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Artemis86 posted...

Nordini comes to mind as someone who screams about transphobes while spewing hate about furries.

I don't think I've ever engaged with that person, but if that's what they feel then I disagree with them. I hope you'll understand if I don't take your words as the absolute truth. I'd rather they speak for themselves.

SwayM posted...

Imagine literally believing all straight males need to be attracted to every pair of breasts and vagina on the planet. Are we 12 years old?

Hey, you were the one who said sex organs were the kicker. Don't wanna be thought of that way then don't say it.

There are many men that are not attracted to fake breasts, this has been accepted for decades. You're not going to convince anyone they should be attracted to something they're not attracted to.

Not all transwomen have breasts via cosmetic surgery. Some developed theirs via hormone treatment. Are you saying that those are "fake breasts" despite having been developed essentially the same way as the breasts of cis women?

SwayM posted...

Basic common sense shit.

You rarely demonstrate sense in any of your posts, so this is not something you get to claim.

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CyricZ He/him

Artemis86 posted...

The same people say these two things in different topics.

Who?

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SwayM posted...

You can't fathom some people are only attracted to biological sex organs eh.

There are trans women who have breasts and a vagina, just as there are cis women who have breasts and a vagina.

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CyricZ He/him

SwayM posted...

A little thing called biology.

I'm afraid you'll have to get more specific. "Biology" isn't listed on dating apps.

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CyricZ He/him

SPE posted...

I did?

Posts #137 and #160.

dave_is_slick posted...

Why are you so intent on forcing people to be attracted to what they aren't attracted to? Why are you trying to speak for trans people when they themselves have said it's understandable?

Why are you so intent saying I'm "forcing" anything? I'm just at my keyboard here. Can't force nothin'.

You can still ultimately do whatever and whoever you want.

Just calling people out.

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CyricZ He/him

SPE posted...

Why is cyric so mad itt?

Not an especially fair question from someone who admitted to trying to make me mad yesterday.

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CyricZ He/him

That's a door?

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CyricZ He/him

Cristina Vee's doing good for herself.

Then again I think she was doing VA work prior to getting on Hyper Force.

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SwayM posted...

Weve come full circle to my original point. You dont control who people are attracted to. Dont be a hypocrite.

Speaking of coming full circle, what's different about a transwoman that makes her unattractive compared to a cis woman?

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CyricZ He/him

I think we should give him another chance to express his feelings you guys. He's normally so nice.

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SwayM posted...

I mean Ive also seen that too, but its far less common obviously

So your suggestion is that being trans should be a required entry on dating apps.

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CyricZ He/him

_Angel_ posted...

What if that trans kid grows up and realizes that they don't want to be trans no more and regrets that shit?

Then you reverse whatever you can.

You don't deny people care on the off chance that they might not want it further down the line.

And you don't assume kids are stupid and don't know who they are just because you don't understand what it means to be transgender.

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CyricZ He/him

Oh, I was confused. I wasn't talking about kids. I was talking about being trans.

I thought you were saying you'd seen "I'm trans" on the front page of dating apps.

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SwayM posted...

Tell me youve never dated.

I'm on Bumble dude. Legit never seen it.

SwayM posted...

I like how you lot purposely phrase things in the worst way, in some desperate Hail Mary attempt to make a point.

Hey, if it's not, then don't make the comparison yourself. You brought it up.

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CyricZ He/him

Then again, I guess I'm not really that down with my trans friends and their dating. Maybe they feel they really should be upfront about to avoid, y'know, being beaten the hell out of.

Which then makes the point that if people ARE up front about it, then what's the issue.

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SwayM posted...

As honest as anyone who has kids from a previous relationship would be about the equivalent standard.

So you're thinking "I didn't always have a vagina" is the same level of relationship burden as having one or more small dependent humans?

SwayM posted...

Most people have it on front street on every dating app.

Never seen this, don't really expect it.

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SwayM posted...

Seems pretty unhealthy to me there would ever be a scenario that a trans person engages in a relationship without being honest to the other person.

Well how honest are we talking? Are we talking about a conversation a few weeks into exclusive dating or are we talking wearing an armband of some sort so everyone knows from the get-go?

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CyricZ He/him

That's good to hear. You're almost there Cleo! :D

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CyricZ He/him

But Mr. Hockey Bub, I can be a shit to everyone I meet online and have no real consequences. Doesn't that translate to real life?

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CyricZ He/him

It's not my fault! It's my preferences! They CONTROL ME. *twitch twitch*

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DarkProto05 posted...

Trans women still have manly features such as big veiny hands, masculine jawline, big feet.

All of them?

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CyricZ He/him

Anyone who's willing to "just state facts" about racial biases is always just a few posts away from telling us all about "black on black crime".

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CyricZ He/him

Yeah well so is Shut Up and Jam Gaiden.

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CyricZ He/him

ACLU is a good go-to favorite.

I personally also donate to the Polaris Project, which raises awareness to combat human trafficking in America.

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Slayer_22 posted...

It's nice to know that so many people are in support of being miserable.

Well having talked to you for more than a few minutes, I'm actually now quite in support of you in particular being miserable.

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CyricZ He/him

I told him. We're not gonna forget.

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ROOTFayth posted...

You still come off as someone extremely close minded though even if you think youre the opposite, youre just another extreme

Please. You're just trying to "both sides" this. If you're comfortable telling everyone your bias, then you shouldn't be uncomfortable when people judge you for that bias.

lol also if you're stranded on an island with another person and it takes you YEARS to make a move on them just because they're trans, you might in fact still be transphobic, but that's a silly conjecture, anyway.

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CyricZ He/him

radical rhino posted...

Youre allowed to be unattracted to any specific group of people and it doesnt make you a bigot.

By all means, tell us you'll never date a black person. Do it.

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CyricZ He/him

TommyG663513 posted...

I mean, you're acting like people don't already base their dating preferences on a bunch of stupid and superficial stuff.

Not at all. Everyone's selfish in that respect.

It's just funny when people get called out for being a particular kind of selfish and then they get all defensive.

Because here's the deal when it comes to trans people.

I could place two attractive people in front of you. They could both meet all conventional standards of physical beauty that you like, have the hole you prefer to stick it into, have a great personality, want to support you through the hard times, and have big mommy milkers like you like.

The only difference is that the one on the right didn't always have that.

And people are comfortable with saying "I want the one on the left only because the one on the right is transgender".

And then you get called out on that "Well, what's the difference? They both meet your physical and emotional standards, right?"

And then you back yourself into "well I want to have kids!"

And then I tell you that the one on the left can't have kids either, but neither of you would have known until well into the relationship.

Ask yourself: is the only reason you're even seeking a mate because of children? If so, then where do you get off having standards in the first place?

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Slayer_22 posted...

for the base fear of being considered transphobic.

I don't believe you have this fear.

Slayer_22 posted...

I am unable to break up with them despite them being unable to fulfill one of the most important goals in my life

Y'know, I do appreciate how you're willing to admit that the concept of the rest of your life being miserable is regardless of the person you decide to spend your life with.

Like would you cut off an infertile woman, too?

"Oh honey, I love you so much and you get me, and you complete me, and you're my best friend and my partner BUT you can't have a kid so clearly spending another second with you will make me MISERABLE."

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CyricZ He/him

Slayer_22 posted...

it's all transgender people, in this case

Congratulations. You're transphobic. For wholesale believing there isn't a single trans person on this green earth who can make you happy.

Like you realize you're saying these things out loud, right?

TommyG663513 posted...

It seems very weird that certain progressive people want to tell others that their dating preferences are just wrong

Well "wrong" is relative, isn't it? There are plenty of people that believe being transphobic isn't wrong.

And I was under the impression there are plenty of tough guys on this site who don't care what other people think, anyway.

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CyricZ He/him

Slayer_22 posted...

I already told you. If I'm going to be miserable because the person is transgender, thus can't fulfill what I see as a full, happy relationship, should I be miserable, or just be what you believe is transphobic?

CyricZ posted...

Saying "I don't want to date that particular trans person" is not transphobic.

Now do you need to hear it a third or fourth time?

Or is the implication of your statement "if I'm with a trans person then it is guaranteed that I will be miserable"?

In which case you're expecting us to hear you say that and not believe you transphobic?

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Slayer_22 posted...

Dodged the question, good job.

Your question is foolish and in bad faith. We've said it multiple times.

Saying "I don't want to date that particular trans person" is not transphobic.

Saying "I will never date any trans people" is transphobic.

Now describe to me where you're having problems with this.

Vicious_Dios posted...

Hmm, such a difficult choice, but I know which one I'd rather choose...

Oh sweetie you chose that and several other things we think of you a while back. No need to be coy.

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CyricZ He/him

I mean he's such a rich and deep character with so many layers. How could they?

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Slayer_22 posted...

I don't get it.

Well this is the first honest thing you've said in this topic.

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Slayer_22 posted...

So, you should stick with any relationship, regardless of how much you dislike it, just so you don't offend the other person?

For crying out loud you know that's not what he said. "You will not get every ideal in your partner" does not mean "You have to settle for whatever you can get even if it makes you miserable".

ROOTFayth posted...

I tend to go for brutal and harsh honesty and I have plenty of good friends, and a beautiful wife Ive been with for 16 years

it works better than sugarcoating and keeping things to yourself for obvious reasons, a little bit of tough love goes a long way

Not here you don't, but fuck us, right?

Also I know a lot of people who think their "brutal and harsh honesty" is an endearing trait but as soon as that person leaves the room... hoof.

Then again, maybe you've just found a nice little conclave of assholes for yourself, and more power to you, I guess.

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CyricZ He/him

DepreceV2 posted...

Thats not what I real meant. I was expecting you to say its awful to break up in general which I would have questioned. I should have worded it better

Well seeing as how you missed the context of my original post anyway, take another stab at it.

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gunplagirl posted...

Upon some further investigation, the original tweet and superstraight stuff comes straight from a group of neo nazis trying poorly to co-opt LGBT terminology.

It's no different than cloversexual, that pedophile one from a few years back.

Also thank you for doing the legwork on this. Not surprised it's a bad faith push in the least of course.

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CyricZ He/him

DepreceV2 posted...

Is it better if you just broke off the relationship without making a scene or giving out the real reason? This is a genuine question. I understand you dont want to hurt the feels of others.

YES.

Are you going to tell a woman to her face "sorry we can't go out because I found out you're black"?

Christ, AT LEAST just say you don't think you're clicking. Yeah it's never easy to let someone down, but have a little bit of humanity.

Fucking CE thinking "brutal and harsh honesty is always the best policy" when dealing with people and wonder why they got no friends.

Furthermore, I meant my post to be held in the context of just being here on CE and just making your biases public for all of us here.

Like if you don't give a shit that we know you think transpeople are disgusting, you gotta expect people to at least treat you as someone who thinks that.

See for reference: ledbowman, who let us all know in no uncertain terms he would want his children to have his skin color.

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CyricZ He/him

As I said much earlier in this topic, people are way too comfortable with offering to apparently whoever will listen: "I will not date people based on 'x' characteristic that they have no control over".

Like what happened to keeping your biases to yourself for the sake of not hurting people or causing a scene.

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CyricZ He/him

Probably Sword of Kings in EarthBound.

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MabusIncarnate posted...

OH SHIT bro gave me a Katana called Sunburst, it has a blue 22 on the bottom right corner, i'm guessing that's durability or uses? Can things be repaired?

Yes and yes, although it'll be a couple of chapters before you can get access to the repair shop.

My only advice is that the Yakuza series, while having weapons you can use, isn't really built around them. It's more viable to practice and improve with the barehanded styles simply because you'll end up using them far more often.

Like to put it simply, weapons tend to seem a waste if you spend their durability on trash mobs, but the bosses tend to have movesets that make them not as useful, so there are very few circumstances that justify them.

That said, many have their own unique Heat Action for your enjoyment.

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CyricZ He/him

Neon why did you bother.

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Heartomaton posted...

They simply don't have the momentum to make a dent.

Giggity.

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CyricZ He/him

I mean you can start if you want to.

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gamer167 posted...

Just because they settle for another option doesnt imply that the first one is or was any less important to them, or still isnt for that matter.

Youre just looking at it from your own perspective and not someone elses. By your admission Its not important or likely to happen for you so you cant fathom why someone else would find it important.

Are there no circumstances or convictions in your own life that you wouldnt want to compromise or settle with if you could help it?

I'm sharing my perspective with y'all. I'm not suggesting mine is the be-all end-all either. When I was younger it was more important to me.

dave_is_slick posted...

Damn CE is slow. I was there when this started, it's a joke! The colors are explicitly the Hub's colors, it's a dead giveaway.

Sure okay. Still pretty anti-trans, though.

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CalypsoDoom posted...

ofc they'd use the hub colors

fucking coomers

lol I'm dying XD

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Trumble posted...

They should use nuclear bombs for executions.

Well it's not like we don't have enough of them.

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I4NRulez posted...

but im not sexually attracted to any transgender person i've encountered so far.

There's a difference between "I have yet to be attracted to any transgender people I've met" and "I will never be attracted to a transgender person". The former is fine. We've just been hearing the latter in this topic.

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CyricZ He/him

Camera angles, dude.

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