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Alkeez
08/04/17 5:43:12 AM
#163:


Hey Harpie. Im really sorry to hear about this. It seems that you handle the people who are dicks in a good way, but what kills me is that you say you only have Gamefaqs to lean on :(

Im not a religious person, but from my understanding, they do have a great support system for things like this. You might be better off going to some kind of religious facility that are open to the support you might need. They often think and deal with death a lot more than the average person.
Or call some suicide help line and tell them your dealing with grief and ask if there are communities nearby that you can casually join, even if its just to deal with it. No commitments attached
Or use some of the people here who said that they have been through it too and want to help!

I cant imagine dealing with something like this on my own :/ So i really hope you find someone to help you deal with the pain!

Best of luck!
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DocileOrangeCup
08/04/17 6:00:59 AM
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ReignFury
08/04/17 6:07:38 AM
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I dont feel any sympathy for suicide, theres nobody who can tell me its not selfish. I have sympathy for those left behind to pick up the pieces. It will get easier TC.
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teepan95
08/04/17 6:08:55 AM
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cuttin_in_farm
08/04/17 6:17:51 AM
#167:


A few... tactless people in here...
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Kitt
08/04/17 6:22:43 AM
#168:


I'm still waiting for my dad to die. Any day now.
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DrizztLink
08/04/17 6:29:41 AM
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cuttin_in_farm posted...
A few... tactless people in here...

Vandor's shit was unacceptable. Yet he'll be back in a few days crying "not my fault liberals something."
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Alkeez
08/04/17 6:37:39 AM
#170:


ReignFury posted...
I dont feel any sympathy for suicide, theres nobody who can tell me its not selfish. I have sympathy for those left behind to pick up the pieces. It will get easier TC.



I listened to this radio show that interviewed someone who killed himself, got brought back to life by paramedics, forced into therapy and ended up writing a book about the whole experience. Didnt read the book, but damn, it was a powerful interview. I kinda had your thoughts before it, but that changed me.
My understanding is that for those who are on that path, they feel horribly guilty and they feel like they are a burden to everyone around them. And that ending it, will not only solve their own problem, but everyone elses as well

It might be selfish, im actually not going to debate that. But what i can tell you is that for many, they feel its more selfish to not leave. And going against human instinct and go through with something like that, i do think that the person deserves a little sympathy. The thoughts during that path, cant be easy!
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Kanaya413
08/04/17 6:44:30 AM
#172:


Oh fuck I'm so fucking sorry Harpie :( I'm here for you okay
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deanshow
08/04/17 6:58:54 AM
#173:


Sorry for your loss man. That sucks to hear.

And to the two trolls in this topic wtf is wrong with you? I like to troll too but this shit is low
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awesome999
08/04/17 7:05:15 AM
#174:


Rip

Hang in there
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MetaMajik
08/04/17 7:15:04 AM
#175:


ThyCorndog posted...
is this an example of how like, what was it, 1 or 2 % of people are physically incapable of empathy? is that what's on display here?


While posting something as deep and emotional as this on the internet is extremely odd I wouldn't go as far to say that Harpie is incapable of empathy.
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spikethedevil
08/04/17 7:15:59 AM
#176:


And another pos troll appears.
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FaultyGourry
08/04/17 7:32:23 AM
#177:


I'm so sorry for your loss, Harpie. I lost my mother the same way 5 years back. I'd never wish the kind of pain that caused me on anyone. I may have dealt with a similar pain to what you're dealing with now, but I still can not hope to understand what you are going through. Just remember, this was not your fault. No matter what anyone one says, no matter what happens and no matter how many doubts that may come to you, always remember it was not your fault. Surround yourself with people who care about you. Let them be your rock and lean on them for when/if you break. Take your time healing and don't push yourself or let anyone else push you forward until you are ready. Stay strong and take it one day at a time.
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OleBillyBoy225
08/04/17 7:34:13 AM
#178:


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Lorenzo_2003
08/04/17 7:35:26 AM
#179:


Harpie posted...

It's fucking true, my mom's fucking gone. I just got a fucking call from my aunt that she was found in the fucking closet hanging by a fucking belt


@Harpie
I'm sorry. It was wrong of me to speak harshly. Losing a loved one is a truly terrible feeling, so I hope you can find comfort in those around you. My condolences.
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Melonfarms
08/04/17 7:44:03 AM
#181:


Wow. That is horrible news. Sorry for your loss Harpie.
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Fantastein
08/04/17 7:53:35 AM
#182:


Never spoken to you before, but I'm so, so sorry for you. I don't know if you're still feeling 'nothing' like you said on the first page, but if you are, don't let that get to you. We all grieve differently, and our emotions can act in unexpected ways. It's not an unusual thing.

My condolences.
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Drrobotniks
08/04/17 11:02:12 AM
#183:


DeathVelvien posted...
I've marked him multiple times by now, but I guess the mods don't see blatantly trolling a grieving poster a moddable offense.

Lol get over it.

dollarflashsale posted...
VandorLee posted...
dollarflashsale posted...
hey VandorLee can you kindly stfu and get out of this topic. we heard enough out of this turd.


Everyones free to ignore me. Its a literal feature. Use it.


use this bastard fuck off. go suck a fat one.

So mad, lol
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DezCaughtIt
08/04/17 11:03:55 AM
#185:


My condolences
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Darkman124
08/04/17 11:06:21 AM
#186:


it gets better, but it gets worse first

don't hesitate to reach out to anyone you want to for help in dealing with the pain of this for the next few years

they will be there for you. any person worth a shit would be.

i'm really sorry this happened to you. i know how much it hurts.
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MACisBack
08/04/17 11:10:34 AM
#187:


Darkman124 posted...
it gets better, but it gets worse first

don't hesitate to reach out to anyone you want to for help in dealing with the pain of this for the next few years

they will be there for you. any person worth a shit would be.

i'm really sorry this happened to you. i know how much it hurts.


I agree with Darkman, and I send my prayers and condolences out to you TC and your family.
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thelovefist
08/04/17 11:17:44 AM
#188:


Sorry for your loss. That is terrible.
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Drrobotniks
08/04/17 11:23:42 AM
#190:


Conflict posted...
I can already tell your life is pretty miserable

It's actually pretty decent right now!
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Cleo_II
08/04/17 11:27:16 AM
#191:


I'm so sorry honey :(
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Alucard188
08/04/17 11:29:17 AM
#192:


frozenshock posted...
A mom dying is one of the worst moment in anyone's life. Be strong, Harpie.

And I can't believe some people would have the guts to troll a topic like this. Seriously, wtf.


Truth to both of these.
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Vyrulisse
08/04/17 11:29:31 AM
#193:


*Virtual Hug*
I hope you get through this, Harps.
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Alucard188
08/04/17 11:36:10 AM
#195:


Conflict posted...
Alucard188 posted...
frozenshock posted...
A mom dying is one of the worst moment in anyone's life. Be strong, Harpie.

And I can't believe some people would have the guts to troll a topic like this. Seriously, wtf.


Truth to both of these.


You know there's some posts right above yours that could really use some modding.


You know it takes time to do these things, right? We're not all-knowing and all seeing. Sorry I can't express my condolences without somebody piss moaning about how we're not doing an acceptable job.
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ExtremeLuchador
08/04/17 11:37:48 AM
#196:


I got trolled badly ten years ago when I discussed a death in my family.
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Burgess
08/04/17 11:39:07 AM
#198:


Conflict posted...
That's why I was bringing them to your attention


Marking posts does that.
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thelovefist
08/04/17 11:39:41 AM
#199:


Alucard188 posted...
Conflict posted...
Alucard188 posted...
frozenshock posted...
A mom dying is one of the worst moment in anyone's life. Be strong, Harpie.

And I can't believe some people would have the guts to troll a topic like this. Seriously, wtf.


Truth to both of these.


You know there's some posts right above yours that could really use some modding.


You know it takes time to do these things, right? We're not all-knowing and all seeing. Sorry I can't express my condolences without somebody piss moaning about how we're not doing an acceptable job.

The posts were right above yours though...
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Darkman124
08/04/17 11:41:21 AM
#200:


thelovefist posted...

The posts were right above yours though...


alucard probably does not actively moderate CE
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Alucard188
08/04/17 11:45:09 AM
#201:


Darkman124 posted...
thelovefist posted...

The posts were right above yours though...


alucard probably does not actively moderate CE


I also don't read every single post in a 4-page topic before posting something.
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EyeWontBeFooled
08/04/17 11:46:32 AM
#202:


Be strong @Harpie, and know there will always be more people with you than against you. You got this.

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ThunderMuffin
08/04/17 11:48:06 AM
#203:


jesus christ i'm sorry
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Fossil
08/04/17 12:07:02 PM
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spikethedevil
08/04/17 12:12:35 PM
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Apparently calling out SBAllen for is now disruptive lol. My condolences TC loosing a family member is an horrific thing to go through.
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ThyCorndog
08/04/17 12:21:20 PM
#206:


MetaMajik posted...
ThyCorndog posted...
is this an example of how like, what was it, 1 or 2 % of people are physically incapable of empathy? is that what's on display here?


While posting something as deep and emotional as this on the internet is extremely odd I wouldn't go as far to say that Harpie is incapable of empathy.

I was talking about vandorlee
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InYourWalls1
08/04/17 12:41:40 PM
#207:


Really sorry to hear that

Harpie posted...
Why dont I feel anything? It feels fake. Like what if it's a joke? I dunno if I'm making any sense


With my dad I didn't really process things until years later, but it is something you overcome and you do feel better, just take some time for yourself
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Kanaya413
08/04/17 12:46:24 PM
#208:


ExtremeLuchador posted...
I got trolled badly ten years ago when I discussed a death in my family.

Yeah someone trolled me over my abuse a while back
silver lining was it upset me so much I told my cousin about it which helped lead to getting me help
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MetaMajik
08/04/17 1:35:28 PM
#209:


ThyCorndog posted...
MetaMajik posted...
ThyCorndog posted...
is this an example of how like, what was it, 1 or 2 % of people are physically incapable of empathy? is that what's on display here?


While posting something as deep and emotional as this on the internet is extremely odd I wouldn't go as far to say that Harpie is incapable of empathy.

I was talking about vandorlee


Ah, I didn't know.
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Fill_Kessel
08/04/17 1:39:14 PM
#210:


Harpie posted...
I dont feel anything ce

My mother has attempted a number of times and it is my expectation that she will again, and be successful. I understand the quoted statement.
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clyde_frog
08/04/17 3:30:47 PM
#211:


TC I'm so sorry...I really am. I've thought about what it would be like to lose one of my parents before and imagining it is just too painful. Actually experiencing it must be hell. God I'm sorry man, nobody deserves this.
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armandro
08/04/17 3:38:13 PM
#212:


clyde_frog posted...
TC I'm so sorry...I really am. I've thought about what it would be like to lose one of my parents before and imagining it is just too painful. Actually experiencing it must be hell. God I'm sorry man, nobody deserves this.

If i lost my dad I think I would just be in denial. i hate feeling bad, but who knows how long i could block it out for.
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JosefuJustice11
08/04/17 4:02:10 PM
#213:


My deepest condolences TC.

I am very sorry this happened and disgusted that anyone would even think about trolling this topic.
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