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Topic	I wish incels stopped saying that being nice drives women away
joe40001 01/25/20 3:01:10 PM #16:	Ultima Dragon posted... Women are attracted to confidence. Confident guys are usually a bit douchey, but they're not going around throwing garbage at homeless people or kicking puppies. Nobody is perfect. A normal guy is gonna disagree with some points, poke fun or tease, maybe even lose his cool from time to time. No one should be 100% agreeable and accommodating at all times. Women want to be challenged. Edit: Also, nice guys frequently hide their true intentions. If you're talking to an attractive girl, chances are you want to date/fuck her. Pretending that you don't isn't doing you any favours, they see right through that shit. Any normal guy is going to make his interest and intentions known after a short period of time. That doesn't make him a bad person or a sexual predator. He just knows what he wants and goes for it. I don't think nice guys hide their intentions, they won't say shit like "i'm not interested in you" they just don't force their interest in somebody's face. Do nice guys maybe worry too much about bothering the girl? Yes. But is it really better to be more selfish? To be more douchey? Just about all the time "confident" people are just people who care less if they are right about their strengths and less about other people but themselves. Actual confidence is humility. And the main thing at the end of the day it's way easier to be selfish and less considerate than it is to be over-vigilant about not coming on too strong and over considerate of the other person. So "confident" people can claim a better strategy for getting laid, but I hate it when it's claimed that they are morally superior or better people. No nice guy wants to be so self-sacrificing, but they've been condition to believe it's the "right thing" to do. They are trying to do the right thing, that's morally superior to being selfish. Is it a better strategy to get laid? No. Might it even lead to a life eventually of bitterness, bitterness when acted on making you a worse person? Yes. But the actual act of trying to be considerate, selfless, and "nice" is not a "bad" act, and it's frustrating to see so many people punch down at those who do it. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 <cite>joe40001 posted [p:933468810] in I wish inc... [t:78358724]...</cite> <quote>Ultima Dragon posted... </cite> <quote>Women are attracted to confidence. Confident guys are usually a bit douchey, but they're not going around throwing garbage at homeless people or kicking puppies. Nobody is perfect. A normal guy is gonna disagree with some points, poke fun or tease, maybe even lose his cool from time to time. No one should be 100% agreeable and accommodating at all times. Women want to be challenged. Edit: Also, nice guys frequently hide their true intentions. If you're talking to an attractive girl, chances are you want to date/fuck her. Pretending that you don't isn't doing you any favours, they see right through that shit. Any normal guy is going to make his interest and intentions known after a short period of time. That doesn't make him a bad person or a sexual predator. He just knows what he wants and goes for it.</quote> I don't think nice guys hide their intentions, they won't say shit like "i'm not interested in you" they just don't force their interest in somebody's face. Do nice guys maybe worry too much about bothering the girl? Yes. But is it really better to be more selfish? To be more douchey? Just about all the time "confident" people are just people who care less if they are right about their strengths and less about other people but themselves. Actual confidence is humility. And the main thing at the end of the day it's way easier to be selfish and less considerate than it is to be over-vigilant about not coming on too strong and over considerate of the other person. So "confident" people can claim a better strategy for getting laid, but I hate it when it's claimed that they are morally superior or better people. No nice guy wants to be so self-sacrificing, but they've been condition to believe it's the "right thing" to do. They are trying to do the right thing, that's morally superior to being selfish. Is it a better strategy to get laid? No. Might it even lead to a life eventually of bitterness, bitterness when acted on making you a worse person? Yes. But the actual act of trying to be considerate, selfless, and "nice" is not a "bad" act, and it's frustrating to see so many people punch down at those who do it. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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