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cuttin_in_farm 05/18/19 8:47:07 PM #1:	She did via text too. Which really offended me. She says it had nothing to do with me, but that she needed to focus on her independence right now. She says Im the best shes been with and that she wished she could provide better. But tbh. I dunno what to do. We work at the same job; different departments. But we live ~an hour apart. I definitely dont want to move past her. But I sure as hell dont dig this friendship thing. I tried for a day or two, and it just doesnt work. I feel like this was it. We had perfect chemistry and interests and everything. We were only together for half a year but zero arguments. Sex was good. Shared personal stuff. I dont know the success rate of sliding back in if I just wait. Nor do I know if Im setting myself up for failure if I do. All I know is that I just watched Avengers, and Im feeling emotionally charged. I only have women friends at work and their advice is terrible. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:922074761] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>She did via text too. Which really offended me. She says it had nothing to do with me, but that she needed to focus on her independence right now. She says Im the best shes been with and that she wished she could provide better. But tbh. I dunno what to do. We work at the same job; different departments. But we live ~an hour apart. I definitely dont want to move past her. But I sure as hell dont dig this friendship thing. I tried for a day or two, and it just doesnt work. I feel like this was it. We had perfect chemistry and interests and everything. We were only together for half a year but zero arguments. Sex was good. Shared personal stuff. I dont know the success rate of sliding back in if I just wait. Nor do I know if Im setting myself up for failure if I do. All I know is that I just watched Avengers, and Im feeling emotionally charged. I only have women friends at work and their advice is terrible.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 05/18/19 8:49:32 PM #2:	I hate to be this way, but i'm sure you are looking for honest answers and not just BS. That's a bad excuse from her, and she's being a coward by not even speaking to you about it, and then tossing in the "It's not you, it's me" trash. There is a problem, but she doesn't want to confront you about it, she want's to just push it away because it's easy. Move on, there's all kinds of varieties of women out there, some are good, some are bad, some do stuff like this. Don't let it hurt your confidence, she's one girl. You can't stay hung up on it, especially if this is how she did you. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign Twenty million starving and writhing in pain <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:922074847] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>I hate to be this way, but i'm sure you are looking for honest answers and not just BS. That's a bad excuse from her, and she's being a coward by not even speaking to you about it, and then tossing in the "It's not you, it's me" trash. There is a problem, but she doesn't want to confront you about it, she want's to just push it away because it's easy. Move on, there's all kinds of varieties of women out there, some are good, some are bad, some do stuff like this. Don't let it hurt your confidence, she's one girl. You can't stay hung up on it, especially if this is how she did you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Abiz_ 05/18/19 8:49:41 PM #3:	Just move on. Be friends if and only if you want to. If it's annoying you to be her friend don't do it. Just tell her naw tried can't. Move on. <cite>Abiz_ posted [p:922074853] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>Just move on. Be friends if and only if you want to. If it's annoying you to be her friend don't do it. Just tell her naw tried can't. Move on.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WaterLink 05/18/19 8:50:18 PM #4:	She found a Chad. Sorry bro --- https://i.imgtc.com/faZjEQp.jpg <cite>WaterLink posted [p:922074876] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>She found a Chad. Sorry bro</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 05/18/19 8:57:02 PM #5:	Shit. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:922075128] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>Shit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
De Evolution 05/18/19 8:58:15 PM #6:	Please sack up. She doesn't respect you. Move on. She's a ghost to you now. Watch this video 7 times https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PWcMqM9_kbs" data-time=" --- Let go your earthly tether. Enter the void. Empty, and become wind. <cite>De Evolution posted [p:922075181] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>Please sack up. She doesn't respect you. Move on. She's a ghost to you now. Watch this video 7 times https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PWcMqM9_kbs" data-time="</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eevee-Trainer 05/18/19 9:00:22 PM #7:	Abiz_ posted... Just move on. Be friends if and only if you want to. If it's annoying you to be her friend don't do it. Just tell her naw tried can't. Move on. This. Gotta do what's best for you, dude. --- See me on Discord! ^.^ Eevee's Mystery Dungeon: https://discord.gg/fexbndS <cite>Eevee-Trainer posted [p:922075259] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>Abiz_ posted...</cite> <quote>Just move on. Be friends if and only if you want to. If it's annoying you to be her friend don't do it. Just tell her naw tried can't. Move on.</quote> This. Gotta do what's best for you, dude.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pitlord_Special 05/18/19 9:06:24 PM #8:	WaterLink posted... She found a Chad. Sorry bro This Consider yourself luckier than most that she came clean and let you know it was over instead of taking the Chad dick on the DL --- Posted from my iPhone 8 <cite>Pitlord_Special posted [p:922075451] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>WaterLink posted...</cite> <quote>She found a Chad. Sorry bro</quote> This Consider yourself luckier than most that she came clean and let you know it was over instead of taking the Chad dick on the DL</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mattnd2007 05/18/19 9:07:06 PM #9:	Don't stay friends. That shit ain't healthy unless it was a truly amicable breakup which clearly isn't the case here --- Show me a man who resorts to violence and I'll show you a man who's run out of good ideas Phil Funnie <cite>mattnd2007 posted [p:922075486] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>Don't stay friends. That shit ain't healthy unless it was a truly amicable breakup which clearly isn't the case here</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ranting Nord 05/18/19 9:08:59 PM #10:	It's going to suck for a while, but it gets better. --- I'll think of a sig later. <cite>Ranting Nord posted [p:922075546] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>It's going to suck for a while, but it gets better.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BipBapBam 05/18/19 9:10:08 PM #11:	WaterLink posted... She found a Chad. Sorry bro --- Regardless of warnings, the future doesn't scare me at all. The hardest choices require the strongest wills. <cite>BipBapBam posted [p:922075582] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>WaterLink posted...</cite> <quote>She found a Chad. Sorry bro</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 05/18/19 9:11:31 PM #12:	mattnd2007 posted... Don't stay friends. That shit ain't healthy unless it was a truly amicable breakup which clearly isn't the case here I mean... it was... I just do not wish to be friends only. It doesnt make sense to me. If you are thinking you cannot spare time for me, and need to build yourself. Thats cool. I dont mind waiting. Never gave an indication of such. I dont see why breaking up is the only option. She says she cant do a serious relationship right now... while also saying Im the best shes had. Like... the more I say this out loud, the more it doesnt make sense to me. I just get frustrated. What do people want, Ill never know. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:922075623] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>mattnd2007 posted...</cite> <quote>Don't stay friends. That shit ain't healthy unless it was a truly amicable breakup which clearly isn't the case here</quote> I mean... it was... I just do not wish to be friends only. It doesnt make sense to me. If you are thinking you cannot spare time for me, and need to build yourself. Thats cool. I dont mind waiting. Never gave an indication of such. I dont see why breaking up is the only option. She says she cant do a serious relationship right now... while also saying Im the best shes had. Like... the more I say this out loud, the more it doesnt make sense to me. I just get frustrated. What do people want, Ill never know.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Crepes 05/18/19 9:12:53 PM #13:	cuttin_in_farm posted... She did via text too. Which really offended me. She says it had nothing to do with me, but that she needed to focus on her independence right now. She says Im the best shes been with and that she wished she could provide better. But tbh. I dunno what to do. We work at the same job; different departments. But we live ~an hour apart. I definitely dont want to move past her. But I sure as hell dont dig this friendship thing. I tried for a day or two, and it just doesnt work. I feel like this was it. We had perfect chemistry and interests and everything. We were only together for half a year but zero arguments. Sex was good. Shared personal stuff. I dont know the success rate of sliding back in if I just wait. Nor do I know if Im setting myself up for failure if I do. All I know is that I just watched Avengers, and Im feeling emotionally charged. I only have women friends at work and their advice is terrible. How old are you both out of curiosity. How does this breakup compare to others youve had? --- Praxis Makes Perfect The only intelligent tactical response to life's horror is to laugh defiantly at it. ~Soren Kierkegaard <cite>Crepes posted [p:922075673] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote>She did via text too. Which really offended me. She says it had nothing to do with me, but that she needed to focus on her independence right now. She says Im the best shes been with and that she wished she could provide better. But tbh. I dunno what to do. We work at the same job; different departments. But we live ~an hour apart. I definitely dont want to move past her. But I sure as hell dont dig this friendship thing. I tried for a day or two, and it just doesnt work. I feel like this was it. We had perfect chemistry and interests and everything. We were only together for half a year but zero arguments. Sex was good. Shared personal stuff. I dont know the success rate of sliding back in if I just wait. Nor do I know if Im setting myself up for failure if I do. All I know is that I just watched Avengers, and Im feeling emotionally charged. I only have women friends at work and their advice is terrible.</quote> How old are you both out of curiosity. How does this breakup compare to others youve had?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 05/18/19 9:13:58 PM #14:	cuttin_in_farm posted... mattnd2007 posted... Don't stay friends. That shit ain't healthy unless it was a truly amicable breakup which clearly isn't the case here I mean... it was... I just do not wish to be friends only. It doesnt make sense to me. If you are thinking you cannot spare time for me, and need to build yourself. Thats cool. I dont mind waiting. Never gave an indication of such. I dont see why breaking up is the only option. She says she cant do a serious relationship right now... while also saying Im the best shes had. Like... the more I say this out loud, the more it doesnt make sense to me. I just get frustrated. What do people want, Ill never know. Literally read my post above. Not trying to be a dick, but she doesn't "need time for herself." She's bullshitting you completely. That's one of the oldest get out of a relationship fast and easy excuses ever. Like someone said above, she doesn't respect you, and she's lying. There's a reason, but you probably won't ever know it. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign Twenty million starving and writhing in pain <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:922075707] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote><cite>mattnd2007 posted...</cite> <quote>Don't stay friends. That shit ain't healthy unless it was a truly amicable breakup which clearly isn't the case here</quote> I mean... it was... I just do not wish to be friends only. It doesnt make sense to me. If you are thinking you cannot spare time for me, and need to build yourself. Thats cool. I dont mind waiting. Never gave an indication of such. I dont see why breaking up is the only option. She says she cant do a serious relationship right now... while also saying Im the best shes had. Like... the more I say this out loud, the more it doesnt make sense to me. I just get frustrated. What do people want, Ill never know.</quote> Literally read my post above. Not trying to be a dick, but she doesn't "need time for herself." She's bullshitting you completely. That's one of the oldest get out of a relationship fast and easy excuses ever. Like someone said above, she doesn't respect you, and she's lying. There's a reason, but you probably won't ever know it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 05/18/19 9:20:23 PM #15:	Crepes posted... How old are you both out of curiosity. How does this breakup compare to others youve had? 23. Her 22. Ive only been in one relationship prior and that one was abysmal. She got pregnant by another guy, went silent after moving to a different state, and randomly sent me a picture of the newborn while telling me the babys name was the name I shared always wanting to name my daughter. She was also very flaky. Eventually that reached a breaking point. Not a relationship, but I did have a friend I moved in with as well. We were best friends, but she turned out to be very toxic. Refused to pay any bills, had an abrasive personality and communication with her was constantly walking on eggshells. So it stands to reason that this one being utterly pleasant to talk to, consistently considers my feelings on things, and actively planned things with me seems like a massive improvement. I felt kinda blindsided by this though. Despite getting a feeling. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:922075930] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>Crepes posted...</cite> <quote>How old are you both out of curiosity. How does this breakup compare to others youve had?</quote> 23. Her 22. Ive only been in one relationship prior and that one was abysmal. She got pregnant by another guy, went silent after moving to a different state, and randomly sent me a picture of the newborn while telling me the babys name was the name I shared always wanting to name my daughter. She was also very flaky. Eventually that reached a breaking point. Not a relationship, but I did have a friend I moved in with as well. We were best friends, but she turned out to be very toxic. Refused to pay any bills, had an abrasive personality and communication with her was constantly walking on eggshells. So it stands to reason that this one being utterly pleasant to talk to, consistently considers my feelings on things, and actively planned things with me seems like a massive improvement. I felt kinda blindsided by this though. Despite getting a feeling.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 05/18/19 9:21:04 PM #16:	MabusIncarnate posted... Literally read my post above. Not trying to be a dick, but she doesn't "need time for herself." She's bullshitting you completely. That's one of the oldest get out of a relationship fast and easy excuses ever. Like someone said above, she doesn't respect you, and she's lying. There's a reason, but you probably won't ever know it. Maybe... do you think its worth trying to ask her? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:922075953] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>MabusIncarnate posted...</cite> <quote>Literally read my post above. Not trying to be a dick, but she doesn't "need time for herself." She's bullshitting you completely. That's one of the oldest get out of a relationship fast and easy excuses ever. Like someone said above, she doesn't respect you, and she's lying. There's a reason, but you probably won't ever know it.</quote> Maybe... do you think its worth trying to ask her?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MabusIncarnate 05/18/19 9:28:14 PM #18:	cuttin_in_farm posted... MabusIncarnate posted... Literally read my post above. Not trying to be a dick, but she doesn't "need time for herself." She's bullshitting you completely. That's one of the oldest get out of a relationship fast and easy excuses ever. Like someone said above, she doesn't respect you, and she's lying. There's a reason, but you probably won't ever know it. Maybe... do you think its worth trying to ask her? No, because honestly, it isn't going to patch things up at all. Even if it does, it's going to be awkward for a few days and just happen again. I think her mind is already made up, and her breaking up with you through text, I bet if you set up a time and a place to even sit down and talk about it, she would stand you up. I know this kind of girl, i've dated a lot of them. Move on from this one, it's just easier. It's just my opinion though. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign Twenty million starving and writhing in pain <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:922076217] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MabusIncarnate posted...</cite> <quote>Literally read my post above. Not trying to be a dick, but she doesn't "need time for herself." She's bullshitting you completely. That's one of the oldest get out of a relationship fast and easy excuses ever. Like someone said above, she doesn't respect you, and she's lying. There's a reason, but you probably won't ever know it.</quote> Maybe... do you think its worth trying to ask her?</quote> No, because honestly, it isn't going to patch things up at all. Even if it does, it's going to be awkward for a few days and just happen again. I think her mind is already made up, and her breaking up with you through text, I bet if you set up a time and a place to even sit down and talk about it, she would stand you up. I know this kind of girl, i've dated a lot of them. Move on from this one, it's just easier. It's just my opinion though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 05/18/19 9:29:22 PM #19:	jeffhardyb0yz posted... Here's what you do dude: Go no contact IMMEDIATELY. AT LEAST 30 days bro. Even if she contacts you, DO NOT RESPOND. Don't text back. Your brain is wired to respond crazy to that dopamine hit associated with her. You gotta get your head together. It'll be hard I know, but trust me, your girl is in control of the situation right now. She's got the power. She knows you'll take her back if she wants. You need to go no contact ASAP for yourself. Get some of that power back. Get some of your life without her back. Find hobbies/old friends. If you haven't gotten the chance to tell her you accept the breakup, do after no contact is over. It will def put her in shock. She'll be wondering why the guy she dumped isn't paying her any mind. She's not expecting you to be that strong. Each and everyone of us have been through breakups. We all know it's hard at first but we all know it gets better. This isn't bad advice either. I wouldn't really give her the time of day. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign Twenty million starving and writhing in pain <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:922076254] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>jeffhardyb0yz posted...</cite> <quote>Here's what you do dude: Go no contact IMMEDIATELY. AT LEAST 30 days bro. Even if she contacts you, DO NOT RESPOND. Don't text back. Your brain is wired to respond crazy to that dopamine hit associated with her. You gotta get your head together. It'll be hard I know, but trust me, your girl is in control of the situation right now. She's got the power. She knows you'll take her back if she wants. You need to go no contact ASAP for yourself. Get some of that power back. Get some of your life without her back. Find hobbies/old friends. If you haven't gotten the chance to tell her you accept the breakup, do after no contact is over. It will def put her in shock. She'll be wondering why the guy she dumped isn't paying her any mind. She's not expecting you to be that strong. Each and everyone of us have been through breakups. We all know it's hard at first but we all know it gets better.</quote> This isn't bad advice either. I wouldn't really give her the time of day.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blade-wolf 05/18/19 9:34:19 PM #20:	cuttin_in_farm posted... I definitely dont want to move past her. You don't really have a choice at this juncture. To me this whole relationship sounded like one of convenience for her, while you were in 100%. Time to distance yourself. And listen to jeffgardys advice. Read it a few times, make sure it sinks in. --- hustler <cite>Blade-wolf posted [p:922076401] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote>I definitely dont want to move past her.</quote> You don't really have a choice at this juncture. To me this whole relationship sounded like one of convenience for her, while you were in 100%. Time to distance yourself. And listen to jeffgardys advice. Read it a few times, make sure it sinks in.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
De Evolution 05/18/19 9:34:26 PM #21:	jeffhardyb0yz posted... Here's what you do dude: Go no contact IMMEDIATELY. AT LEAST 30 days bro. Even if she contacts you, DO NOT RESPOND. Don't text back. Your brain is wired to respond crazy to that dopamine hit associated with her. You gotta get your head together. It'll be hard I know, but trust me, your girl is in control of the situation right now. She's got the power. She knows you'll take her back if she wants. You need to go no contact ASAP for yourself. Get some of that power back. Get some of your life without her back. Find hobbies/old friends. If you haven't gotten the chance to tell her you accept the breakup, do after no contact is over. It will def put her in shock. She'll be wondering why the guy she dumped isn't paying her any mind. She's not expecting you to be that strong. Each and everyone of us have been through breakups. We all know it's hard at first but we all know it gets better. This. And watch the damn video I linked. --- Let go your earthly tether. Enter the void. Empty, and become wind. <cite>De Evolution posted [p:922076407] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>jeffhardyb0yz posted...</cite> <quote>Here's what you do dude: Go no contact IMMEDIATELY. AT LEAST 30 days bro. Even if she contacts you, DO NOT RESPOND. Don't text back. Your brain is wired to respond crazy to that dopamine hit associated with her. You gotta get your head together. It'll be hard I know, but trust me, your girl is in control of the situation right now. She's got the power. She knows you'll take her back if she wants. You need to go no contact ASAP for yourself. Get some of that power back. Get some of your life without her back. Find hobbies/old friends. If you haven't gotten the chance to tell her you accept the breakup, do after no contact is over. It will def put her in shock. She'll be wondering why the guy she dumped isn't paying her any mind. She's not expecting you to be that strong. Each and everyone of us have been through breakups. We all know it's hard at first but we all know it gets better.</quote> This. And watch the damn video I linked.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Austin_Era_II 05/18/19 9:36:42 PM #22:	Pitlord_Special posted... WaterLink posted... She found a Chad. Sorry bro This Consider yourself luckier than most that she came clean and let you know it was over instead of taking the Chad dick on the DL This --- The Original PSN: deznutzbust69 <cite>Austin_Era_II posted [p:922076486] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>Pitlord_Special posted...</cite> <quote><cite>WaterLink posted...</cite> <quote>She found a Chad. Sorry bro</quote> This Consider yourself luckier than most that she came clean and let you know it was over instead of taking the Chad dick on the DL</quote> This</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 05/18/19 9:36:54 PM #23:	I guess it was silly to expect differently. Im gonna just stop trying for a bit. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:922076493] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>I guess it was silly to expect differently. Im gonna just stop trying for a bit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Allanon23 05/18/19 9:37:56 PM #24:	We've all been there TC. You'll get through this. Love can be a bitch, sometimes. --- Attention campers, lunch has been cancelled today due to lack of hustle. Deal with it. Current LP: Dragon Quest XI <cite>Allanon23 posted [p:922076533] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>We've all been there TC. You'll get through this. Love can be a bitch, sometimes.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cuttin_in_farm 05/18/19 9:39:28 PM #26:	jeffhardyb0yz posted... cuttin_in_farm posted... I guess it was silly to expect differently. Im gonna just stop trying for a bit. If you ever want this girl to respect you or at least giving you another chance, go no contact immediately I do not understand the need to play games. But I guess. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:922076590] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>jeffhardyb0yz posted...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote>I guess it was silly to expect differently. Im gonna just stop trying for a bit.</quote> If you ever want this girl to respect you or at least giving you another chance, go no contact immediately</quote> I do not understand the need to play games. But I guess.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Duwstai 05/18/19 9:45:04 PM #27:	Move on. She wants something that isn't you and gave you an easy excuse to get out. If you continue to try and get back with her you will just torture yourself and look like less of a man in her eyes. So it won't even work. We have all been there and many have learned the hard way. --- balls <cite>Duwstai posted [p:922076760] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>Move on. She wants something that isn't you and gave you an easy excuse to get out. If you continue to try and get back with her you will just torture yourself and look like less of a man in her eyes. So it won't even work. We have all been there and many have learned the hard way.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 05/18/19 9:47:54 PM #28:	cuttin_in_farm posted... jeffhardyb0yz posted... cuttin_in_farm posted... I guess it was silly to expect differently. Im gonna just stop trying for a bit. If you ever want this girl to respect you or at least giving you another chance, go no contact immediately I do not understand the need to play games. But I guess. She's playing games. By ignoring her, you aren't playing back. Be above it. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign Twenty million starving and writhing in pain <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:922076854] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jeffhardyb0yz posted...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote>I guess it was silly to expect differently. Im gonna just stop trying for a bit.</quote> If you ever want this girl to respect you or at least giving you another chance, go no contact immediately</quote> I do not understand the need to play games. But I guess.</quote> She's playing games. By ignoring her, you aren't playing back. Be above it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Austin_Era_II 05/18/19 9:48:23 PM #29:	If she wants you she wouldn't have ended it. It's an excuse. You'll slowly get over it. Then you'll realize it was for the best. --- The Original PSN: deznutzbust69 <cite>Austin_Era_II posted [p:922076865] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>If she wants you she wouldn't have ended it. It's an excuse. You'll slowly get over it. Then you'll realize it was for the best.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Buzz Killjoy 05/18/19 9:52:22 PM #30:	De Evolution posted... Please sack up. She doesn't respect you. Move on. She's a ghost to you now. Watch this video 7 times https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PWcMqM9_kbs" data-time=" Damn. Not in this situation at all but I was feeling this video. Need to catch up on Patrice. --- *Does the name Pavlov ring a bell?* <cite>Buzz Killjoy posted [p:922077000] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>De Evolution posted...</cite> <quote>Please sack up. She doesn't respect you. Move on. She's a ghost to you now. Watch this video 7 times https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PWcMqM9_kbs" data-time="</quote> Damn. Not in this situation at all but I was feeling this video. Need to catch up on Patrice. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 05/18/19 9:53:32 PM #31:	Well tbh, now Im getting pissed off by the advice here. She still responds when I text with exclamation marks... should I advise how I feel first or just cut off cold turkey? Because I dont really care anymore. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:922077033] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>Well tbh, now Im getting pissed off by the advice here. She still responds when I text with exclamation marks... should I advise how I feel first or just cut off cold turkey? Because I dont really care anymore.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HairyThotter 05/18/19 9:54:35 PM #32:	MabusIncarnate posted... jeffhardyb0yz posted... Here's what you do dude: Go no contact IMMEDIATELY. AT LEAST 30 days bro. Even if she contacts you, DO NOT RESPOND. Don't text back. Your brain is wired to respond crazy to that dopamine hit associated with her. You gotta get your head together. It'll be hard I know, but trust me, your girl is in control of the situation right now. She's got the power. She knows you'll take her back if she wants. You need to go no contact ASAP for yourself. Get some of that power back. Get some of your life without her back. Find hobbies/old friends. If you haven't gotten the chance to tell her you accept the breakup, do after no contact is over. It will def put her in shock. She'll be wondering why the guy she dumped isn't paying her any mind. She's not expecting you to be that strong. Each and everyone of us have been through breakups. We all know it's hard at first but we all know it gets better. This isn't bad advice either. I wouldn't really give her the time of day. --- "With cheese in either hand, anything is possible" <cite>HairyThotter posted [p:922077073] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>MabusIncarnate posted...</cite> <quote><cite>jeffhardyb0yz posted...</cite> <quote>Here's what you do dude: Go no contact IMMEDIATELY. AT LEAST 30 days bro. Even if she contacts you, DO NOT RESPOND. Don't text back. Your brain is wired to respond crazy to that dopamine hit associated with her. You gotta get your head together. It'll be hard I know, but trust me, your girl is in control of the situation right now. She's got the power. She knows you'll take her back if she wants. You need to go no contact ASAP for yourself. Get some of that power back. Get some of your life without her back. Find hobbies/old friends. If you haven't gotten the chance to tell her you accept the breakup, do after no contact is over. It will def put her in shock. She'll be wondering why the guy she dumped isn't paying her any mind. She's not expecting you to be that strong. Each and everyone of us have been through breakups. We all know it's hard at first but we all know it gets better.</quote> This isn't bad advice either. I wouldn't really give her the time of day.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Austin_Era_II 05/18/19 9:55:57 PM #33:	Just stop texting her if you aren't in the mood. Like don't ignore her but answer her question. But you shouldn't start up a convo with her where you're carrying the convo. And if she texts you first then just simply answer it and don't ask a question back. --- The Original PSN: deznutzbust69 <cite>Austin_Era_II posted [p:922077119] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>Just stop texting her if you aren't in the mood. Like don't ignore her but answer her question. But you shouldn't start up a convo with her where you're carrying the convo. And if she texts you first then just simply answer it and don't ask a question back.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mattnd2007 05/18/19 9:56:18 PM #34:	You guys clearly weren't on the same page. If you were she would have at least had the decency to break it off in person. It sucks but you gotta be done with her. Otherwise she'll keep you on the back burner as a it didn't work out thing. Won't be anything more than that. And then if you did take her back it would only be until she finds someone else again. --- Show me a man who resorts to violence and I'll show you a man who's run out of good ideas Phil Funnie <cite>mattnd2007 posted [p:922077127] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>You guys clearly weren't on the same page. If you were she would have at least had the decency to break it off in person. It sucks but you gotta be done with her. Otherwise she'll keep you on the back burner as a it didn't work out thing. Won't be anything more than that. And then if you did take her back it would only be until she finds someone else again.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HairyThotter 05/18/19 9:56:45 PM #35:	cuttin_in_farm posted... Well tbh, now Im getting pissed off by the advice here. She still responds when I text with exclamation marks... should I advise how I feel first or just cut off cold turkey? Because I dont really care anymore. Like the above says, you should ignore her for at least a month... easier said than done, sure... but still. And you're only getting mad because you still care for her and are hearing things you don't want to hear. Of course you don't want to stop talking to her. But she dropped like like a sack of bricks... that's disrespectful as hell. AND via text? Come on man, you're a dude she was dating and fucking for six months... not some random conversation on a dating site. That is how she is treating you. --- "With cheese in either hand, anything is possible" <cite>HairyThotter posted [p:922077139] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote>Well tbh, now Im getting pissed off by the advice here. She still responds when I text with exclamation marks... should I advise how I feel first or just cut off cold turkey? Because I dont really care anymore.</quote> Like the above says, you should ignore her for at least a month... easier said than done, sure... but still. And you're only getting mad because you still care for her and are hearing things you don't want to hear. Of course you don't want to stop talking to her. But she dropped like like a sack of bricks... that's disrespectful as hell. AND via text? Come on man, you're a dude she was dating and fucking for six months... not some random conversation on a dating site. That is how she is treating you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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mattnd2007 05/18/19 9:58:26 PM #37:	cuttin_in_farm posted... Well tbh, now Im getting pissed off by the advice here. She still responds when I text with exclamation marks... should I advise how I feel first or just cut off cold turkey? Because I dont really care anymore. She is manipulating you. My ex did the same shit. But when I finally ghosted her and got over her the peace of mind was amazing. --- Show me a man who resorts to violence and I'll show you a man who's run out of good ideas Phil Funnie <cite>mattnd2007 posted [p:922077203] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote>Well tbh, now Im getting pissed off by the advice here. She still responds when I text with exclamation marks... should I advise how I feel first or just cut off cold turkey? Because I dont really care anymore.</quote> She is manipulating you. My ex did the same shit. But when I finally ghosted her and got over her the peace of mind was amazing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EpicMickeyDrew 05/18/19 10:01:26 PM #38:	I was there 3 months ago bro. I cried for a week. But i am such a better person now holy shit the change is real. --- Just how, pray tell, does your dick "take life"? How could a dick take a life? - XciteMe <cite>EpicMickeyDrew posted [p:922077277] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>I was there 3 months ago bro. I cried for a week. But i am such a better person now holy shit the change is real.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sonic Cannon 05/18/19 10:02:14 PM #39:	ITT: CE actually providing mostly good support/advice. Choose to do whatever you want as far as staying in contact, but don't get any issusions about getting together unless there's some big change in circumstances. She has probably been thinking about this for a little while, and felt this approach was a way to end it without doing you too much damage. --- Keep it green. <cite>Sonic Cannon posted [p:922077305] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>ITT: CE actually providing mostly good support/advice. Choose to do whatever you want as far as staying in contact, but don't get any issusions about getting together unless there's some big change in circumstances. She has probably been thinking about this for a little while, and felt this approach was a way to end it without doing you too much damage.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 05/18/19 10:02:56 PM #40:	cuttin_in_farm posted... I only have women friends at work and their advice is terrible. Now I feel like an idiot because they were also saying the same thing verbatim. To stop communication for a month. One lady even said her go to break up speech was the its not you; but me. Who knows what could happen but we can still be friends, while having zero intentions of getting back together. I just thought she was a bit of an ass, but even yall are matching up with what they said. Im really pissed off. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:922077323] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote>I only have women friends at work and their advice is terrible.</quote> Now I feel like an idiot because they were also saying the same thing verbatim. To stop communication for a month. One lady even said her go to break up speech was the its not you; but me. Who knows what could happen but we can still be friends, while having zero intentions of getting back together. I just thought she was a bit of an ass, but even yall are matching up with what they said. Im really pissed off.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 05/18/19 10:03:49 PM #41:	HairyThotter posted... cuttin_in_farm posted... Well tbh, now Im getting pissed off by the advice here. She still responds when I text with exclamation marks... should I advise how I feel first or just cut off cold turkey? Because I dont really care anymore. Like the above says, you should ignore her for at least a month... easier said than done, sure... but still. And you're only getting mad because you still care for her and are hearing things you don't want to hear. Of course you don't want to stop talking to her. But she dropped like like a sack of bricks... that's disrespectful as hell. AND via text? Come on man, you're a dude she was dating and fucking for six months... not some random conversation on a dating site. That is how she is treating you. This hits the nail on the head. It's natural to not like advice like this, but it's what you needed to hear because you made this thread. A lot of us have been around, dated a lot. I dated for about 12 years before getting married, probably around two dozen women not counting bad dates or one night flings. We've seen things and we understand how a lot of this works by now. Men get all of the bad rep, but there are some really awful women out there also that are inconsiderate, and don't care to stomp on a guy's heart and move forward. It's fine to be mad, but it's better to learn early on what to look for, what to avoid, and how to handle bad situations. All you are doing by texting with her is assuring her how she broke up with you through text is fine, and she didn't do anything wrong by not talking with you about anything. This will convince her to do this again in the future to some other guy because you are seemingly fine with it so far. Just stop talking to her, go see a movie or something and leave your phone at home. Go find someone new. You never know what you are missing if you sit and dwell on something you can't change. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign Twenty million starving and writhing in pain <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:922077347] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>HairyThotter posted...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote>Well tbh, now Im getting pissed off by the advice here. She still responds when I text with exclamation marks... should I advise how I feel first or just cut off cold turkey? Because I dont really care anymore.</quote> Like the above says, you should ignore her for at least a month... easier said than done, sure... but still. And you're only getting mad because you still care for her and are hearing things you don't want to hear. Of course you don't want to stop talking to her. But she dropped like like a sack of bricks... that's disrespectful as hell. AND via text? Come on man, you're a dude she was dating and fucking for six months... not some random conversation on a dating site. That is how she is treating you.</quote> This hits the nail on the head. It's natural to not like advice like this, but it's what you needed to hear because you made this thread. A lot of us have been around, dated a lot. I dated for about 12 years before getting married, probably around two dozen women not counting bad dates or one night flings. We've seen things and we understand how a lot of this works by now. Men get all of the bad rep, but there are some really awful women out there also that are inconsiderate, and don't care to stomp on a guy's heart and move forward. It's fine to be mad, but it's better to learn early on what to look for, what to avoid, and how to handle bad situations. All you are doing by texting with her is assuring her how she broke up with you through text is fine, and she didn't do anything wrong by not talking with you about anything. This will convince her to do this again in the future to some other guy because you are seemingly fine with it so far. Just stop talking to her, go see a movie or something and leave your phone at home. Go find someone new. You never know what you are missing if you sit and dwell on something you can't change.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EnragedSlith 05/18/19 10:03:50 PM #42:	edit: above advice is best. --- ultimate milf hunter https://imgur.com/lCEdce6 https://imgur.com/2N1Ezia https://imgur.com/ukJ6sPJ https://youtu.be/IDYaHvDiTr4 <cite>EnragedSlith posted [p:922077348] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>edit: above advice is best.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lorenzo_2003 05/18/19 10:05:25 PM #43:	cuttin_in_farm posted... It doesnt make sense to me. If you are thinking you cannot spare time for me, and need to build yourself. Thats cool. I dont mind waiting. Never gave an indication of such. I dont see why breaking up is the only option. She says she cant do a serious relationship right now... while also saying Im the best shes had. Like... the more I say this out loud, the more it doesnt make sense to me. I just get frustrated. What do people want, Ill never know. She broke up with you through a text. Let me repeat that with emphasis: Your girlfriend, a person whom you thought had no problems at all with you, broke up with you through a God damn text. Really think about that. Ask yourself if that is something people do to each other, if they honestly care about the other person. Then ask yourself if it makes sense to be friends with someone who clearly doesnt give a fuck about your feelings and you cant reliably be sure about anything they say, even during the best of times. --- ... <cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted [p:922077410] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote>It doesnt make sense to me. If you are thinking you cannot spare time for me, and need to build yourself. Thats cool. I dont mind waiting. Never gave an indication of such. I dont see why breaking up is the only option. She says she cant do a serious relationship right now... while also saying Im the best shes had. Like... the more I say this out loud, the more it doesnt make sense to me. I just get frustrated. What do people want, Ill never know.</quote> She broke up with you through a text. Let me repeat that with emphasis: Your girlfriend, a person whom you thought had no problems at all with you, broke up with you through a God damn text. Really think about that. Ask yourself if that is something people do to each other, if they honestly care about the other person. Then ask yourself if it makes sense to be friends with someone who clearly doesnt give a fuck about your feelings and you cant reliably be sure about anything they say, even during the best of times.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 05/18/19 10:07:56 PM #44:	MabusIncarnate posted... It's fine to be mad, but it's better to learn early on what to look for, what to avoid, and how to handle bad situations. All you are doing by texting with her is assuring her how she broke up with you through text is fine, and she didn't do anything wrong by not talking with you about anything. This will convince her to do this again in the future to some other guy because you are seemingly fine with it so far. Just stop talking to her, go see a movie or something and leave your phone at home. Go find someone new. You never know what you are missing if you sit and dwell on something you can't change. Im upset. I know Ill get over it. But your first paragraph. Shouldnt I tell her, respectfully, how I feel about the way she broke things off? To give myself some sense of self-closure? I mean... if she ends it once, she can end it twice. And not been given a reason is just burning. I hate loose ends. Ill cut contact, but I just need to at least tell her why, yes? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:922077498] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>MabusIncarnate posted...</cite> <quote>It's fine to be mad, but it's better to learn early on what to look for, what to avoid, and how to handle bad situations. All you are doing by texting with her is assuring her how she broke up with you through text is fine, and she didn't do anything wrong by not talking with you about anything. This will convince her to do this again in the future to some other guy because you are seemingly fine with it so far. Just stop talking to her, go see a movie or something and leave your phone at home. Go find someone new. You never know what you are missing if you sit and dwell on something you can't change.</quote> Im upset. I know Ill get over it. But your first paragraph. Shouldnt I tell her, respectfully, how I feel about the way she broke things off? To give myself some sense of self-closure? I mean... if she ends it once, she can end it twice. And not been given a reason is just burning. I hate loose ends. Ill cut contact, but I just need to at least tell her why, yes?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sonic Cannon 05/18/19 10:18:52 PM #45:	cuttin_in_farm posted... MabusIncarnate posted... It's fine to be mad, but it's better to learn early on what to look for, what to avoid, and how to handle bad situations. All you are doing by texting with her is assuring her how she broke up with you through text is fine, and she didn't do anything wrong by not talking with you about anything. This will convince her to do this again in the future to some other guy because you are seemingly fine with it so far. Just stop talking to her, go see a movie or something and leave your phone at home. Go find someone new. You never know what you are missing if you sit and dwell on something you can't change. Im upset. I know Ill get over it. But your first paragraph. Shouldnt I tell her, respectfully, how I feel about the way she broke things off? To give myself some sense of self-closure? I mean... if she ends it once, she can end it twice. And not been given a reason is just burning. I hate loose ends. Ill cut contact, but I just need to at least tell her why, yes? Opinions differ on this, as you have seen. Personally, I think an initial response is reasonable. If you do, you should definitely question whether texting was appropriate for such a communication. You can say that it's really upsetting. Avoid saying that you're sorry for anything, though, and don't drag it out into a long conversation. --- Keep it green. <cite>Sonic Cannon posted [p:922077836] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MabusIncarnate posted...</cite> <quote>It's fine to be mad, but it's better to learn early on what to look for, what to avoid, and how to handle bad situations. All you are doing by texting with her is assuring her how she broke up with you through text is fine, and she didn't do anything wrong by not talking with you about anything. This will convince her to do this again in the future to some other guy because you are seemingly fine with it so far. Just stop talking to her, go see a movie or something and leave your phone at home. Go find someone new. You never know what you are missing if you sit and dwell on something you can't change.</quote> Im upset. I know Ill get over it. But your first paragraph. Shouldnt I tell her, respectfully, how I feel about the way she broke things off? To give myself some sense of self-closure? I mean... if she ends it once, she can end it twice. And not been given a reason is just burning. I hate loose ends. Ill cut contact, but I just need to at least tell her why, yes?</quote> Opinions differ on this, as you have seen. Personally, I think an initial response is reasonable. If you do, you should definitely question whether texting was appropriate for such a communication. You can say that it's really upsetting. Avoid saying that you're sorry for anything, though, and don't drag it out into a long conversation.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 05/18/19 10:20:27 PM #46:	cuttin_in_farm posted... MabusIncarnate posted... It's fine to be mad, but it's better to learn early on what to look for, what to avoid, and how to handle bad situations. All you are doing by texting with her is assuring her how she broke up with you through text is fine, and she didn't do anything wrong by not talking with you about anything. This will convince her to do this again in the future to some other guy because you are seemingly fine with it so far. Just stop talking to her, go see a movie or something and leave your phone at home. Go find someone new. You never know what you are missing if you sit and dwell on something you can't change. Im upset. I know Ill get over it. But your first paragraph. Shouldnt I tell her, respectfully, how I feel about the way she broke things off? To give myself some sense of self-closure? I mean... if she ends it once, she can end it twice. And not been given a reason is just burning. I hate loose ends. Ill cut contact, but I just need to at least tell her why, yes? No, I wouldn't. She disrespected you, very likely knowingly, because most of the world population knows breaking up through text is an asshole thing to do to someone. You are still considering her and her feelings and getting hung up in the moment. She didn't do that for you. You have people at work, and mostly everyone in this thread pretty much saying just stop talking to her asap. I don't live in your head though, but pursuing this further is going to make it worse in the long run. Maybe it's a stupid, irrational reason for her wanting to leave you, and she tells you what it is, and it makes you real self conscious about it, and it's something that sticks with you even though it's the opinion of one person on a planet of billions. In reality it could be absolutely nothing to 99% of everyone else. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign Twenty million starving and writhing in pain <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:922077887] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MabusIncarnate posted...</cite> <quote>It's fine to be mad, but it's better to learn early on what to look for, what to avoid, and how to handle bad situations. All you are doing by texting with her is assuring her how she broke up with you through text is fine, and she didn't do anything wrong by not talking with you about anything. This will convince her to do this again in the future to some other guy because you are seemingly fine with it so far. Just stop talking to her, go see a movie or something and leave your phone at home. Go find someone new. You never know what you are missing if you sit and dwell on something you can't change.</quote> Im upset. I know Ill get over it. But your first paragraph. Shouldnt I tell her, respectfully, how I feel about the way she broke things off? To give myself some sense of self-closure? I mean... if she ends it once, she can end it twice. And not been given a reason is just burning. I hate loose ends. Ill cut contact, but I just need to at least tell her why, yes?</quote> No, I wouldn't. She disrespected you, very likely knowingly, because most of the world population knows breaking up through text is an asshole thing to do to someone. You are still considering her and her feelings and getting hung up in the moment. She didn't do that for you. You have people at work, and mostly everyone in this thread pretty much saying just stop talking to her asap. I don't live in your head though, but pursuing this further is going to make it worse in the long run. Maybe it's a stupid, irrational reason for her wanting to leave you, and she tells you what it is, and it makes you real self conscious about it, and it's something that sticks with you even though it's the opinion of one person on a planet of billions. In reality it could be absolutely nothing to 99% of everyone else.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ThyCorndog 05/18/19 10:23:11 PM #47:	was similar for me TC. everything seemed great for almost a year. then out of nowhere she calls me and breaks it off. I felt like shit for months cause I legit loved her, and I still probably do. after 5 months of not talking since she cut me off, she reached out via text saying she missed me. that was only a month ago. she was texting me for almost 2 weeks and then we had a phone convo for 4 hours. 2 days later I text her and she drops a text on me saying she's sorry and she shouldn't have reached out cause shes seeing someone she loves. what I'm trying to say, to hopefully save you from the hurt I've felt and have been feeling because of how inconsiderate my ex was is: fuck her. do your own thing and forget her. you're in the middle of it, but I've just been through it just now recently and it's all still fresh for me. I'm telling you right now she's not worth your time. you might even love her like I do my ex, but forget it. if she cared about you anywhere near as much as you care about her, she wouldn't be putting you through this --- https://imgur.com/6cPXvLN <cite>ThyCorndog posted [p:922077975] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>was similar for me TC. everything seemed great for almost a year. then out of nowhere she calls me and breaks it off. I felt like shit for months cause I legit loved her, and I still probably do. after 5 months of not talking since she cut me off, she reached out via text saying she missed me. that was only a month ago. she was texting me for almost 2 weeks and then we had a phone convo for 4 hours. 2 days later I text her and she drops a text on me saying she's sorry and she shouldn't have reached out cause shes seeing someone she loves. what I'm trying to say, to hopefully save you from the hurt I've felt and have been feeling because of how inconsiderate my ex was is: fuck her. do your own thing and forget her. you're in the middle of it, but I've just been through it just now recently and it's all still fresh for me. I'm telling you right now she's not worth your time. you might even love her like I do my ex, but forget it. if she cared about you anywhere near as much as you care about her, she wouldn't be putting you through this</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HairyThotter 05/18/19 10:23:59 PM #48:	cuttin_in_farm posted... Shouldnt I tell her, respectfully, how I feel about the way she broke things off? To give myself some sense of self-closure? No... if she respected you, she would've given you a better explanation than her BS through a text. You don't need closure. Giving her an explanation, when she is the one who owes you an explanation... isn't going to change anything or make you feel any better... it'll just make you miss her more. Telling her she did x or y or z wrong.. doesn't matter. It might make you temporarily feel better... but remember, you two aren't together anymore... none of this really matters anymore. Bro I -guarantee- if you don't say a word to her... you will get a text from her somewhere down the line with her being like "hey I'm sorry... I owe you an explanation". Trying to get it right now will just get her to shut you out even more. I just went through this 2 months ago... the best thing you can do is move on. THE BEST THING you can do is move on. --- "With cheese in either hand, anything is possible" <cite>HairyThotter posted [p:922078002] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>cuttin_in_farm posted...</cite> <quote>Shouldnt I tell her, respectfully, how I feel about the way she broke things off? To give myself some sense of self-closure?</quote> No... if she respected you, she would've given you a better explanation than her BS through a text. You don't need closure. Giving her an explanation, when she is the one who owes you an explanation... isn't going to change anything or make you feel any better... it'll just make you miss her more. Telling her she did x or y or z wrong.. doesn't matter. It might make you temporarily feel better... but remember, you two aren't together anymore... none of this really matters anymore. Bro I -guarantee- if you don't say a word to her... you will get a text from her somewhere down the line with her being like "hey I'm sorry... I owe you an explanation". Trying to get it right now will just get her to shut you out even more. I just went through this 2 months ago... the best thing you can do is move on. THE BEST THING you can do is move on.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sativa_Rose 05/18/19 10:24:23 PM #49:	Hoes gonna hoe. --- [This signature was deleted at the request of a moderator or administrator] <cite>Sativa_Rose posted [p:922078016] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>Hoes gonna hoe.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PiOverlord 05/18/19 10:24:47 PM #50:	I definitely understand the need for closure. Not getting to say your final thoughts can be so frustrating. --- Number of legendary 500 post topics: 28, 500th posts: 25; PiO ATTN: 5 RotM wins 1, LETTEN MY ARROW FLYEN TRUE <cite>PiOverlord posted [p:922078028] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote>I definitely understand the need for closure. Not getting to say your final thoughts can be so frustrating.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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