Current Events > I wish incels stopped saying that being nice drives women away

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Girls love guys with big hearts who goes out of their way to make the world a better place. Where are incels getting this nonsense from?

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A woman asked me to give her a ride home once. I was nice, and I literally drove her away.

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AlisLandale posted...

A woman asked me to give her a ride home once. I was nice, and I literally drove her away.

lmao

Benify posted...

Girls love guys with big hearts who goes out of their way to make the world a better place. Where are incels getting this nonsense from?

Because they see men that are horrible people getting laid, and they, who isn't horrible, are not

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Crono99 posted...

Or maybe because some are so insecure that they see just run-of-the-mill innocent self-affirmation such as being able to say "no" as being "horrible"

Dude domestic violence literally exists.
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incels think not being a murderimg rapist makes you a good guys. Really incels are mostly boring do-nothings.


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KILBOTz posted...

incels think not being a murderimg rapist makes you a good guys. Really incels are mostly boring do-nothings.

It's about really worrying (perhaps over worrying) about not bothering girls, not making girls feel uncomfortable, so it's very very passive and always trying to be kind/helpful when possible.

And it's pretty much true that if you are just a douche who owns his horny goals while you will bother more girls, you also will get laid more. Which in the mind of an incel means you are seen by society as better/more desirable which is annoying af because you are achieving that by essentially being a self-centered asshole.

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KILBOTz posted...

incels think not being a murderimg rapist makes you a good guys. Really incels are mostly boring do-nothings.

This.

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Nice is only a foundation. It's good to have, but not enough on its own.

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They need to stop equating being nice to just doing things for them in the hope of they will fall for them. They tend to lean towards that mindset instead of actually asking them on dates.

I used to be that guy, so I know.

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KILBOTz posted...

incels think not being a murderimg rapist makes you a good guys. Really incels are mostly boring do-nothings.

Swing the bat, Naota.
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Women are attracted to confidence. Confident guys are usually a bit douchey, but they're not going around throwing garbage at homeless people or kicking puppies.

Nobody is perfect. A normal guy is gonna disagree with some points, poke fun or tease, maybe even lose his cool from time to time. No one should be 100% agreeable and accommodating at all times. Women want to be challenged.

Edit: Also, nice guys frequently hide their true intentions. If you're talking to an attractive girl, chances are you want to date/fuck her. Pretending that you don't isn't doing you any favours, they see right through that shit. Any normal guy is going to make his interest and intentions known after a short period of time. That doesn't make him a bad person or a sexual predator. He just knows what he wants and goes for it.

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You can be kind without being a doormat or expecting anything in return. Incels aren't capable of either.

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I wish incels would stop saying anything and just sit in their doritos chairs until they grow mold.
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Ultima Dragon posted...

Women are attracted to confidence. Confident guys are usually a bit douchey, but they're not going around throwing garbage at homeless people or kicking puppies.

Nobody is perfect. A normal guy is gonna disagree with some points, poke fun or tease, maybe even lose his cool from time to time. No one should be 100% agreeable and accommodating at all times. Women want to be challenged.

Edit: Also, nice guys frequently hide their true intentions. If you're talking to an attractive girl, chances are you want to date/fuck her. Pretending that you don't isn't doing you any favours, they see right through that shit. Any normal guy is going to make his interest and intentions known after a short period of time. That doesn't make him a bad person or a sexual predator. He just knows what he wants and goes for it.

I don't think nice guys hide their intentions, they won't say shit like "i'm not interested in you" they just don't force their interest in somebody's face.

Do nice guys maybe worry too much about bothering the girl? Yes. But is it really better to be more selfish? To be more douchey?

Just about all the time "confident" people are just people who care less if they are right about their strengths and less about other people but themselves.

Actual confidence is humility.

And the main thing at the end of the day it's way easier to be selfish and less considerate than it is to be over-vigilant about not coming on too strong and over considerate of the other person.

So "confident" people can claim a better strategy for getting laid, but I hate it when it's claimed that they are morally superior or better people. No nice guy wants to be so self-sacrificing, but they've been condition to believe it's the "right thing" to do. They are trying to do the right thing, that's morally superior to being selfish. Is it a better strategy to get laid? No. Might it even lead to a life eventually of bitterness, bitterness when acted on making you a worse person? Yes. But the actual act of trying to be considerate, selfless, and "nice" is not a "bad" act, and it's frustrating to see so many people punch down at those who do it.

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Because they're like this

https://youtu.be/9VSwvvpHHFg

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Women like guys that are fun to be around and make them laugh. How do some guys not get this in the year of our lord 2020

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