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ertyu1978 posted...

ok then thanks im going to go play a videogame thow im not sure what to play yet ?

There is something called sex maybe you should play it instead
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scarletspeed7 posted...

I don't think you know why I posted what I did.

\_()_/
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scarletspeed7 posted...

Peace___Frog posted...

Nanis23 posted...

I wish I had those kind of stories too so I could derail topics like this as well but my life is pretty boring so I don't damn it

Maybe try being a bigger piece of shit

Holy fuck.

You know for all the stuff I say I don't really do anything wrong IRL right
Wake up, go to work, come back home, repeat
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I wish I had those kind of stories too so I could derail topics like this as well but my life is pretty boring so I don't damn it
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Ulti derailed this topic without doing anything
This is pretty amazing actually
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Punnyz posted...

Raises Caterpie to get Butterfree

Butterfree doesn't learn confusion

you sonuva bitch

It does..
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LapisLazuli posted...

Paratroopa1 posted...

wow there's a surprising amount of victim blaming going on in this topic

I mean I guess it shouldn't be surprising but whatever

pretty much none of what the man in this article did is acceptable and it is not her fault for getting caught up in it

I mean look at the users involved. You knew every single one of their stances before they posted.

This is very depressing
I wish people here were more flexible with their mindset, but instead we have 2 "camps" all the time
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Emeraldegg posted...

The point is that by your logic, Poland was "asking for it" by being weak, and that Germany, who was the one who wanted to have dominance over someone, can go take what they want and go "not my fault, they were weak!". In this case, by your logic, the lady was "asking for it" by being weak, and the guy, who is the one who wanted dominance over someone, can go and take what he wants and go "not my fault, she was weak!"

If that's really how you see it then I have nothing more to say to you.

What??? no, you misunderstood completely
I am not one of those people that believe in "asking for it" (same goes for women that dress like whores, no I am not in the "they asked to be raped" idiots club)
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Emeraldegg posted...

Nanis23 posted...

but "emotional abuse" is something I can't take seriously because emotions are the "victim's" "fault"

Emotions are a part of every human being that we cannot ignore, and sometimes it clouds our judgment. If you simply refuse to acknowledge that it's the case, then so be it. What I take such issue with is that you have this notion that somehow, taking advantage of someone's weak emotional state is not a "more bad" thing to do than being in a weak emotional state. It's like saying Germany wasn't wrong to invade Poland during WW2 because Germany had a strong army and Poland didn't, and that somehow Poland is JUST AS BAD, heck, according to you, WORSE, than Germany was. The guy was the AGGRESSOR here. HE was the one doing bad things TO HER. And she's just as guilty as he is?

This is a very weird example
I mean, it's not like Poland could say at any point "stop invading me" or had any say in the matter
She did, she wasn't forced to. She just succumbed herself into doing it
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Paratroopa1 posted...

wow there's a surprising amount of victim blaming going on in this topic

I mean I guess it shouldn't be surprising but whatever

pretty much none of what the man in this article did is acceptable and it is not her fault for getting caught up in it

It's just me Ulti and Vlado
It doesn't count

Yet
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UltimaterializerX posted...

The problem with all these harassment claims is that so many of them are proven to be made up, lying, or clear "please give me money" or "please fire this male I don't like yay girl power" claims. There are just as many men having their lives ruined by false claims as there are women having their lives ruined by legitimate scumbags, but you don't hear about those men much. That woman also clearly stayed in that relationship for money. Zero sympathy whatsoever.

Some girl just came out and accused a guy that died in 9/11 of harassment and specifically mentioned his pension amount. So because of idiot women like that, I'm automatically taking in these claims with a huge grain of salt unless there is stone cold proof. On the same exact day I read that 9/11 article, I saw some Princeton article accusing Einstein of racism 70 years after his death. What class. I joked when this garbage began that women would start accusing dead people of harassment when they ran out of living people to run down, but it actually happened.

I don't believe she is lying about most things
The blacklisting thing does seem a bit fishy though
Just how strong are his connections? how can every place she went to had a connection to him? and how come he said someone like "if you hire her, I won't do business with you anymore" and they were willing to let that slide?
It just sounds too weird to be true
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guffguy89 posted...

But who will host the Talking Dead?

Does it matter
S9 will bomb so bad it will be the last
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Tomba42 posted...

Did everyone who is saying she should just leave even finish the article? She did leave and then he and a cohort conspired to sabotage her life and career. I mean fuck.

I did
Everything from that point is indefensible if it's true
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Emeraldegg posted...

trentpac posted...

"Our relationship started out poorly. Within 2 weeks, rules were quickly established."

I stopped reading there. I'm sorry I'm not going to feel sorry for someone who gets themselves in a bad relationship FROM THE START and wonders why things got so bad down the road.

She's not asking that you feel sorry for her, she's trying to bring awareness for other people who have or may in the future run into this, to learn from her mistakes.

That's fine
But if his career get hurt in any way because of this, this is uncalled for

I have no problem with the article itself as a warning for other women with the same problem, it's a
very welcome piece
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Emeraldegg posted...

Taking advantage of someone, emotionally manipulating them to get what you want, regardless of "legality," sure as hell is an immoral, scummy, just plain bad thing for someone to do. Do you disagree with even that nanis? Do you truly think that the powerful have a right to take what they want from the weak, at the expense of the weak, with no repercussions because they're powerful?

I will say that yes, she absolutely should have left when she saw the red flags. She admits as much, admits that she made a mistake. It's easier for her to see in hindsight. That, therefore, means we should absolve the man here of ALL wrongdoing, rather than call him out on scummy behavior? Just because she made a mistake, means the burden of the man's more numerous and more ****ty mistakes are shifted onto her?

I just hate those double standards
People can't go around saying "he is an adult being, he is responsible for his actions" all the time, and on the other hand claiming someone else taking advantage of someone is wrong
And yes you do see it all the time
Someone spending thousands of dollars on microtranscations? he is a adult being, it's his fault
Someone spending ALL HIS MONEY on the casino? adult being, his fault
Someone driving under influence? adult being, his fault

I have no idea how to express it, but trust me, and I swear it - I do not like victim blaming
I do not enjoy it, and I don't do it just because the victim came out
I just honestly want to say this - I do not understand "emotional abuse"
Again, we are talking about 20 years old I believe? isn't she responsible for her actions, for her emotions, isn't she in clear mind to see what is right and what is wrong?

I wouldn't defend that Chris dude if violence or threats were involved, but "emotional abuse" is something I can't take seriously because emotions are the "victim's" "fault"
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CoolCly posted...

it's interesting because her exact story shows up on r/relationships every day. complete with the age gap.

Seems like daddy issues are pretty common
It's just that most woman are not willing to admit it
Now is everyone that takes advantage of it is a creep and should be shamed?
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Let's also not kid ourselves
I am absolutely sure EVERYONE here knows at LEAST one person her that his girlfriend/wife forbids him from interacting with other females
It isn't right, but it's not like "you need to be my one and only" is so rare in relationships
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Cybat posted...

What exactly do you think taking advantage of someone means? How would you arrive at a meaning for that phrase without implicitly assigning fault to the person who does it?

Because it isn't entirely his fault
She could have stopped dating him at any point. She could not accept his rules from the very beginning
Everything was her decision
There was no threat to her life, he didn't hurt her or rape her or anything. She was just in love with someone succesful, and she didn't want to lose him, fully willing to give him everything just to fulfil her dream
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Would have voted for TLOU 2 if I had a PS4 or any intention of getting one, this was the best game shown at E3 for sure
KH3 looked great, the series itself always looked appealing to me and I would like to play it at some point
I personally don't feel like too much time passed since the last Smash so it's kind of hard for me to get excited for it
As a concept I would have voted for DMC5, but it looked kinda bad...I want to believe it turns out to be good, though
Death Stranding looked like a Walking Simulator, probably the most disappointing game for me in E3, but we will see
Complete indifference about the rest of the games

So I guess my vote goes for Smash huh
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SeabassDebeste posted...

it feels good and you feel empowered. you have less self-doubt and are more confident about your own intelligence.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect

Nothing like me at all, I am not considering myself superior to anyone
This is just a matter of me not believing that "taking advantage of a mental weaked person" is the fault of the "strong person" and is not considered a abuse
And let me just clarify - mentally weak does not equal mentally ill
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Just a matter of time before someone more respectable here agrees with me
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Not a bait, the only thing wrong he did was the blacklisting thing (assuming it really happened)
The rest are her being weak-minded and unstable
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He did nothing wrong
Besides she sounds super mental and I take everything she said with a grain of salt
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Not really fair because everyone remembers Sasha smile as it happens before something magical
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Was not a fan of TLJ but TFA alone is better than all 3 prequels combined
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He is a handsome guy
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It..looks bad :/
The music is great though

By the way, what about the release date? I mean..
https://nintendoeverything.com/bloodstained-ritual-of-the-night-release-date-news-expected-in-march-kickstarter-update/
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Besides Aqua Man is not a joke he is the best

Also, Toad Man is the most memorable but for all of the wrong reasons. I hate him and i hate his stage and i want to see him and his stage burn forever constantly never to be able to burn again with his effing snails and waterfalls and rain and just die already. just effing die. This monstrosity of a level and robot master is the reason that 4 is the worst of the original 6 this and this alone

The stage? the boss itself is the worst
Does he have any moves other than jumping around? I don't think I ever got hit when fighting him
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LeonhartFour posted...

Nanis23 posted...

Aqua Man

how many times are you going to feel the need to try to make this joke

Until we get to MM8
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Aqua Man
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So no chance of a new game reveal this year in Treehouse?
Last year we got Samus Returns and Superstar Saga reveal IIRC
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Anagram posted...

I just looked at Gen 7 and the only pokemon that seems popular enough is Decidueye. Maybe they won't add a new pokemon, or they'll add something from Gen 8 as an early ad.

Mimikyu
Not sure how it would work as a fighter though
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I mean when I said full size I expected something like....not this

This is amazing

It's also cool that the original artwork had both RIdley and Daisy, but the one shown on the trailer didn't have them because they were meant to be a surprise
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CelesMyUserName posted...

http://gmun.moe/smash.png

uploaded full picture >_> be warned 138MB!

Hahaha holy shit
You are the best
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Aqua Man.
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Aqua Man
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Is there a full-size picture of this?

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Was promised a promotion to be a sys admin like half a year ago
They keep on dragging me around, telling me "soon"
Meanwhile I am extremely worn out, overqualified helpdesk support that is just tired of hearing stupid people
I have monitored most recurring problems, I have auto-fix for most of them (Powershell is amazing) and I keep those tools for myself because my team is full of idiots and they don't deserve it
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TheGoddamnSanta posted...

exp share made you drastically overleveled

no exp share made you drastically underleveled

Ultra sun tries to fix this by making a huge level leap on the last island.

Having played Gen 7 games multiple times, both with EXP Share on and off, there is no problem with the levels
In fact, main-game balance is one of the very few things that gen 7 did right, and it's all thanks to the Gen V exp forumla
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Wanglicious posted...

where's the yes to multiples of those.

Anagram'd
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I want to believe in Nintendo but most of their popular franchises are in "cooldown"
It's too soon for a new Mario or Zelda, we already know about the next Pokemon game, Kirby just came out

They can do the following I guess-
New REAL Paper Mario
Smash Switch is a new game
New Animal Crossing
Bayonetta 3
Prime 4 trailer
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Can anyone compare the number of games showed during EA and Microsoft
This is going to be funny
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They showed 50 games, game after game, some of them are premiere
Gears 5, DMC 5, Battletoads, Halo etc
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I just realized ertyu is a "New User"
When did they remove the post limitation on new users?
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Aqua Man
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ExThaNemesis posted...

How have you people seen Fallen Kingdom already?

US is the only place that gets it late, like 3 weeks late
No idea why
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Mr Lasastryke posted...

i haven't seen jurassic world but from what i've heard it's just a bunch of fanservice for jurassic park fans.

Which was fitting considering it was aired 22 years after the first one, every throwback was great
It doesn't fit when you do it in a sequel like Fallen Kingdom because now I think that those are not throwbacks, but rather stealing ideas from stuff that worked and hoping to recreate the magic
Fallen Kingdom spoiler - The Brachiosaurus when they landed on the island was a throwback to the Brachiosaurus scene from the first movie. Yet it wasn't half as magical as the original, which was the first ever time people saw a dinosaur at the theater. Now? just a lame copy-paste
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Jurassic World was fantastic
Fallen Kingdom was not
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yay conference spoiler
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redrocket posted...

Ulti of all people unironically posted that?!?!

Next thing you know he is going to say SotC and WC3 are not popular
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