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Topic	I'm not doing so well
MrMallard 07/24/21 5:39:08 AM #27:	RedJackson posted... Its all good and fwiw I think what youre feeling is at least very rational If you cant take care of yourself right now thats one thing, but trying to help out someone else can be a problem sometimes with that going on.. If you want to talk to her and it distracts you for a bit though, why not? Its okay >_> People can grieve together and thats not a problem at all if you want to focus on that if it helps you stay grounded to the Earth. okay can mean different things, I know you waited on that appointment and if it helped to count the days.. well, count the days again itll feel weird or awkward, almost like youre just blowing off how you feel but thats not really true its just how you really feel, I guess you can just forget about it and just ride the days out do you have anyone to talk to irl? Counting might work again, but I don't think it'll be as effective. I counted down the days, and nothing happened. I was disappointed. The "magic" of it, for lack of a better term, is gone. A more dramatic way of phrasing it might be that my hope is shattered. A big aspect of my troubles is that I've isolated myself from the friends I felt the most comfortable being around, and the few friends I do have are like drinking buddies. I don't think I can turn to them, at least not yet. Family and friends are out of the picture, and I've been relying heavily on platforms like GameFAQs where I have friends and acquaintances to help bear the burden when it gets to be a bit much. ModLogic posted... beyond blue sounds disgusting. acting like they care with those commercials. They offer an important service, I just felt a bit jaded by the end of it. It had the same problems as the rest of my search. I do believe that helplines can help, and I actually got some solid advice in the end despite it not being the standard of care that I needed. This second helpline I spoke to at the hospital was much worse. It's more of a preference thing to my understanding - there's known discourse about whether helplines actually help people, and it does meet a standard of care for certain people and helps them with their issues. --- But I don't have to make this mistake, and I don't have to stay this way. Now Playing: Persona 5 Strikers, Oxenfree, Oldschool Runescape <cite>MrMallard posted [p:956410176] in I'm not do... [t:79580350]...</cite> <quote>RedJackson posted... </cite> <quote>Its all good and fwiw I think what youre feeling is at least very rational If you cant take care of yourself right now thats one thing, but trying to help out someone else can be a problem sometimes with that going on.. If you want to talk to her and it distracts you for a bit though, why not? Its okay >_> People can grieve together and thats not a problem at all if you want to focus on that if it helps you stay grounded to the Earth. okay can mean different things, I know you waited on that appointment and if it helped to count the days.. well, count the days again itll feel weird or awkward, almost like youre just blowing off how you feel but thats not really true its just how you really feel, I guess you can just forget about it and just ride the days out do you have anyone to talk to irl?</quote>Counting might work again, but I don't think it'll be as effective. I counted down the days, and nothing happened. I was disappointed. The "magic" of it, for lack of a better term, is gone. A more dramatic way of phrasing it might be that my hope is shattered. A big aspect of my troubles is that I've isolated myself from the friends I felt the most comfortable being around, and the few friends I do have are like drinking buddies. I don't think I can turn to them, at least not yet. Family and friends are out of the picture, and I've been relying heavily on platforms like GameFAQs where I have friends and acquaintances to help bear the burden when it gets to be a bit much. ModLogic posted... </cite> <quote>beyond blue sounds disgusting. acting like they care with those commercials.</quote>They offer an important service, I just felt a bit jaded by the end of it. It had the same problems as the rest of my search. I do believe that helplines can help, and I actually got some solid advice in the end despite it not being the standard of care that I needed. This second helpline I spoke to at the hospital was much worse. It's more of a preference thing to my understanding - there's known discourse about whether helplines actually help people, and it does meet a standard of care for certain people and helps them with their issues. --- But I don't have to make this mistake, and I don't have to stay this way. Now Playing: Persona 5 Strikers, Oxenfree, Oldschool Runescape</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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