I didn't read the rant but I agree. I had a roommate whose girlfriend basically lived with us, and any time he wasn't there she would demand that I hang out with her. I said no all the time but she would nag. It was annoying.
Well, glad you understand.
KingButz posted...
Just act in real life how you act on the board and they will soon stop trying to hang out with you.
I do act more or less the same everywhere!
Pram_the_Oracle posted...
Technically speaking, he'd most likely be dead.
Or ostracized.
Yeah >_>
But it's not like I'm being touchy or overly expressive or something.
INCEPTlON posted...
That is how my roomates are, they constantly need the attention of others. I feel though it correlates to how much you work in life. I am a full time student and part time employee so whatever time i get alone I cherish it.
That makes sense...
AlphaRayAllen posted...
From: Raka_Putra | #006
I'm just insecure and afraid that they'd think negatively of me.
Okay, so you can think poorly of them and that should be okay as long as they're unaware of it, but you don't want them to think poorly of you because...?
If you don't want to hang out with these people, tell them so. If they force the issue, they're the jackasses, not you.
But not telling them so because you're afraid that they won't like you anymore is kid bulls***. Hell, you clearly don't like them, why does it mean anything that they still like you?
I think negatively of you, do you want to huddle in the corner and cry about it?
Yeah, because I really don't care what they think about my thoughts.
And it's because it's gonna be so awkward because we hang out with the same lot. It's like if Velma and Fred don't like each other, or if Sailor Mars and Sailor Mercury fight with each other.
We don't even hang around the same B8 crowd.
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Oh, I am one yet many.