Current Events > Is it better to be alone or to have a gf/bf that you find ugly and u dont want?

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xAzNPimP4LiFex
08/04/25 11:45:43 PM
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I hear some people saying that some dudes should just go for ugly girls because thats their peak and thats the best theyre gonna get

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furb
08/04/25 11:46:25 PM
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Alone by a mile.


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Evening_Dragon
08/04/25 11:47:22 PM
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The "you don't want" part answers the question.

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EbonTitanium
08/04/25 11:49:40 PM
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Alone, the other option is wrong.

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boxoto
08/04/25 11:52:38 PM
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Evening_Dragon posted...
The "you don't want" part answers the question.
yup.

a lot of people see past looks when it comes to their partner, but if they don't want to actually be with them, then that's a problem.

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Kanaya413
08/04/25 11:56:00 PM
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EbonTitanium posted...
Alone, the other option is wrong.

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HANGtheDJ_86
08/05/25 12:00:59 AM
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Seeing how some of the men in my family age I say ugly can be lovable too

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Vegy
08/05/25 12:01:54 AM
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Ugky people need love too ._.

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Mistere_Man
08/05/25 12:23:05 AM
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There is more to relationships than looks.

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xAzNPimP4LiFex
08/05/25 12:27:22 AM
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Mistere_Man posted...
There is more to relationships than looks.

sure but in this situation you want nothing to do with her but shes your only choice or nobody

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Unknown5uspect
08/05/25 12:29:02 AM
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Literally never be in or stay in a relationship with someone that you don't want.

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haloiscoolisbak
08/05/25 12:29:07 AM
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The woman I fell hardest for in my life, I found her pretty mid on the first date. The more I learnt about her the more I liked her

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Mistere_Man
08/05/25 12:31:03 AM
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xAzNPimP4LiFex posted...
sure but in this situation you want nothing to do with her but shes your only choice or nobody

Well that didnt seem to be how the question was worded, but in that case I would just be alone.

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qwerti
08/05/25 1:22:11 AM
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One is the loneliest number that you'll ever do
Two can be as bad as one
It's the loneliest number since the number one

on topic tho theres this meme where it goes like maybe supposed to be alone or something like theres no soul mate

in reality used to be by myself

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bnui_ransder
08/05/25 1:37:15 AM
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Id would rather them be alone than have an ugly me in their life

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Glob
08/05/25 1:40:59 AM
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boxoto posted...
yup.

a lot of people see past looks when it comes to their partner, but if they don't want to actually be with them, then that's a problem.

This.

But the question is framed all wrong. If you cant get the kind of partner you want, your options arent just settle for somebody you dont want or be alone forever. Work on yourself to bring more to the table and then you increase the number of potential partners (and actually experience personal growth which is fantastic).
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buddah86
08/05/25 1:44:35 AM
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Im in a weird spot, myself.

In the last few months ive started dating, have met someone and its going well...apart from my own insecurities playing up here and there.

Person isn't ugly or anything, but I do wonder if its really what I want.

I contradict myself in that I want a loving relationship and companionship, which I have, despite me being a little disconnected with my intimate side and very uncomfortable when given compliments. Then I also want to be alone, because shit takes a lot of effort haha

Im kinda going along with it and seeing where it may/may not lead. It kinda beats sitting at home on weekends playing non stop vidya games. Then again, I have a lot less time for hobbies and such. But to the extreme I was doing, isn't good for any kind of social life and wanting a partner of some kind.

I really dont know what's better!

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xAzNPimP4LiFex
08/05/25 2:21:13 AM
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^yeah thats a tough one from what you described

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Mistere_Man
08/05/25 2:40:48 AM
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bnui_ransder posted...
Id would rather them be alone than have an ugly me in their life

To my knowledge you arent ugly.

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Glob
08/05/25 2:46:12 AM
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buddah86 posted...
Im in a weird spot, myself.

In the last few months ive started dating, have met someone and its going well...apart from my own insecurities playing up here and there.

Person isn't ugly or anything, but I do wonder if its really what I want.

I contradict myself in that I want a loving relationship and companionship, which I have, despite me being a little disconnected with my intimate side and very uncomfortable when given compliments. Then I also want to be alone, because shit takes a lot of effort haha

Im kinda going along with it and seeing where it may/may not lead. It kinda beats sitting at home on weekends playing non stop vidya games. Then again, I have a lot less time for hobbies and such. But to the extreme I was doing, isn't good for any kind of social life and wanting a partner of some kind.

I really dont know what's better!

It sounds a bit like maybe you like being in a relationship but need some slightly clearer boundaries about how much time you want for yourself.
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NoxObscuras
08/05/25 2:47:38 AM
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It's better to be alone than to be with a partner you don't want. However...

xAzNPimP4LiFex posted...
I hear some people saying that some dudes should just go for ugly girls because thats their peak and thats the best theyre gonna get
This sounds like the common complaint I hear from guys that fall into the manosphere. They complain that no woman ever wants them and it's all women's fault. So then, they're given the advice to "lower their standards" which of course they incorrectly interpret as "settle for an ugly woman."

I'm not saying that's what you're doing TC, but there is a world of difference between having realistic standards and having no standards. It doesn't have to be all or nothing.

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ai123
08/05/25 3:28:19 AM
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If you think your girl/boyfriend is 'ugly' and you 'don't want' them, you should definitely split up.

They deserve a lot better than you.

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TheoryzC
08/05/25 3:30:11 AM
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A person question from personal experience from TC

It's about TC

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Super_Slash
08/05/25 4:03:52 AM
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This can't be a serious question lol
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rexcrk
08/05/25 5:26:19 AM
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Being alone, obviously, is much better.

I basically learned as early as high school that I wasnt meant to be with someone romantically. Like its just not in my DNA or I missed that day when they were handing out normal-people instincts or whatever lol.

Ive tried, of course, but dating (or attempting to date) has always made me hate life so.. yeah. Much much better off being alone than with someone I dont like.

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boomgetchopped3
08/05/25 5:26:28 AM
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And if you cant be with the one you love, love the one youre with

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Dikitain
08/05/25 6:14:56 AM
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Happiest I have ever been in my life was being alone for the last 14 years.

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bsp77
08/05/25 7:29:50 AM
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Of course people shouldn't be with someone they find "ugly" and don't want. I think those comments are more in regard to the following:

Some guys only go after really hot women despite being mid themselves

Being too picky about an initial reaction can be limiting. Many people become more attractive once you see their mannerisms, their emotions how they interact with you. Not saying someone you think is truly ugly will become gorgeous. But someone more average could become quite cute or pretty

Once in a long term relationship, looks really are secondary to many other things

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bfslick50
08/05/25 8:19:31 AM
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Alone, but hopefully looks isnt the only thing you care about

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BakonBitz
08/05/25 9:24:50 AM
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I'd rather be alone, simply because it's not fair to the other person if I don't actually want to be with them.

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