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TheSuperSilver 08/30/25 7:29:59 PM #51:	Married right? --- When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the goals, adjust the action steps. - Confucius <cite>TheSuperSilver posted [p:986255645] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>Married right?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KhlavicLanguage 08/30/25 7:31:08 PM #52:	why is this a noteworthy AMA concept when like half of the people on this forum have gone an order of magnitude longer and probably around half of those have never had sex at all lol --- Chickens and cheese. <cite>KhlavicLanguage posted [p:986255656] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>why is this a noteworthy AMA concept when like half of the people on this forum have gone an order of magnitude longer and probably around half of those have never had sex at all lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GateOfDoom 08/30/25 7:31:38 PM #53:	Try 38 years <cite>GateOfDoom posted [p:986255658] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>Try 38 years</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NoxObscuras 08/30/25 7:34:05 PM #54:	KhlavicLanguage posted... why is this a noteworthy AMA concept when like half of the people on this forum have gone an order of magnitude longer and probably around half of those have never had sex at all lol Because it's not a competition. Clearly it's on his mind and bothering him. Going "other people have it worse, so shut up" doesn't help anyone. --- Steam/Xbox/PSN = NoxObscuras <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:986255681] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>KhlavicLanguage posted... </cite><quote>why is this a noteworthy AMA concept when like half of the people on this forum have gone an order of magnitude longer and probably around half of those have never had sex at all lol</quote>Because it's not a competition. Clearly it's on his mind and bothering him. Going "other people have it worse, so shut up" doesn't help anyone.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KhlavicLanguage 08/30/25 7:35:04 PM #55:	NoxObscuras posted... Because it's not a competition. Clearly it's on his mind and bothering him. Going "other people have it worse, so shut up" doesn't help anyone. There are multiple uncharitable assumptions in this post that make it read very strangely as a reply. --- Chickens and cheese. <cite>KhlavicLanguage posted [p:986255689] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>NoxObscuras posted... </cite><quote>Because it's not a competition. Clearly it's on his mind and bothering him. Going "other people have it worse, so shut up" doesn't help anyone.</quote>There are multiple uncharitable assumptions in this post that make it read very strangely as a reply. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Robot2600 08/30/25 7:48:52 PM #56:	2 days --- April 15, 2024: The Day the Internet Died <cite>Robot2600 posted [p:986255800] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>2 days</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pedro45 08/30/25 8:22:47 PM #57:	wanderingshade posted... This is going to sound unfair, but I feel like genuinely attractive people are used to only having things not work out for them for a very short time, especially socially, before it just seems to correct itself out of nowhere. So 90 days for something like that is "GOD IT'S BEEN FOREVER I CAN'T TAKE IT" for them. The only thing they have to contend with in turn is jealousy, not being taken seriously and feeling like an imposter (sometimes). Dissident_77 posted... I mean, once I started actively dating after my divorce, 3 months would have been an eternity. And I am not really attractive, but I probably spent like 2 hours a day swiping and messaging, not to mention all the time spent going out and meeting people. It was like a full time job, so it was definitely about effort and a numbers game. --- Warning: Sometimes biased http://i.imgur.com/V0x5fw8.jpg http://i.imgur.com/IOovUge.gif http://i.imgur.com/zw7bqPH.jpg <cite>pedro45 posted [p:986256093] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>wanderingshade posted... </cite><quote>This is going to sound unfair, but I feel like genuinely attractive people are used to only having things not work out for them for a very short time, especially socially, before it just seems to correct itself out of nowhere. So 90 days for something like that is "GOD IT'S BEEN FOREVER I CAN'T TAKE IT" for them.The only thing they have to contend with in turn is jealousy, not being taken seriously and feeling like an imposter (sometimes).</quote>Dissident_77 posted... </cite><quote>I mean, once I started actively dating after my divorce, 3 months would have been an eternity. And I am not really attractive, but I probably spent like 2 hours a day swiping and messaging, not to mention all the time spent going out and meeting people. It was like a full time job, so it was definitely about effort and a numbers game.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Glob 08/30/25 8:26:02 PM #58:	random_man9119 posted... Some of us can't even find dates... Sex is out of the question at that point No it isnt. <cite>Glob posted [p:986256128] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>random_man9119 posted... </cite><quote>Some of us can't even find dates... Sex is out of the question at that point</quote>No it isnt.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dissident_77 08/30/25 8:30:05 PM #59:	Oh, bite me lol My point was I probably spent waaaay too much time on dating. Unlikely most here did that. I do know that TC doesn't really put himself out there. I think he would be successful if he did. He is good looking. --- Currently playing - Donkey Kong Bananza <cite>Dissident_77 posted [p:986256166] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>Oh, bite me lolMy point was I probably spent waaaay too much time on dating. Unlikely most here did that. I do know that TC doesn't really put himself out there. I think he would be successful if he did. He is good looking.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MotaroRIP619 08/30/25 9:26:31 PM #61:	Why did this topic get highjacked so bizarrely. <cite>MotaroRIP619 posted [p:986256650] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>Why did this topic get highjacked so bizarrely. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kisai 08/30/25 9:55:05 PM #62:	Awakened_Link posted... Why are yall not having sex? Genuinely curious. I don't really care about sex. --- WHO MODS THE MODERATORS? <cite>Kisai posted [p:986256881] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>Awakened_Link posted... </cite><quote>Why are yall not having sex? Genuinely curious.</quote>I don't really care about sex.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KhlavicLanguage 08/30/25 11:15:26 PM #64:	MotaroRIP619 posted... Why did this topic get highjacked so bizarrely. It's always been a touchy subject for CE. I still remember over a decade ago if someone made a topic about hooking up at a party or whatever, without fail you get a lot of "cool story bro/yeah that happened" type of replies and other blatantly resentful shit. Like it's so outside their life experience that they write it off as trolling if anyone claims it happens. Even pointing that out will get fingers wagging at you, you can't win lol. I dunno, you're taking a demographic where many were already struggling at this type of thing and aging them up to where turning that around has become an extremely tall order. No wonder topics about it get antsy. I'm in touch with people here who say they don't even really have friends let alone dating prospects. --- Chickens and cheese. <cite>KhlavicLanguage posted [p:986257375] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>MotaroRIP619 posted... </cite><quote>Why did this topic get highjacked so bizarrely. </quote>It's always been a touchy subject for CE. I still remember over a decade ago if someone made a topic about hooking up at a party or whatever, without fail you get a lot of "cool story bro/yeah that happened" type of replies and other blatantly resentful shit. Like it's so outside their life experience that they write it off as trolling if anyone claims it happens. Even pointing that out will get fingers wagging at you, you can't win lol.I dunno, you're taking a demographic where many were already struggling at this type of thing and aging them up to where turning that around has become an extremely tall order. No wonder topics about it get antsy. I'm in touch with people here who say they don't even really have friends let alone dating prospects. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 08/30/25 11:20:44 PM #65:	KhlavicLanguage posted... I'm in touch with people here who say they don't even really have friends let alone dating prospects. I've currently got my 1 and only friend in about 3 decades. It's a coworker and we get along well. It's taken some adjustments actually being invited out to do things. --- My YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@steelfang8806 My Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/steelfangkoga <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:986257401] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>KhlavicLanguage posted... </cite><quote>I'm in touch with people here who say they don't even really have friends let alone dating prospects.</quote>I've currently got my 1 and only friend in about 3 decades. It's a coworker and we get along well. It's taken some adjustments actually being invited out to do things.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KhlavicLanguage 08/30/25 11:24:59 PM #66:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I generally like your posts and don't want to have to put you on ignore, but this is like the 3rd time in a row you've attacked me unprovoked in a drive-by fashion and it doesn't seem that not acknowledging it is going to get you to stop :/ You can hate my posts or put me on ignore on your end or whatever, but treating my every post as an opportunity to take a shot is creeping me out a little. I don't feel any interaction we've had really warranted this behavior. --- Chickens and cheese. <cite>KhlavicLanguage posted [p:986257428] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> I generally like your posts and don't want to have to put you on ignore, but this is like the 3rd time in a row you've attacked me unprovoked in a drive-by fashion and it doesn't seem that not acknowledging it is going to get you to stop :/You can hate my posts or put me on ignore on your end or whatever, but treating my every post as an opportunity to take a shot is creeping me out a little. I don't feel any interaction we've had really warranted this behavior. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Philip027 08/31/25 12:13:22 AM #67:	KhlavicLanguage posted... why is this a noteworthy AMA concept when like half of the people on this forum have gone an order of magnitude longer and probably around half of those have never had sex at all lol Yeah, this honestly. I don't care about sex, but that's because I'm asexual. I suspect that's not the case here for most people who've been going without. I'd make an AMA post about that, but I already have before in relatively recent memory, and I don't want people accusing me of being a glutton for attention :p <cite>Philip027 posted [p:986257762] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>KhlavicLanguage posted... </cite><quote>why is this a noteworthy AMA concept when like half of the people on this forum have gone an order of magnitude longer and probably around half of those have never had sex at all lol</quote>Yeah, this honestly.I don't care about sex, but that's because I'm asexual. I suspect that's not the case here for most people who've been going without. I'd make an AMA post about that, but I already have before in relatively recent memory, and I don't want people accusing me of being a glutton for attention :p</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dungeater 08/31/25 12:50:40 AM #68:	KhlavicLanguage posted... I generally like your posts and don't want to have to put you on ignore, but this is like the 3rd time in a row you've attacked me unprovoked in a drive-by fashion and it doesn't seem that not acknowledging it is going to get you to stop :/ You can hate my posts or put me on ignore on your end or whatever, but treating my every post as an opportunity to take a shot is creeping me out a little. I don't feel any interaction we've had really warranted this behavior. its just very obvious when youre being fake man --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him <cite>Dungeater posted [p:986258016] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>KhlavicLanguage posted... </cite><quote>I generally like your posts and don't want to have to put you on ignore, but this is like the 3rd time in a row you've attacked me unprovoked in a drive-by fashion and it doesn't seem that not acknowledging it is going to get you to stop :/You can hate my posts or put me on ignore on your end or whatever, but treating my every post as an opportunity to take a shot is creeping me out a little. I don't feel any interaction we've had really warranted this behavior.</quote>its just very obvious when youre being fake man</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KhlavicLanguage 08/31/25 12:55:14 AM #69:	Dungeater posted... its just very obvious when youre being fake man I'm being completely serious in that post. If even extending an olive branch is going to get me accused of schticking then tbh I don't know what you want from me. What is the proper response to someone who's basically told you there's nothing you can say to satisfy them? --- Chickens and cheese. <cite>KhlavicLanguage posted [p:986258047] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>Dungeater posted... </cite><quote>its just very obvious when youre being fake man</quote>I'm being completely serious in that post. If even extending an olive branch is going to get me accused of schticking then tbh I don't know what you want from me. What is the proper response to someone who's basically told you there's nothing you can say to satisfy them?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dungeater 08/31/25 1:29:25 AM #70:	accept it and move on. its the internet, who cares if youre being real and people dont believe you theres nothing else to it. maybe examine that reputation --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him <cite>Dungeater posted [p:986258231] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>accept it and move on. its the internet, who caresif youre being real and people dont believe you theres nothing else to it. maybe examine that reputation </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KhlavicLanguage 08/31/25 1:44:16 AM #71:	Dungeater posted... accept it and move on. its the internet, who cares I mean, that's what I'm saying.. --- Chickens and cheese. <cite>KhlavicLanguage posted [p:986258307] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>Dungeater posted... </cite><quote>accept it and move on. its the internet, who cares</quote>I mean, that's what I'm saying..</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Rai_Jin 08/31/25 11:38:22 AM #73:	https://ravishly.com/you-arent-lazy-youre-just-terrified-paralysis-and-perfectionism-mental-health <cite>Rai_Jin posted [p:986260746] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>https://ravishly.com/you-arent-lazy-youre-just-terrified-paralysis-and-perfectionism-mental-health</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Consayblue22 08/31/25 4:21:21 PM #74:	Hang in there TC. Work on yourself and things tend to happen naturally. I went about 9 years in my 20's without sex and my early 30's weren't too great either. But my late 30's and early 40's I have really worked on improving myself and my life by doing regular exercise, progressing my career and having my own home. Just doing those things makes women notice. And the best thing about exercise is it changes your mind as well as your body. You feel better and it shows to other people without you even realising. --- Underrated PS:(1)ELEX(2)TF Devastation(3)Mad Max(4)WarTech Fighters(5)Space Hulk Deathwing EE(6)DmC: Def Edition(7)Aliens Fireteam Elite(8)The Callisto Protocol <cite>Consayblue22 posted [p:986263579] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>Hang in there TC. Work on yourself and things tend to happen naturally. I went about 9 years in my 20's without sex and my early 30's weren't too great either. But my late 30's and early 40's I have really worked on improving myself and my life by doing regular exercise, progressing my career and having my own home.Just doing those things makes women notice. And the best thing about exercise is it changes your mind as well as your body. You feel better and it shows to other people without you even realising.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Will_VIIII 08/31/25 4:46:33 PM #75:	I think my longest gap was about 4 years, but the pandemic played a part in that as I was single when it hit --- Advice from a dryer: Open the door to amazement. Don't shrink from your true calling. Accept life's wrinkles. Avoid overload. Reach into mystery! <cite>Will_VIIII posted [p:986263903] in I haven't ... [t:81034381]...</cite> <quote>I think my longest gap was about 4 years, but the pandemic played a part in that as I was single when it hit </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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