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vocedelmorte posted...

I really don't think I am anything below an 9,

Prove it

And TC was never seen again.

Not that we got to see him to begin with...
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Chad?

At age 15...?


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I've actually had that happen with a guy because he was super dehydrated and ripped on energy shots. I thought he climaxed and dropped to catch his breath, but he was out cold on top of me. Scared the shit out of me because I thought he died.
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That article is from 2010 and reads like an angry teen's blog...
Many of their points against "problematic" men could also be applied to problematic women.

It's blatantly biased, but it's not the first time CNN has allowed submissions like that.
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Let's say you're a guy who doesn't make major snap decisions without consulting your brain.

You see a really hot looking woman asking a few other guys before you if she can stay at their place. Most of them say no. She gets to you, how do you respond...? What are some of the questions that are going to race through your head?

Remember, your brain...and not your dick...gives the final verdict on what YOU agree to. It's just how you are as an individual man. You can even be a super horny guy, but there's still a ton of reasons a guy like that would suspect the free candy sounds too good to be true.

Duh, you don't agree to it. Because your brain is too busy processing why the other guys turned down a smoking hot chick jumping at a chance to stay with them. Yeah you're enticed, but you don't bite because something doesn't click right with this situation. You're too busy wondering what's up...
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pegusus123456 posted...

Sounds a little like she's getting a Black Widow movie, so she quit this one and just spun it in a way that makes her look good.

Would not be the first time a movie actor agreed to a part and later did a 180 after seeing the actual production process.
When it's crappy, actors can have second thoughts...
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Lordgold666 posted...

Bc ladies do love a large dong

tall guy =/= large dong

And plenty of women and gay men will tell you that.
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No. I dated single fathers who presented a bunch of the same unattractive issues.

If you can't make peace with the kid, dating the parent long term is out.
I've actually had a kid make death threats towards me because he was convinced I turned his dad gay...

I never hated the kid. I pitied his confusion.
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FF_Redux posted...

The dick makes you do things your brain wouldnt.

And, really, it's crazy how many hetero relationships would typically not occur without that element in play. It's not far fetched to imply that our species survival heavily depends on it.

More women can afford to be choosy about male partners because more men have their standards influenced by instinctive urges, resulting in higher acceptance rates. If the majority of men's attractions functioned like the average woman's does, the birth rates would plummet lmao. Not enough men would be willing to jump though flaming hoops of inconvenience just to penetrate an average looking woman.

Women would socially suffer from it too because the mainstream dating game would be flipped on it's head. Even less men would bother initiating anything, which would either force more women to approach or accept a stalemate.
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Mr_Rian posted...

He's gay.

I thought that was speculation.

Did he officially come out?
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There might be some awkwardness in the casual application of this law, but I'm not against it if it really says "all sexual partners must give clear confirmation of consent ".

That means both men AND women have to confirm consent, which would be the most gender progressive approach to this issue I have ever seen a nation take in this age...
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Jerry_Hellyeah posted...

Fucking yuck

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Febreez
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eggcorn posted...

deupd_u posted...

https://us-east-1.tchyn.io/snopes-production/uploads/2015/12/hillary-clinton-quote.jpg

Is that quote real?

Unfortunately, yes. It implies that the men who died in combat, you know, don't actually count and neither do the male family members waiting for them to return...like fathers and sons.

It was a real faux pas for her crew to let that statement pass, but then it's part of why she lost.
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There's plenty of valid reasons to pass on sex when offered, for both women and men.

But if you give a shit about this girl, you might want to take the hint and nail that a couple times at the soonest convenience.
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What the hell is a "radical centrist"...?

Never heard of them before. I can't imagine there's enough of them to really be concerned about. Wouldn't they be easy to ignore since they probably have very little political power in number?

It sounds like a term someone made up to troll some right or left leaning extremists lmao.
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Dat_Cracka_Jax posted...

This is so stupid. Sounds like he was just a douche boyfriend at worst. How is that a fireable offense/career ruiner these days?

The term you might be looking for is "witch hunt".
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I like thousand island dressing. Good for my hamburgers too.
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Your life, your rules on what to do with it.

Just don't leave a clusterfuck mess behind that the living have to clean up (which includes burdening your kin). THAT is undeniably selfish...
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alt4445 posted...

And this isn't even just about sex. Even when I'm genuinely trying to be a good friend, they'd much rather have male company they've had sex with.

So it's like, if I'm not fucking you, and if I'm not even close enough to be just your friend, why even act close to me?

Seeing a theme here lmao.
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Anyone else want to eat the Dragon Balls?

I bet they taste like mango.
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Are black people reasonably scared of white people?

In the US, yeah, there's been more than enough incidents to indicate an unsettling trend in police-related black fatalities.
However, there is also a limit where the fear crosses from practical concern to just straight up stupid paranoia.

Being afraid of getting shot by a trigger happy white cop: fair and statistically supported.
Being afraid to interact at all with white peers because of "cultural differences" : dumb and often a self-fulfilling prophecy.

There's white people all over this damn country. If you're going out of your way to absolutely avoid them, you are on the wrong continent...
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I remember that article.

One of my coworkers brought it up because of a similar incident happening to him. He's black and his two kids came out much lighter like their white mom. They had a bigoted neighbor living across the street who couldn't stand seeing an interracial couple with kids. On two occasions, the bigot called the police claiming that a "suspicious man" was either seen "breaking into" his own home or "trying to kidnap" his own children...

The bigot knew those were my coworker's children, but wanted to troll anyway...which could have gotten an innocent husband and father wrongfully shot.

And fyi, the bigot wasn't white.
He was just a hateful asshole who wanted to see an interracial family burn.
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If you're ugly or average looking with a regular job, tread carefully.
If you're hot as hell looking with cha-ching, go ahead and ask a woman out during her gynecological exam.

That's actually not pessimism; that's poking fun at not-so-uncommon trends with people dating.
You can see similar trends with how men respond differently to flirtation from glamour girls and urban sea cows.
The cows with intelligence and a heart of gold generally still get treated as lesser than the hotties with super dysfunctional personalities.

Looks and status often matter to both men and women outside of romcoms. What protocol you're expected to follow in social situations might differ depending on who you are and how you look. That's human nature, gotta deal.
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The gay male community has less people hung up on height and more concern about other things like dick size.

It's generally women who give a guy a lot of points if he's tall; sometimes it's a priority.
There are gay guys who do the same, but they're not the majority of their demographic despite what "size-difference" porn portrays....

While superficiality is rampant in gay male communities, promiscuity is so common among horny gay men that it actually leads them to be LESS picky about certain attributes in sexual partners. Big dick and muscle tone is typically scored higher than height, so a short fit dude with a nice face can still get buried in penis.

Gay men in general tend to be much more lenient about a guy's height provided he has other attractive traits, partly because they're also men and are more familiar with what a bitch it is to be discriminated against based on height.
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He wants some Parappa P.
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do you guys do one of those complicated Black-guy handshakes?

I tried once and accidentally sent a dozen bystanders to the hospital. Never again...
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Unfortunately, most compliments given in the world are far from ideal because most people are not masters of delivery with tact. And many people are not at their sharpest when interacting with someone they deem notably attractive enough to compliment.

His phrasing was awkwardly crude and stupid, but what you're probably better off taking from the experience is that someone thought you looked good. He worded it dumb, but still liked what he saw.

Feel good about your appearance.
Don't waste time feeling bothered over his social imperfection, which would be giving far too much regard to a passing stranger.
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SageHarpuia posted...

Zikten posted...

girls with aspergers have it easier than guys with aspergers. cute asperger girls can still land boyfriends cause even normal girls are expected to be shy and wait for a guy to ask to them out

Also this.

I was curious to know if Asperger Syndrome impacted a person's ambition to date and settle into relationships. Do they on average feel less inclined to bother?
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I'm just curious:

Is gender dysphoria supposed to be a standard thing among trans people? Like do they always go hand-and-hand? Can a trans person ever reach a point, feel confident enough in their transition that they no longer feel that gender dysphoria impacts them? Is every trans person seeking transition someone who's also suffering from gender dysphoria?

I'm not trans and we don't have many in our neighborhood, so I don't know how things work for them. And I know CE has a decent amount of them here...
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I really liked Monster Rancher's disc-to-monster concept, but I knew it was just gonna be another contender thrown on the Pokemon chopping block back then.

I was fan of certain breeds, like my favorite Tiger/Plant (Tropical Dog) named Herb.


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I never bothered to play WoW. Wouldn't spamming something over and over clog up everybody's chat bar?
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age 40+ with wrinkles and high standards = doing it wrong
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The music vid wasn't bad. It's just really weird if you don't know the stories.


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Kind of disappointing.
He could have at least gone sleeveless.

Instead it looks like he mixed up dates with the Oscars and parachuting.
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Last year I was working noc shifts and got on a late night train with a blindfolded skinny guy handcuffed to a bar. Only clothes he had on were underwear and shoes. At first I was like omg this poor guy got mugged and needs help, but as soon as I approached him he said he was fine. He just wanted someone to "play with him"...

Like I don't know what this guy's endgame plan was; maybe he had the key on him...somewhere...or he got off on the idea of being dragged off by cops. He was funny to talk to, but I never touched him. I was too busy looking for a camera; I thought I was getting pranked. My stop came up before his and I never saw him again.

As weird as it was, I still hoped he eventually got off too.


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Who here likes sex

Nope, not at all. A different guy's dick just randomly ends up in my butt by accident every time. Sometimes I buy them lunch to help them cope with the trauma of being sucked into my anal vortex, poor bastards.
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Needs more eagles.


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