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Topic	Gf just broke up with me. Dunno what to do.
cuttin_in_farm 05/19/19 6:40:22 PM #105:	CesarFaison posted... You say she isn't the type to have dumped you because she found someone else, yet here you are surprised and upset that she suddenly dumped you via text message. Well, these are two different things. She at least acknowledged that she was sorry for doing it via text. Finding someone else just seems like a reach. She would just tell me thats why. Shes many things, but a liar isnt one of them. She has shared bad things shes done without me asking before. She cried the last time I was with her because she had to cut our day short; and she felt bad. Again, yall dont have context. And I get yall wanna be helpful. But the she found someone else is a weak thought. Im sorry if any of yall dealt with it, but thats not what happened here. metallica846 posted... Also get rid of her on ALL social media. Otherwise you will do what I did and stalk that bitch and see who she's talking to. It's bad. We are giving you good advice, in a mean way, but it's good. Guilty as charged, lol. I dont even really use social media either. But yea, I imagine its not healthy. Cleo_II posted... Echoing the no contact advice. I get the need for closure but theres no such thing. Your need for closure is just stemming from your addiction to her. You want to find some reason to stay in contact with her. And thats normal. Breaking up with people is like breaking a habit. Youve spent 6 months with her, communicating every day. Its hard to cut things off abruptly but its the best way to move on from someone. I guess this is the real reason. I tried just talking like a friend but its too hard. Thus, the topic. I just gotta get my emotions in check. I appreciate the legit advice in this topic (and PMs). Im feeling okay. Trying to just find a new relationship definitely seems like a bad coping method. And I definitely agree the distance must have been the hindering factor. I dont know why she has to break things off. But it is what it is. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:922108208] in Gf just br... [t:77724768]...</cite> <quote><cite>CesarFaison posted...</cite> <quote>You say she isn't the type to have dumped you because she found someone else, yet here you are surprised and upset that she suddenly dumped you via text message.</quote> Well, these are two different things. She at least acknowledged that she was sorry for doing it via text. Finding someone else just seems like a reach. She would just tell me thats why. Shes many things, but a liar isnt one of them. She has shared bad things shes done without me asking before. She cried the last time I was with her because she had to cut our day short; and she felt bad. Again, yall dont have context. And I get yall wanna be helpful. But the she found someone else is a weak thought. Im sorry if any of yall dealt with it, but thats not what happened here. <cite>metallica846 posted...</cite> <quote>Also get rid of her on ALL social media. Otherwise you will do what I did and stalk that bitch and see who she's talking to. It's bad. We are giving you good advice, in a mean way, but it's good.</quote> Guilty as charged, lol. I dont even really use social media either. But yea, I imagine its not healthy. <cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>Echoing the no contact advice. I get the need for closure but theres no such thing. Your need for closure is just stemming from your addiction to her. You want to find some reason to stay in contact with her. And thats normal. Breaking up with people is like breaking a habit. Youve spent 6 months with her, communicating every day. Its hard to cut things off abruptly but its the best way to move on from someone.</quote> I guess this is the real reason. I tried just talking like a friend but its too hard. Thus, the topic. I just gotta get my emotions in check. I appreciate the legit advice in this topic (and PMs). Im feeling okay. Trying to just find a new relationship definitely seems like a bad coping method. And I definitely agree the distance must have been the hindering factor. I dont know why she has to break things off. But it is what it is. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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