Not sure why she assumed that when she already accepted beforehandwhat else were you supposed to say? TfThis guy gets it.
Were you still able to go on the date?I did not hence this topic.
I would not have apologized to her but instead just ask if she still wanted to go.
Flaking is part of the game. Back when I wad dating about 9 times out of 10 she just wouldn't show up and not say anythingThis is awful. I've never had anyone no show. I got ghosted after a conversation, but this shit man wtf.
This is awful. I've never had anyone no show. I got ghosted after a conversation, but this shit man wtf.Within this paradigm, I can assure you there are worse consequences than being ghosted on a date. My story is a little long, so I wont flood this topic with details.
Not sure why she assumed that when she already accepted beforehandwhat else were you supposed to say? Tf"cool i'll see you then" and then keep talking like a normal person?
"cool i'll see you then" and then keep talking like a normal person?Apparently that's not an appropriate response.
Apparently that's not an appropriate response.That's literally what you did, yes.
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Yeah thats kind of on you TC, especially if there were multiple days between those messages. When the girl agrees to a place/time you have to say great, see you then! or something similar.https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/7/7ad24312.png
Is the convo dead?Are you still looking for advice?
If there is somehow any truth to it, it is brought on by piss poor communication.Is it just me or does anybody else have a thought that OP probably sent the exact same message ("is the convo dead?") to the girl and had no idea why that would be a bad thing?
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/7/7ad24312.pngIf this is real, then that's 100% on you. Don't just set up the date and then stop talking until the day of the date. Hold an actual conversation with her.
From an earlier conversation this year. She didn't react too positively.
I was told I was "skipping some steps" when I said "see you Monday".
How is this different?
Within this paradigm, I can assure you there are worse consequences than being ghosted on a date. My story is a little long, so I wont flood this topic with details.Oh I know there is.
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/7/7ad24312.pngDude.. This is awful.
From an earlier conversation this year. She didn't react too positively.
I was told I was "skipping some steps" when I said "see you Monday".
How is this different?
You need to show actual genuine interest in them and build up to it so they look forward to it as well. Like get to know them, ask questions, etc before the date.
I've had dates cancel on me before for this reason. We'd set up a day and a time, agree on it, and then I wouldn't text again until the day arrived, when I'd text to re-confirm. They wouldn't be interested anymore, because they misinterpreted my lack of texting as disinterest on my part.
Which was ultimately a good thing. I am not a big texter. I would be incompatible with someone who wants to constantly text. My current partners are on my wavelength: we text when we need to plan something, and that's basically it.
How often do you and your current partner see each other, and talk to each other (voice) on the phone?
Why does it seem like the onus is always on the guy to carry on the conversation?It's not. Both are needed. The guy typically just needs to initiate the conversation and also the first date.
I've got two partners. See 'em both every week, usually for like two days each. We almost never talk on the phone with actual voice calls. That only happens if we're discussing something really complicated that would take too long to text about.Ah Gotcha.
(Assuming that any of this is real)But...
I fucking haaaaate when girls do this shit.
I have to support the girl on this one. Your lack of a message back would for me be a lack of confirmation about the meeting up.
People's time is precious and they don't want to waste it so I would also assume the date was off if no message for days beforehand.
I have to support the girl on this one. Your lack of a message back would for me be a lack of confirmation about the meeting up.On the flip side, if you text too much, then its ew why dont you give me some space? Youre so annoying
People's time is precious and they don't want to waste it so I would also assume the date was off if no message for days beforehand.
On the flip side, if you text too much, then its ew why dont you give me some space? Youre so annoyingPersonally, I text a lot. That is how I am, and I act that way in a relationship too. So if they don't like my texting, then let's get this done ASAP. I also don't wait days to ask them on a second date. I either do so on the first date if it went exceedingly well, or I do the next day if it went moderately well.
(Going just on personal experience of course. Many, many personal experiences )