of other people as smart/smarter than me, and college to realize that work ethic, responsibility, etc >>> intelligence. Don't think I'm particularly intelligent anymore and do not like receiving praise these days, just makes me uncomfortable.


Yep, this sounds like me.


pretty much verbatim for me too
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XIII_rocks
08/23/17 7:09:36 PM
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ChaosTonyV4 posted...
When I did things worthy of it, probably?


This

Praise often makes me feel uncomfortable too, like I wasn't worthy of it. I think if anything I believe I'm capable of doing more, or better, or maybe focus on the negatives of what I did too much.
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LeonhartFour
08/23/17 7:15:20 PM
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I beat myself up for my own mistakes plenty so some affirmation every now and then is nice

it feels needy to ask other people for affirmation though so I get stuck in a vicious cycle of wanting something but not wanting to ask for it
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Dark Young Link
08/23/17 7:23:09 PM
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Eh. At times, but not to an extreme amount.

I like getting praised, but at the same time I also don't like it when too much attention is brought upon me. Guess I've always been a bit odd.
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foolm0r0n
08/24/17 1:33:24 AM
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Mr Lasastryke posted...
where's the "was not praised and don't have strong feelings one way or the other if i get praised now" option?

You have feelings
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HeeCawRoo
08/24/17 1:38:12 AM
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i dont actually remember, but i know i like being praised now
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MZero11
08/24/17 1:54:27 AM
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In a way yes. It was mostly about how much better I could do if I actually put effort into things though
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Ngamer64
08/24/17 5:04:31 AM
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LeonhartFour posted...
yeah I did and I never get praised anymore

I miss those days

Nice bracket!
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Raka_Putra
08/24/17 5:08:08 AM
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Sometimes, I think. I didn't really buy it or think about it then.
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RPGlord95
08/24/17 6:02:07 AM
#30:


When i deserved to be.

I still get tons of praise.

It mattered so much to me until i won UotY. Since that is the peak of praise i stopped caring and now am comfortable in my excellence.
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foolm0r0n
08/24/17 10:43:29 AM
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Winning UOTY doesn't really get you praise, it's more of a badge of honor that you clawed your way to the top and won the game of thrones
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LeonhartFour
08/24/17 5:48:28 PM
#32:


Ngamer64 posted...
LeonhartFour posted...
yeah I did and I never get praised anymore

I miss those days

Nice bracket!


I haven't had a nice bracket since 2005
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