This isnt really related but i had a buddy who was a long time drinker and stoner who got engaged and as soon as they were engaged his girl just expected him to stop smoking weed and drink only on the rare occasion she did.
He changed nothing and she got more and more miserable and bitter for months till they broke it off.
It was just so strange. She didnt seemingly have a problem with it at all for years and then it was like you proposed and i accepted so now you will be the person i decide you should.
it was so weird. Like dude has been a stoner half his life and suddenly you dont want him to be. He was never a drinker till we started hanging out and 15 or so years later hes a genuine drunk and i kinda have guilt issues over that just cause he doesnt handle his liquor that well and also will drink before or at work and we were friends for a decade before he would really even drink more than 4 beers and even at that basically only drank with me.
Is this the same dude who broke his bike and shit? ---