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LiberalAgenda8 posted...

The market is oversaturated to where a random individual can post a pic on instagram, only fans, or twitter and will still get paid lots of money(only fans) or get tons of comments and praise.

Essentially the onus is on me to still be "traditional"(approach, be chivalrous, set everything up) regarding people im attracted to that aren't traditional themselves.

I've only been back into the dating world for a few months at this point, but literally none of that has been my experience. If you're attracted to people who aren't "traditional," then maybe you don't need to be traditional yourself? Don't change who you are to approach people on the app, just change the way you approach them to better suit who you are.

If I match with someone and they aren't interesting to me or don't seem to be willing to actually engage, I usually just straight up tell them that it doesn't feel like they really want to interact. I try to be cordial about it, but if they don't really care, then I just unmatch with them. It's pretty easy to tell when someone actually wants to talk or if they're just going through the motions.

Don't waste your time and effort on people who don't really want you.