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| Topic | Girls: I'm going to die alone. :'( |
| joe40001 11/27/19 5:37:01 PM #47: | Vol2tex posted... It's not as simple as that though. My own boss at work, when she was in her late teens, was with this guy who was extremely controlling (not letting her go anywhere without him, monitoring all her communication) and she was unhappy, yet she stayed with him for 5 years. These guys appear great in some respects but treat the women poorly and then apologize for their behavior, yet start behaving that way again. To some extent, they feel worried about leaving the guy, in terms of the guy trying to harm them. There's a variety of factors surrounding why they stay with these guys but I don't think it is productive to say that they can always simply leave. They aren't hostages, they can always leave. If they legitimately fear for their safety leaving 1. They really shouldn't date guys like that in the first place, but whatever 2. Tell people about it, find a safe way to break it off where people know you are going to break it off and you have people around you who can help you feel safe. I'm sorry but you aren't going to get me to cosign to the idea that these people who choose shitty guys, choose not to leave them, are actually stuck and helpless victims. Maybe they shouldn't go for the "bad boy" so damn much. They should take some accountability for the type of people they date. But regardless they can always leave so idk why they need you white knighting them. People who constantly choose to stay in relationships with shitty people aren't the people who have it rough, the people who have it rough are the ones who go their entire life not knowing what it's like to have physical/emotional intimacy. --- "joe is attractive and quite the brilliant poster" - Seiichi Omori https://imgur.com/TheGsZ9 ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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