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ParanoidObsessive posted...

There are also almost certainly people who identify as bi who reject the entire premise that gender fluidity or "gender queer" identities exist at all, because regardless of how Internet social culture tends to assume those are given and established concepts and anyone who disagrees is being phobic, there are a LOT of people in the world who exist outside of that sphere who don't accept the argument.

I'm fine with anyone being who they are, or feel they are, and any sexual enjoyment as long as it is concentual and private (and nobody gets hurt that doesn't want to).

At the same time some would consider me anti-trans (which is crazy) because I feel that sexual organs should be used to determine what changing room/restroom you use, especially for children.

My line, I guess you would call it, is when your beliefs/identity/sexuality crosses over and starts affecting other people. You are free to be who you want, to look like what you want and be treated as what you want, but you shouldn't put your own freedom over other's. If someone doesn't want to look at male junk (heck I don't want to look at male junk) and especially if they don't want their children to, then they should not have to.

So to me, that means unless there is a separate changing room for all genders, or female junk only people, then anyone with male junk should not use a female changing room/bathroom (I don't care as much about female junk in a male changing room because there is far less female on male sexual crimes etc).

So yeah, I'm pro LGBT etc, totally happy for anyone who finds love or even sexual release in any capacity with another willing human being. I celebrate anyone who finds a way to feel comfortable in their own skin and I applaud men and women who know themselves enough to make a large change to enable that.

The only thing I'm anti is suffering or trauma, causing pain to others (against their will) and taking away a persons freedom or ability to live the life they want.

While I'll support anyone's right to dress how they want, identify as who they are etc, I also support the freedom to not be exposed to things that make you uncomfortable or that might remind you of previous trauma etc. There has to be a way for everyone to get along together and not be so forceful/aggressive in the stances they take.


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