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Topic	She's finally moving in! - What's the etiquette on bills etc?
cuttin_in_farm 11/10/22 6:37:55 PM #24:	SHRlKE posted... What should I do then? I dont want her to get cold feet and not move in. You should do what you want to do. Not follow some assumed norm. If youre cool with her paying nothing, thats fine. If you want her to chip in on only utilities, do so. Etc. Just dont ever try to hold it against her in a future conflict if you didnt establish her having to pay half or something. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:969339846] in She's fina... [t:80228782]...</cite> <quote>SHRlKE posted... </cite><quote>What should I do then? I dont want her to get cold feet and not move in.</quote>You should do what you want to do. Not follow some assumed norm. If youre cool with her paying nothing, thats fine. If you want her to chip in on only utilities, do so. Etc. Just dont ever try to hold it against her in a future conflict if you didnt establish her having to pay half or something. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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