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ThyCorndog posted...

cuttin_in_farm posted...

So when are you supposed to start feeling good again? Because tbh, Im becoming more agitated each day.

I went up and down for a while. there were spikes where I felt horrible (either sad or angry) for weeks and months later but the overall trend of my mood was improving. like even that sting I felt when I thought about her was diminishing over time. it got worse when she contacted me again so i'd recommend avoiding her. also get rid of anything that reminds you of her. like anything she gave you. that helped me a lot

This helps. I was unsure if my experience was normal. I have her book, which I tried to return, but it proved more difficult than necessary. Though I will admit it was an excuse to see her again.

BlazinBlue88 posted...

Exactly what I did in this situation. Just going about the daily monotony but without her doesn't help anything.

This might be my issue too. I regressed on things like going to the gym or writing, or playing with my dog. I need to get myself to do these things again for my own sake.

garlic powder posted...

I havent read the rest of the posts but the fact you never got into an argument is actually a red flag to me.

I consider getting into an argument actually a good thing once in a while. It means both of you are passionate about something.

I have found that the strangest couples are the ones who barely ever argue.

I could be wrong, but this is something Ive picked up over the years. Im convinced a lot of women like when you disagree with them at times. It may present a knowledge that youre not just kissing their ass and have your own mindset.

Interesting viewpoint. Maybe my navet, but I just figured neither of us were ones to rock the boat if it wasnt important. I expect disagreements to come about more if we lived together. Thats when personalities can most clash.
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