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I've been to just a few strip clubs, lounges, and clubs back then but I'm no regular. One of them at the bachelor's party after a wedding. It was alright, I felt like I was forcing my buddies I met at church I grew up at to invite me. Yes believe it or not that's where I met them since we were of college age anyway, most of them graduated a few years ago while I was still in midst of finding what to do with my own degree.

Anyway, yeah, it's probably hard to get a boner if you're getting a lapdance in front of everybody. My friends paid $20 for one, and the stripper asked if I enjoyed it and I was like redfaced, I was like yeah. I should've said this is my first time can you tell, just to strike small chitchat. And then another stripper who was a redhead asked if I wanted a private dance. Should've taken my friend's advice when he saw that a red-headed stripper was asking me for a private lapdance. But the whole group told me not to say yes to those strippers that ask cause it'll cost you money.

I had the money too, dang it, I may have regret it, cause what if it could've been something more? It's legal there too. Just kidding. For more cringy stories like this one, I will not follow the advice of T-Pain and fall in love with a stripper. Just can't get a stripper to fall in love with one person sorry. But some people live the lifestyle, I won't be ashamed to admit that I'm not one of them. Sorry not trying to make you guys look bad or whatever. You do you.

Anyway, I missed the times when I was skating and they would try to hit on random girls, ones that don't seem to have bfs. Like we were just skating to the mall one day and visited a Halloween store with all these masks. We would wear random masks and try to do our own impersonations and our Mexican friend would wear a blonde girl mask, and he ran up to us and put his arms around us and said something about doing some girly stuff like I forget. I forget, anyway, got a couple laughs from the female clerk at the store. She was probably digging my Mexican friend, lol.

I'm not a natural though, so I tend to shy from it. But has anyone been in a relationship? I've had a fling with a mixed black hispanic chick in middle school, this was when people jokingly thought I was a gangster, one of my friend's parents thought I really was, or a bad influence. This was before my skating days when I wore brands like Jnco which skaters thought were for posers here in CA. Anyway it didn't go any further than an innocent fling.

Later on in my life, my Korean friend tried to hook my freshman highschool self with a 7th grader! Which I thought was like, whoa she looked and IS way too young when we met up. But I was too self-conscious bout me odor, you know how that goes, puberty and exercising daily, anyway. Plus I had a fling with a Korean girl at our church at the time, so I didn't want to complicate things. I thought I put relationships til later but...anyway I try when I was with my Korean friends, skate/bmx buddies or not, at our church or with my friend's neigbhor.