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Blue_Popo posted...

Thats your relationship and Im happy for you. Self identifying as a feminist sort of implies to me you dont need a man and can carry your weight. Also we make similar amounts and are similar age. Why is it 100% me, this is coming from a guy who has had relationships in the past which were 80% me in terms of money. All I valued was "would this person pay" and a "thank you"

I mean you can still do this while communicating it. Maybe "forget" your wallet once or just straight ask if she would feel comfortable paying for one. That will give you the exact answer you want instead of just making assumptions and wondering. Don't just lose what could be a good thing based on assumptions! Communicate, communicate, communicate!