LogFAQs > #943225280

What is the real difference man? I get that you find her attractive, but seriously, she's already cuddling with you and stuff, I wouldn't push it, just let things happen casually, be open with your feelings but you don't have to put a label on it. You can just let her know you enjoy her company and hanging out with her, do so when possible, have fun together etc.

If you make a discussion out of it, you could end up in a relationship right now, or everything could just blow up. It sounds like you really enjoy her company, she isn't dating anyone else, and you guys are already semi-dating if your cuddling together, you just have not labeled it.

As time goes on she'll get more comfortable with you, and you can maybe ask if she wants to go on a trip or something where you will spend even more time together, no reason to just jump in and say lets date. It's not a horrible thing to do mind you, but if it feels wrong, don't do it. If you are not sure of the signals your getting from her, then just spend more time with her and if she's interested the signals will become more clear.

Go swimming with her for instance, that is often a way to tell if a woman is interested in you as more than a friend, if there is lots of touching/tickling etc or you splash each other whatever, just there are different ways people interact when they are attracted to each other as apposed to just friends.

And is it really so bad if you guys are just friends anyway? Sex is great and all that but a good friend, or a good relationship with another person is priceless. You can meet lots of girls who are attractive to casually date, or have sex with, but someone you have known for 15 years and who is comfortable with you, and you both enjoy each others company is priceless.

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