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| Topic | A lot of single people's expectation are just way too high |
| cuttin_in_farm 04/20/24 1:20:22 PM #28: | Any topic about dating I really always advocate for speed dating.
Its online dating but in person. It also fast forwards to the important part. Conversation. Its like skipping the resume stage of job searching. Being able to go straight to interviews is a godsend. But TC is correct. I see young women dating dudes 30+ because they are stable. Not willing to work with younger guys who arent already good. Dudes are always aiming for women that look great but wont value what the guy can do. Completely ignoring the women who would. Its a matter of not being willing to see the beyond surface level traits people have. How do they act when youre sad? How do they treat your family? Do they act different when alone with you vs with their friends? So many traits that, tbh, are much harder to change than the surface level ones. But its ignored. Especially in an age where people encourage not talking about serious topics early. Like dating intent or kids. How can people expect perfect things if yall aint talking about what ideal even is? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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