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Topic	Gonna say NO to the friend zone
wolfy42 12/13/17 1:31:38 PM #33:	OmegaTomHank posted... wolfy42 posted... Jen0125 posted... OmegaTomHank posted... And Im declining. Much like she has the opportunity to decline me wanting more. See how it works? Two way street. declining what? her friendship? you didn't address any part of my post. you can't just literally tell her you don't want to be friends anymore without laying your emotional baggage at her feet? Or don't even just tell her that, just hang out with her less for now and let her choose if she wants to seek you out and do things with you. If she does, and you don't anymore, then turn her down, if she doesn't even bother trying to hang with you, then just let it die and move on. No reason to make it something complicated. Yeah Id consider this but this is childish so Id rather not. It's really not. It's the sane way to handle a situation. You could also actually just communicate with her and tell her your feelings thoughts and see what she says. Lots of ways to handle it, but yeah, if you don't feel comfortable with open communication, then just let her take the lead in your relationship and if she is happy just being friends, then just hang with her like that when you feel like it. You may change your mind later and want to hang out with her more etc after things have time to settle and you get over your initial attraction/desire and can focus more on who she is and the fact you enjoy her company etc. Basically if it's not just physical attraction, why would you ruin a good relationship with someone just because your attracted to them physically as well? Good friends that you really click with are a treasure, don't throw em away just because you might want to be more then just friends. --- Proud member of the Arv The Great is great fan club!!! Join today by putting it in your sig. <cite>wolfy42 posted [p:892146681] in Gonna say ... [t:76094371]...</cite> <quote><cite>OmegaTomHank posted...</cite> <quote><cite>wolfy42 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>OmegaTomHank posted...</cite> <quote> And Im declining. Much like she has the opportunity to decline me wanting more. See how it works? Two way street. </quote> declining what? her friendship? you didn't address any part of my post. you can't just literally tell her you don't want to be friends anymore without laying your emotional baggage at her feet?</quote> Or don't even just tell her that, just hang out with her less for now and let her choose if she wants to seek you out and do things with you. If she does, and you don't anymore, then turn her down, if she doesn't even bother trying to hang with you, then just let it die and move on. No reason to make it something complicated.</quote> Yeah Id consider this but this is childish so Id rather not.</quote> It's really not. It's the sane way to handle a situation. You could also actually just communicate with her and tell her your feelings thoughts and see what she says. Lots of ways to handle it, but yeah, if you don't feel comfortable with open communication, then just let her take the lead in your relationship and if she is happy just being friends, then just hang with her like that when you feel like it. You may change your mind later and want to hang out with her more etc after things have time to settle and you get over your initial attraction/desire and can focus more on who she is and the fact you enjoy her company etc. Basically if it's not just physical attraction, why would you ruin a good relationship with someone just because your attracted to them physically as well? Good friends that you really click with are a treasure, don't throw em away just because you might want to be more then just friends. --- Proud member of the Arv The Great is great fan club!!! Join today by putting it in your sig.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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