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Worst one I got was on my shoulder but I think if was the artists fault. I had blood dripping down my back when she was doing it. I had to get it touched up because it was so scarred

I'm not here to teach you lol. Idk why you continually feel like I need to police what I say to help others or teach you moral lessons. You're a 30+ year old man. I'm not your mother or your therapist.

That sounds like utopia

Very cheesy extra pull

Blightzkrieg posted...

Literally once you die it's not your problem anymore, why do this to yourself

My cat gets my meat and my dog gets my bones, the roaches can have all my belongings

How will the roaches know the division of your belongings? You want your roaches to fight after your death? That's not very fetch

I probably won't see it in theaters

I don't think it could beat the live action one tbh lol

agesboy posted...

i refreshed my amp page literally right after i posted

you reactively responded within 16 seconds after 15 minutes of inactivity

And? I refreshed my page? Who gives a shit? Lmao

Look I responded in 4 seconds now

Oh it was a minute 4 nevermind lmao

I put the plant in the dark so it can't create any oxygen for ANYONE

I can't help it that I refreshed when you posted? You posted 47 seconds later lol. Is that any different?

agesboy posted...

can you quote the specific bits adjl said that you find abhorrent? I'm legitimately having a hard time following you here. he has repeatedly admonished violence?

I just said how. Very plainly lol.

adjl posted...

Again, you seem to be believing that I've suggested something I haven't. Can you point out where I said that men don't commit the majority of violent crimes? If I've miscommunicated somehow, I'd like to correct that so I can avoid misunderstandings in the future.

Oh just the rhetoric relegating my comments regarding violent sex to "not being good at sex." Just the whole male diminishing male violence comments.

It's not angry. I always edit my posts because I think too fast and always want to add more. Are you angry because I posted the statistics? What am I being a devils advocate for? Lol I'm not the devil.

https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2012/crime-in-the-u.s.-2012/tables/42tabledatadecoverviewpdf/table_42_arrests_by_sex_2012.xls

Here are the statistics on male perpetration of violent crimes for the mod who says it's sexist lol

Agesboy can read it too. And adjl.

VampireCoyote posted...

I had to make a change to my 401k yesterday and it made me feel so adult it ruined my entire afternoon

It's so fucking boring to do adult shit

Ogurisama posted...

Everything to @RCtheWSBC ?

Now that I own a house I need to make it so that if I died tomorrow my boyfriend wouldn't be evicted from his place of residence

Sigh

Being an adult is annoying

Window. It gives me something nice to look at. Plus I can rest my head on the wall of the plane. And I don't have to be touched by two people like when you sit in the middle. Only one person.

Cancel oxygen! I'm stomping this plant TODAY!

The fact that adjl thinks violent aggressive sex is the same as "not knowing what to do in bed" is cringe.

I really want to be done with this topic but you keep saying foul shit lol it's wild

MightBeOverSoon posted...

Also, I personally cross the street when I see a man in general. If he thinks it's over his skin color and not his y chromosome then oh well. I'm not looking to risk getting menaced to spare your feelings.

Fucking exactly. I'm never trying to be alone with a man that I don't know while knowing how much violent crime they commit. Not all men is a fine mantra but I don't know all men and with the high percentage risk why would I take the chance to find out?

Anyways now that adjl gave me his misguided daddy lecture and is ready to talk about his lived experience as a white man talking about issues he doesn't experience I'm really out of this topic lol

adjl posted...

Would you respond that way to a black man complaining that people cross the street when they see him? That if he isn't personally going to assault the person, he shouldn't be concerned about the fact that the person believed he would?

Prejudicial discrimination is always stupid and should always be called out accordingly. It doesn't magically become okay because you feel (justifiably or not) like you've had it worse.

I don't speak for the experiences of black men that's up for them. I speak on my experience as a woman. Maybe you should try to reel in your "empathy" and stop speaking over other people's lived experiences and what studies actually show.

I don't have empathy for men on potd so I guess that's where you're getting is wrong

MightBeOverSoon posted...

I appreciate you almost certainly taking the moderation to say something that I dont have the karma to post without getting banned.

It's always gotta be me because I'm like one of the only women posting here anymore and I refuse to let men here pity party

keyblader1985 posted...

Gotta be honest; that's pretty dumb logic IMO. Why would anyone, of any gender, race, sexuality, or any demographic at all, be okay with letting people go around insulting explicitly everyone of that group? That shit just leads to false reputations which leads to vilification.

If the shoe doesn't fit, don't wear it. I do vilify men because in general they deserve it lmao. Men are the cause of almost all the ills of our society because for thousands of years you have oppressed literally anyone else from having a chance to try things a different way. If that makes you upset, that isn't my problem. Men caused the wars, men perpetrate the most violent crimes. Men are seriously special snowflakes that think they deserve all the spoils of the world because that's what you've all taught yourself lol. It doesn't matter if there are men that don't act that way because you still benefit from your historical supremacy.

I'm done with this topic because I even posted sources regarding what I'm talking about but men want to boohoo instead of doing some overarching self reflection on why women think men aren't shit.

adjl posted...

I'm not wearing it. I'm pointing out that your approach to something we both agree is a problem is counterproductive and probably actually just makes the problem worse. Why would you want to do that?

Why do you always act like things I say on potd are meant to change the world? Again, grow up.

Men always act like it's people's responsibility to handhold their feelings through reality lol. No. Porn addiction and watching porn consistently is bad for your sexual health and how you treat women. It's a fact. No one can hold your hand through that. Radical acceptance is there for you when you're ready.

adjl posted...

That's pretty common among anyone that you criticize for something that doesn't apply to them.

If it doesn't apply to you don't wear the shoe.

MightBeOverSoon posted...

I can see how me saying "most men are addicted to porn" or you saying "Porn has made a lot of men into a bad/selfish lovers" would very much feel like an attack on masculinity, which can be super fragile.

I don't get it. If the shoe doesn't fit don't put it on. I don't sit there and be like "well I'm not like other girls" if someone is talking about "women are gold diggers" because it doesn't apply to me so I don't accept the label. Like grow up.

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/10532528.2000.10559784

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/ab.20328

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6751001/

https://tinyurl.com/bp7d4uud
United Kingdom Government
https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk ...PDF
The relationship between pornography use and harmful sexual attitudes and ...

Men really can't stand to have any criticism levied without saying "well not me tho right"

adjl posted...

Or, to turn that around, some men have no problem figuring out how to be good at sex without consuming any less porn than those that aren't. Blaming porn therefore makes little sense. The common element among men that are bad at sex isn't porn, it's an unwillingness to listen to their partners. I'll happily accept that most men suck at that (though I really struggle to understand why, since it's not something I've ever had a problem with, and I'm far from a genius in the interpersonal intelligence department). It may actually be special and lucky to find a man that doesn't (speaking as somebody who's never tried to find a male lover, I can't really comment on that), but it really shouldn't be, and I'm all for calling that out. Just not for pinning the blame on something that's largely ancillary (though undeniably related, since I fully expect that porn trends among more considerate men favour porn that at least tries to portray that it cares about the woman's pleasure).

#notallmen

Pikazard1 posted...

if its what I think it is, not really. but you do whatever makes you happy.

im more into cactus and succulents

Why don't you like it? It's a plant. It helps make oxygen for the planet.

ReturnOfFa posted...

I enjoy pornography and watch it almost daily. I support some smaller creators.

Not suggesting that porn hasn't influenced a lot of men negatively, but I'd observe that those men were perhaps already going to be terrible at sex, thoughtless about their partner, poor communicators, and only thinking about their own experience. If anything, it's definitely reinforced ideas about sex that are not universal whatsoever.

I've watched porn since before I was sexually active, and throughout. I stopped watching it for a couple of years during a relationship. I have always received compliments regarding my communication abilities surrounding sex. I know there's a problem with other men when the majority of my sexual partners have acted pleasantly surprised and seem relieved after having sex.

Porn is definitely part of the problem, but I think the root is just in how we raise boys. We do not raise them to be emotionally communicative.

ReturnOfFa posted...

I enjoy pornography and watch it almost daily. I support some smaller creators.

Not suggesting that porn hasn't influenced a lot of men negatively, but I'd observe that those men were perhaps already going to be terrible at sex, thoughtless about their partner, poor communicators, and only thinking about their own experience. If anything, it's definitely reinforced ideas about sex that are not universal whatsoever.

I've watched porn since before I was sexually active, and throughout. I stopped watching it for a couple of years during a relationship. I have always received compliments regarding my communication abilities surrounding sex. I know there's a problem with other men when the majority of my sexual partners have acted pleasantly surprised and seem relieved after having sex.

Porn is definitely part of the problem, but I think the root is just in how we raise boys. We do not raise them to be emotionally communicative.

#notallmen

captpackrat posted...

Stuff grows wild all over the place around here...

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/4/2/AAQwHjAAEWhq.jpg

Wooooah

Revelation34 posted...

No she said that she would get modded if she posted any proof. That would not happen since you don't need to post porn clips for that kind of "proof."

I wasn't talking about OP who is on the extreme end of the spectrum saying all porn use is bad

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A friendly one

https://i.imgur.com/km1vpvG.jpeg

adjl posted...

It just requires the systematic indoctrination of the next couple generations of kids with sex ed that promotes consent, respect, and communication as crucial elements of any sexual relationship

So.. Impossible.

adjl posted...

There's no reason it can't be a healthy, beneficial industry, th

Human nature makes this impossible. Power dynamics make this impossible.

Blightzkrieg posted...

If everything goes perfectly from here by 2031 he'll be under house arrest with a full staff dedicated to serving his every need, justice at last

US justice at its finest!

MightBeOverSoon posted...

I went from laughing super hard at the power drill line to being super sad.

My ex is a giant ugly idiot gorilla but I was never once was made to feel like that.

Yeah it's really fucking sad. It makes me feel sad when I think about it. I'm glad you never had to experience it but be careful now that you're single.

I'm not talking about "healthy consumption" but you're making it seem like porn has no negatives lmao you're so weird fr.

MightBeOverSoon posted...

I consider myself pretty blessed to not have had that experience.

I feel grateful I finally found a man that isn't like that because it's been a long go of men acting like my pussy is for a power drill. There are certain sex acts I can't even do anymore because men have really traumatized me out of enjoying it.

He made his own mugshot. He didn't even get a mugshot taken lmao what a fucking loser.

adjl posted...

Oh, of course it has. There are reams upon reams of issues with porn and its role in society. Nobody with half a brain would deny that. Similarly, though, there's no reason to deny that porn can be consumed healthily, without being addicted or otherwise suffering harm. Like most things, the sensible position falls somewhere between those two extremes, which means you aren't likely to find it in an obvious troll topic.

Idk I see a lot of defensiveness over OP even suggesting porn is bad lol. Like it's well known porn is terrible for the actors and society. If you want to consume it that's fine but to pretend porn isn't a net negative is a little silly to me.

MightBeOverSoon posted...

I'm going to guess that women who watch a lot of porn probably have some pretty misguided opinions on what feels nice for guys too.

Guys expect huge knockers, girls expect huge dongs, and everyone expects positions and actions that are not only not sustainable, but not super pleasurable.

I can only speak from my perspective in that porn has made a lot of men absolutely terrible at sex

LinkPizza posted...

If youre addicted, sure But just watching it sometimes is fine In moderation People just have to learn to separate fantasy and reality Like with video games, tv, and books

It's not comparable to those other forms of media lol. Sex and reading are completely different.

Are people actually denying that porn has caused serious social issues regarding sex and sexuality?

I guess it's not surprising since this board is mostly male dominated but as a cisgender heterosexual woman that has sex with cisgender heterosexual men porn had rotted a lot of their brains into believing all women need to be fucking pounded as hard and fast as possible for it to feel nice.

I'm not. I watch porn maybe once a month.

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