Current Events > My new Girlfriend barely eats any food when we go out.. What should I do?

(+) Yeah! (+)

I'm dating a new girl and after going out 3 times i noticed she eats really really small portions. She is a skinny girl (5'3/160cms and 108lbs/49kgs).

I used to date a girl during the last 6 months and she could usually eat fair/normal portions for her body/weight (She was average in any case) so going out to eat was never a problem since 99% of the time we could go whenever we wanted or choose. In fact, we both had a knack for going out and eating, then hitting my place during all that time we dated, it was a very integral part of our relationship.

As for this new girl, she cant eat much and that means buying her a common plate/dish/portion of whatever we eat would be a waste since she roughly eats 30-35% of it at best, which means i have to help her finish (that happened those 3 times we went to eat something, she couldnt finish, so she asked me to help her with that)

Now, some people make think this could be an advantage since i will spend less food money on her, which is true, but at the same time the truth is right now money is not a major problem for me so going out to eat is something i do like doing, but in this case, this means i will feel kinda limited due to the fact she cant eat much.

I could always just buy a portion and give her a bit of it, but that means i would have to eat less, and of course, it will be a bit very awkward just to buy one portion/dinner and sharing a little bit to my girlfriend, at least people will think im pretty stingy or something like that lol.

Anything i could do about this? Would it be crazy/stupid to think this could actually affect the relationship at some point?

And for those wondering, she doesnt have weight problems or stuff like anoxeria at all, she just eats very little (even if she doesnt eat anything at lunch or during the day, all those 3 times we met were at night and she told me she barely ate anything during the day).
---

Eat her food
---

Smoke some weed
---

You are a odd person to complain about such a thing.
---

i used to date a girl who would never eat. Didnt bother me really
---

Order a main dish and a side for 2 persons. Problem solved.
---

Mount her.
---

If she can't finish it, she can't finish it. Either have her get a to go box or throw it away.
---

You found a girl that causes you to spend less money on dates than you normally do yet you still manage to complain about it.
---

Its unladylike to pig out in a social situation.
A full stomach will stick out like a sore thumb if she's lean and fit.

Ever seen a hot chick in the beach/pool pig out and walk around with a bloated, protruding gut 30 mins later? me neither.

Take out boxes will be your friend.
---

CHEAT on her with her MOM
---

Stop paying. Split the bill.
---

Your complaining that your girlfriend isn't a fat whale who shoves food down her mouth?

Only on CE.
---

Be happy she is saving you money, why are you complaining here ?!, a woman not trying to order a lot of food is a good thing.
---

What even is this topic? Only TC would complain about this.
---

Let me tell her about burgers.
---

AbstraktProfSC2 posted...

CHEAT on her with her MOM

ok this is a 10/10 post
---

emblem boy posted...

If she can't finish it, she can't finish it. Either have her get a to go box or throw it away.

---

Or, you could order two appetizers (or at least always an appetizer) and then it won't look too weird if she doesn't order an entree. She can just say, "Oh I'll just continue to munch on this"
---