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| Topic | I need to vent about a relationship issue and cant talk to others [Blogfaqs] |
| Emeraldegg 08/03/19 7:36:42 PM #6: | If I may ask, what is it about living there that makes you certain you wouldn't want to stay there? In any case, I don't think it's fair for you to table your happiness for her. It's good that you both have laid bare your feelings, but in cases like that where no more compromises are available, you both need to do what makes you happiest, even if it leads you away from each other. I know how tough that would be though, especially 8 years together, holy crap. The wound it will leave in you will likely be enormous. But I've seen what happens when people in a relationship stick with it when they're both unhappy, when they hold on too long even though it's making them miserable. Not that I'm saying it's there for you at this point, but if you stick with it and don't want to it can lead to some bad feelings. If nothing changes, then to me the best thing to do is to go your separate ways. --- I'm a greener egg than the eggs from dr. seuss ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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