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TopicIs it okay to marry someone you don't love?
Cleo_II
08/16/17 2:34:43 PM
#63
HypnoCoosh posted...
Ahh it's messy.

This woman transferred her job, we both sold our houses, bought a house together, and she moved 2.5 hours to relocate to be with me and my daughter.


So at least postpone the wedding. Why the rush to get married?
TopicIs it okay to marry someone you don't love?
Cleo_II
08/16/17 2:19:10 PM
#60
HypnoCoosh posted...
It's tough too because I'm not in my 20's anymore so time becomes more valuable and my daughter is going to be six at starting kindergarten next month so I felt a lot of pressure to make the best decisions for her I could.


How is it a good decision to marry a woman while pining for your ex? How will this help your daughter when shit inevitably hits the fan? This marriage (if you go through with it) won't end well. I guarantee it. You're rushing into things without thinking straight. And after a year, you hardly know this woman you're enagaged to. She may be acting like she's perfect now but can very much change for the worse after marriage. If anything, this is more likely going to be harmful for your daughter.

Why not at least postpone the wedding?
TopicIs it okay to marry someone you don't love?
Cleo_II
08/16/17 1:52:41 PM
#55
HypnoCoosh posted...
Cleo_II posted...
But you would first need to get over your ex. Do you think you have yourself enough time to heal after the divorce? Did you jump into this relationship too soon?


Getting over my ex seems impossible.

I started dating immediately after and meet this new woman and we've been together just over a year.


My advice would be to break it off. I don't think you're thinking clearly. You went through some pretty traumatic things and then jumped into this. It's a recipe for disaster.
TopicIs it okay to marry someone you don't love?
Cleo_II
08/16/17 1:42:39 PM
#50
HypnoCoosh posted...
Giant_Aspirin posted...
HypnoCoosh posted...
Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her.


then why are you marrying her


Because the woman I truly love is my ex wife but really made some poor life decisions.

This other woman I'm marrying is educated, responsible, a good role model for my daughter and provides a lot of stability. I just don't love her, care about her but not love.

I might need tot ell her tonight I'm not in love with her.


I was in a similar situation a few years back. Engaged to a man I didn't really love, rationalizing it with similar kind of reasons. I broke it off in the end. It's just not worth it.

You can find someone to marry for the "right reasons" and also love them. Meaning, you can find another woman with those qualities again, and actually love her more than your ex.

But you would first need to get over your ex. Do you think you have yourself enough time to heal after the divorce? Did you jump into this relationship too soon?
TopicIs it okay to marry someone you don't love?
Cleo_II
08/16/17 1:34:54 PM
#40
HypnoCoosh posted...
Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her.


Does she know? Do you want to go through with it?
TopicIs it okay to marry someone you don't love?
Cleo_II
08/16/17 1:28:27 PM
#32
_Near_ posted...
You can never replace the one you love.


Sure you can.

You can't always build financial security however. What if the person you love is financially irresponsible? Accumulating debt, opening credit cards behind your back, etc.

Anyway, to answer the question, I don't think it's wrong so long that both parties in the marriage are aware. Personally I wouldn't do it.
TopicHAVE you ever been in love before?
Cleo_II
08/16/17 1:18:50 PM
#41
HypnoCoosh posted...
Cleo_II posted...
I'm love with my husband. Most days anyway. 4
months ago he did something that truly hurt me. So my love hasn't exactly been exactly the same.


He leave the toilet seat up and you fell in during a night pee?


I still get nightmares about it.
TopicWho's your favorite CEgal?
Cleo_II
08/16/17 1:01:32 PM
#397
ssj3vegeta_ posted...
They've never asked me to be deir e bfs and buy dem games ;(


Sending you a PM.
TopicHAVE you ever been in love before?
Cleo_II
08/16/17 10:39:52 AM
#36
I'm love with my husband. Most days anyway. 4
months ago he did something that truly hurt me. So my love hasn't exactly been exactly the same.
TopicWho's your favorite CEgal?
Cleo_II
08/15/17 9:03:26 PM
#378
Harpie posted...
Why are you guys so fucking weird
TopicOathbringer Preview Chapters Start Soon
Cleo_II
08/15/17 5:26:11 PM
#3
I'm stoked!
TopicWhat's an RPG you put a lot of time into but didn't like
Cleo_II
08/15/17 3:29:02 PM
#36
Right now it's FFXV. I'm halfway through and trying to complete it but really not feeling it. I'll play a few hours like every couple of weeks.
TopicShould prostitution be legal?
Cleo_II
08/15/17 2:52:23 PM
#12
Yes.
TopicHave you ever had sex?
Cleo_II
08/15/17 2:31:38 PM
#17
What's that?
TopicWhat made you want to start a relationship with your significant other?
Cleo_II
08/15/17 1:26:57 AM
#28
emblem boy posted...
Cleo_II posted...
I like very assertive men and prefer traditional type relationships. My husband is a take charge kinda guy. I felt really well taken care of. He's also super responsible and I was really attracted to that after experiencing the opposite. He had his shit together.


Do you have your shit together?


Damn straight I do.
TopicWhat made you want to start a relationship with your significant other?
Cleo_II
08/15/17 1:20:30 AM
#25
I like very assertive men and prefer traditional type relationships. My husband is a take charge kinda guy. I felt really well taken care of. He's also super responsible and I was really attracted to that after experiencing the opposite. He had his shit together.
TopicI think women are more to blame for marriage/relationship problems
Cleo_II
08/15/17 12:21:21 AM
#15
Happy wife, happy life. Duh.
TopicHow come none of da CEgals are thirsty over hot as FUCK CEmen who post here?
Cleo_II
08/14/17 11:34:59 PM
#9
We are, we're just not as obvious about it ;)
TopicYa true, dis is why ladies ALWAYS go first tbh
Cleo_II
08/14/17 11:02:31 PM
#12
ssj3vegeta_ posted...
Would women stare at male butts if the guys went first


Of course. I know I always sneak a peak.
TopicYa true, dis is why ladies ALWAYS go first tbh
Cleo_II
08/14/17 10:22:10 PM
#9
I always figured that was the real reason men open doors for women.
TopicHow come women don't want to date unemployed guys?
Cleo_II
08/14/17 10:19:10 PM
#10
Because no freeloaders.
TopicJust read the prologue of Mistborn: The Final Empire.
Cleo_II
08/14/17 10:14:49 PM
#8
Love that book. The trilogy is great. At least the first one. Didn't read the second yet.
TopicAt work and this Asian girl is wearing a shirt that stood out to me as cute.
Cleo_II
08/13/17 11:46:29 PM
#56
You really overthink things don't you? Lol.

I have a Heroes of the Storm shirt. I don't play it at all, or any other similar game. But the shirt is cute. Nobody has asked me anything and I wouldn't give a shit if they did.
Topicomg ce breath of the wild is absolutely stunning
Cleo_II
08/13/17 7:12:43 PM
#2
Yeah it's beautiful for sure.
TopicPost your pic ITT and I'll rate you out of 100
Cleo_II
08/13/17 6:58:55 PM
#172
Some good looking dudes itt.
TopicOur queen Hermiione is back
Cleo_II
08/13/17 2:00:28 PM
#440
Wow you look gorgeous hermii! :)
TopicThe doctors said my sister is braindead.
Cleo_II
08/13/17 9:36:41 AM
#90
I'm so sorry for your loss...
Topicwhy are people so smug towards fast food jobs?
Cleo_II
08/10/17 11:41:34 PM
#11
People who are insecure about themselves and unhappy with their lives will typically find some way to feel better about themselves. It's pretty pathetic.
TopicWho's your ce crush?
Cleo_II
08/10/17 11:34:09 PM
#169
ssj3vegeta posted...
has to be hermii, cleo, kanaya, say, xciteme, sable, and serpounce today


Awww.

Can we have a CE version of sister wives?
TopicWho's your ce crush?
Cleo_II
08/10/17 11:33:25 PM
#168
Harpie posted...


Cleo_II posted...
Whoever is hot and has the most money.

Well I have a whole $48 im my bank account sooo ;ooo


It's okay babe, at least we got love <3
TopicHow did you get your job?
Cleo_II
08/10/17 11:22:05 PM
#45
I applied. Didn't hear anything for a couple of months. Then got an email and had a phone call. Then interviewed on site for a half day. Got an offer.

I'm honestly surprised I got the job. It's a well known company with a crap ton of applicants. I didn't even have all the listed experience. But I had a unique background that set me apart and killed it during the interviews.
TopicWho's your ce crush?
Cleo_II
08/10/17 6:55:01 PM
#67
Whoever is hot and has the most money.
TopicDo women even really like sex with men.
Cleo_II
08/09/17 11:49:50 PM
#58
I know I do.
TopicPenis
Cleo_II
08/09/17 10:56:40 PM
#20
V-E-G-Y- posted...
And DATS how you catch a CEgal


It's a trap!
TopicDo you own a Nintendo Switch?
Cleo_II
08/09/17 5:29:04 PM
#8
Yup. My husband surprised me with one on launch day. He didn't even wait in line or anything, just strolled up to an out of the way Target.
TopicHave any nieces, nephews, or younger family members that are being ruined?
Cleo_II
08/09/17 2:07:41 PM
#19
My brother is a chain smoker and often smokes very close to my nieces, who are still babies (2 months and 18 months). If you tell him he's too close to the kids and to back away, he has a crazy tantrum and threatens to never let you see his kids again.

We didn't speak for months one time because I told him to stop smoking so close to his daughter. He was only like 2 feet away but according to him he blows the smoke away from her so no biggie. He didn't let me see her either.
TopicDo you drive the speed limit or slower in the left lane on highways?
Cleo_II
08/09/17 12:11:05 PM
#34
MuayThai85 posted...
Lol @ driving the speed limit.
TopicIs it wrong to not a date a woman who you feel has been with too many men?
Cleo_II
08/08/17 3:16:33 PM
#8
Only if you've slept with a high number of women. Because then you'd be a hypocrite.
TopicPoll: how many casual sexual partners have you had?
Cleo_II
08/08/17 3:15:12 PM
#4
4. My husband was really supposed to be a casual fling actually but he kept persisting and I got feels.
TopicThe Google employee who wrote that manifesto got fired
Cleo_II
08/07/17 11:01:47 PM
#27
Good. He had some interesting points but the stereotypes towards women were harmful and propagated the kind of BS women in tech have to face and fight in their career.
Topichave any of you guys or gals read The Wheel of Time
Cleo_II
08/07/17 9:24:59 PM
#46
I'm at book 10 but really struggling. I've been on it for months. I heard it's the worst of the series. I heard it gets a lot better when Sanderson picks it up but I don't know if I can make it.
TopicWere you bullied regularly when you were in school?
Cleo_II
08/07/17 9:23:19 PM
#23
Yes. Almost daily until I turned 16. Mostly by other girls who hated me for being smart and quiet, but quite a few guys too. I wasn't a good looking girl either and some of it was fueled by racism. Then I suddenly became attractive and they backed off.

All the people who bullied me turned into pathetic losers too. Drugs, kids with multiple people, etc.
TopicHow was Passengers starring Jennifer Lawrence?
Cleo_II
08/07/17 12:17:31 AM
#10
Super boring.
TopicHow often do you eat at a sit down restaurant?
Cleo_II
08/07/17 12:08:27 AM
#16
Maybe like 4-6. Once a week for date night and a couple of lunches with coworkers.
TopicWho's your favorite CEgal?
Cleo_II
08/06/17 1:41:11 PM
#240
ssj3vegeta posted...
I usually put on my sexy french maid outfit when cleaning my room but to each his own i guess


Pics?
TopicWho's your favorite CEgal?
Cleo_II
08/06/17 1:16:40 PM
#237
Vyrulisse posted...
Someone explain to me why it's weird to wear shorts and no shoes. I do it often actually.


Same. I don't get what's weird about it.
TopicI had a really scary episode of sleep paralysis last night
Cleo_II
08/06/17 12:45:35 PM
#12
SSJGrimReaper posted...
Cleo_II posted...
Do you think the aliens took over my husband's body then?

that or your husband was an alien all along

O_O!


That would seriously explain a lot.
TopicWho has it worse? Girls with small tits or guys with small dicks?
Cleo_II
08/06/17 12:25:54 PM
#12
I'm going to say girls with small boobs. Because those are a lot more visible (unless she's wearing a super padded bra). Most people won't see a guy's small penis. If a girl sees it, it's pretty much right as they're about to bang and chances are she'll bang him anyway because she'll feel really bad.
TopicI had a really scary episode of sleep paralysis last night
Cleo_II
08/06/17 12:17:22 PM
#9
SSJGrimReaper posted...
sleep paralysis is when aliens put you in stasis so they can touch your butt


Do you think the aliens took over my husband's body then?

Vegy posted...
sounds like the old hag visited you last night tbh


Yeah that's what it felt like. The presence I felt was one of just pure evil. I couldn't move, couldn't scream. Really scary.
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