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There's too much pressure to be interesting imo


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EngineerGamer posted...

just meet girls irl, no one on tinder is worthwhile

Girls on tinder come from irl iirc

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See that mountain, TC?

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Conflict posted...

Uh, yeah, it actually does make you interesting. It means you're into traveling, and that's an interest a lot of people on dating apps have. Someone looking through your pictures could already see something they have in common with you.

You get why there's an emphasis on using 'active' pictures instead of basic selfies now?

People can always decide that you're just putting on a front for the app

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4 pints of ice cream is fucking nothing

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bj

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Smackems posted...

I've had dreams like this since I was a kid. But i cut all the shady people out of my life when I quit drinking so all I'm really left with are people I trust

well, that's how you feel consciously but maybe your subconscious is telling a different story

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To dream that someone is shooting you with a gun suggests that you are experiencing some confrontation in your waking life. You may be feeling victimized in some situation. If you dream that someone is shooting you in the back, then it means that you are involved with some questionable people who may be harmful to your well-being. It also implies that you are too trusting of others.

From dreammoods

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averagejoel posted...

well obviously you have to actually talk to and meet people to get that. but dating sites can help with finding someone that's similar to you.

I definitely have a "type" -- or I guess a few "types" -- that I gravitate towards, and for the most part I don't bother trying to match with people who don't seem like they fit that. it's nothing against them personally; just that they're probably not a good fit for me

yea, and I have to assume women feel the same way lol.

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Yeah, I'm partial to the local scene so I know all the hottest slang, like "trolley knocking"

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shockthemonkey posted...

If your standards are I just want something then I dont know how to have a conversation about this

I know I dont just want a list of statuses and identities bundled into one person

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lww99 posted...

its entirely dependent on the type of dancing youre doing.

im pretty much only speaking in the context of grinding/twerking. Which is literally the same motion as clothed, non penetrative sex

Yes that's what I'm talking about too

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AdmiralStiff posted...

Never liked clubbing, not even on my early 20's

High school dance?

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lww99 posted...

na Ive seen girls get upset about it before. I just dont understand their thought process I guess.

Ok... so maybe a boner isnt normal when dancing

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pinky0926 posted...

I think if dating apps ask you to do the bare minimum and you don't even do that then it says more about you than you'd care to admit.

Like I think good photos are useful. "Good" doesn't have to mean it made you look handsome either. I think guys who have photos that make them seem like fun, adventurous spirits do much better than guys who have photos that make it look like they have no hobbies.

Personally I like the photos of women who look like people I'd actually want to talk to and hang out with.

What if I'm not fun and adventurous? What if my personality is just a mugshot style photo of me with a blank expression.

And yes, also, what if what this says about me is true? Many such people still find love lol

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shockthemonkey posted...

It doesnt make a difference to you if someone puts up less attractive pics than someone else?

Huh? I dont compare profiles to each other. Admittedly though I am in a bit of a compromise phase where I dont really care about looks that much, I guess I actually just want some female friends in my life... But I also want to fuck... But I dont really care about looks that much... it's complicated lol

I just wouldnt swipe left on someone because the picture isnt great, I guess

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Who posted

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lww99 posted...

thats fucking dumb lol. Like what kind of physical reaction was she expecting?

Maybe my d was too small I guess

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SableWolfAngel posted...

I meant does a tingly feeling count.

This topic is about boners

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shockthemonkey posted...

Do you really wanna date someone who couldnt even be bothered putting up a worthwhile picture?

As long as I can tell what they look like it doesn't make much of a difference to me

I'm not talking about photos that misrepresent

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Background_Guy posted...

What, is it that common for girls to grind against your junk? I don't go to night clubs. Maybe I should start (after the whole pandemic thing)

I wouldnt say women are just giving dances away but yes that does happen at clubs

A girl literally stopped grinding with me when I popped a boner so I wasnt sure

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Do you really wanna date someone who swiped right because the picture was high quality? And why

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I often get cold feet (read: twice) and drop tinder convos, but it's not ghosting unless you've been on a date so I've never ghosted

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SableWolfAngel posted...

Um, I think? It's more of a tingling and hot feeling for me, though. I definitely get super tingly at the strip club, too. Does that count?

I guess a lap dance is pretty close to grinding

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The Trent posted...

i'd love to replicate what dude was doing beachside, it was an open fire cook and definitely had a marinade
not sure if he was using coals, which would be my only downfall
i can do pretty much anything else though

I sent him a msg, I'll send you a dm when he replies, coal is usually involved yeah but I'm sure a gas grill can do it close enough

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The Trent posted...

i had a shit ton of jerk chicken last year in jamaica and i want to replicate that
it definitely wasn't ketchup-y

What is your fave way to cook? I can ask my dad to see if he has a recipie

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The Trent posted...

yo do you have a good jerk chicken recipe i'm bonkers for that fucking bird

In jamaica a lot of jerk chicken is served with ketchup and is totally different from what you might expect

As for a recipie, not really, my family always just uses store bought rub and then bake the chicken

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Nightmaker taught me how to grind

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DeroIin posted...

24 year olds dont go clubbing? News to me

but I do. How do you not

Most of us are 30ish

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I assume most people dont club or go to dances at our age, but if you've grinded, did you get boners?

Bonus: has a girl ever gone low while grinding? Did they learn that from the rap music...

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ledbowman posted...

what about iggy azalea

First things first

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Bio1590 posted...

No one hates him exclusively because of his ****bait sig.

He also has extremely strong negative "opinions" of non-white people.

Yeah he does have bad opinions too

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Ermac posted...

i have an unpopular opinion but everyone who disagrees with me is wrong

Lmao people thinking Eminem fans will do anything to convince themselves he's the best isnt an unpopular thought

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I'm Jamaican and don't like coconuts

But chopping them open with a machete is cool

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The_Korey posted...

Last I saw of him, he either got warned or worse.

Either way, what's with the strong Rika hate?

Now that I think of it I havent seen posts from you in a minute either

Hate for Rika stems from what his possible porn interests might include, I think

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Disappearance is good, definitely watch it

I still remember watching the first season as a teen, such a good show

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I wouldnt want to marry someone who doesnt give blowjobs

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teep_ posted...

No, I get paid during my PhD

It's school and work!

Yeah I know >_>;

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teep_ posted...

Hey, 3-5 years of getting paid

I also prefer school to work so it's a net win!

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lol sloppy toppy

Yes, I don't think it's too much to ask for but it actually is

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nfearurspecimn posted...

ah okay just checkin. duncan goes there.

Now I want to go Duncan hunting

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nfearurspecimn posted...

so I should go there then??

I feel like dudes like SaccharineSmile and jballen would make more sense on the sex board

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Smash board

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Oh you mad cuz I'm styling on you

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