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Cotton_Eye_Joe 11/15/24 10:30:33 AM #1: |
If they've gone through rehab and have been clean and sober for at least a year. --- Starfield is a 7/10. Get over it. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ricemills 11/15/24 10:37:33 AM #3: |
Yes. But may break up if they're relapsed. --- You have the right to remain silent. Anything you posted will be misquoted, then be used against you. http://error1355.com/ce/Ricemills.html ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Glob 11/15/24 10:41:44 AM #4: |
I dont think my wife would approve. But also no regardless. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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voldothegr8 11/15/24 11:12:19 AM #6: |
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Bass 11/15/24 11:13:10 AM #7: |
Depends on the substance, but most likely no. --- Many Bothans died to bring you this post. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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K181 11/15/24 11:13:27 AM #8: |
Depends on the substance. --- Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HANGtheDJ_86 11/15/24 11:14:50 AM #9: |
Bass posted... Depends on the substance --- I feel well put ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Spiderman23J 11/15/24 11:18:24 AM #12: |
I would be a hypocrite if I didnt --- buss on life ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Homeless_Waifu 11/15/24 11:21:11 AM #13: |
Depends how long ago they quit. If it was a couple years ago maybe. If it was recently like very recently no only reason why I say that is because I dont think Ill be of any help to her, I dont want to be her enabler or something. I wouldnt know how to help her out if she went through withdrawals and mostly because its a depressing thing to watch someone fighting with all their might to kick the habit, I feel like it would traumatize to certain extent. --- I bought the Taito Egret II Mini just to play puchi carat Dungeon Travelers 2 on steam, pls. I need that game in my life, it's like a drug ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SlamVook 11/15/24 11:22:05 AM #14: |
No, sadly no --- I think that dude was a dude, dude! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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boomgetchopped3 11/15/24 11:22:07 AM #15: |
No, because two alcoholics in a relationship would be bad --- It's literally the same thing ... Copied to Clipboard!
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monkeykid453 11/15/24 11:24:24 AM #16: |
Already have and wouldnt recommend it --- MMM ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kai_Laguna 11/15/24 11:43:46 AM #17: |
Shit, I dated someone who was an active substance abuser during my late teens, Qand as a former alcoholic I would never hold someone's former vices against them. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LeTigre 11/15/24 11:47:02 AM #18: |
Thats half of the Midwest. Not dating someone because they had an addiction after they put in the work, got the help they needed and have maintained their sobriety, seems kind of fucked. --- The world's a mess and yr my only cure (formerly BrohammedAli) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NeonPhoenix 11/15/24 11:48:34 AM #19: |
Nah, I wouldn't. I see that shit too much at work to want to deal with a potential relapse at home. I'm glad others are willing though. --- https://imgur.com/u2HR4nG ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Giant_Aspirin 11/15/24 11:49:41 AM #20: |
as an alcoholic who has been dry for 14 years, sure. LeTigre posted... Not dating someone because they had an addiction after they put in the work, got the help they needed and have maintained their sobriety, seems kind of fucked. not when you consider the relapse rate for most addicts. and i say this as an addict. estimated 40-60% of addicts relapse https://nida.nih.gov/publications/drugs-brains-behavior-science-addiction/treatment-recovery --- I hope something good happens to you today Playing: Chained Echoes ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lcampoy 11/15/24 11:53:14 AM #22: |
Spiderman23J posted... I would be a hypocrite if I didntSame --- 3DS: 1220-8395-9035 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ai123 11/15/24 11:54:13 AM #23: |
Would and have. --- 'Vinyl is the poor man's art collection'. Let in the refugees, deport the racists. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KiwiTerraRizing 11/15/24 11:54:28 AM #24: |
I could deal with a recovering alcoholic probably but not hard drugs. --- Trucking Legend Don Schneider! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BewmHedshot 11/15/24 1:45:24 PM #27: |
Are they sexy? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 11/15/24 1:50:46 PM #28: |
In terms of her having past issues, sure. But I enjoy my beer, wine and whiskey, and that may no longer be as feasible. --- Currently playing - Blasphemous 2 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem-man 11/15/24 1:52:53 PM #29: |
Interesting topic. I'm guessing it would be hard for a recovering addict to not be around a partner who partakes in those vices? Specifically alcohol. It then kind of requires you to share in the abstinence? It seems understandable why it can be a deal breaker. People decline to date people for much less --- Harris-Walz 2024 https://imgur.com/gallery/o47SI9Y ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Trumble 11/15/24 1:57:30 PM #30: |
Sure. If it was something like weed I wouldnt even care if they still did it; tho I wouldnt date a meth addict unless they were well and truly recovered. --- Without your Trumble, you are but an empty shell. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ChamGemini 11/15/24 1:58:58 PM #31: |
Spiderman23J posted... I would be a hypocrite if I didnt --- Xbox/Playstation/Steam: chamgemini 3DS Friend code: 3153-5331-7088 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KookyCouture 11/15/24 2:05:28 PM #32: |
No --- Drink up me hearties, yo ho ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Buffy_Summers 11/15/24 2:07:43 PM #33: |
No. I went through that with my mom, I don't think I could do it with someone else. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DrizztLink 11/15/24 2:09:21 PM #34: |
Be pretty fuckin' hypocritical of me to say no. I'm pretty unlikely to date someone in active addiction since that'll probably end up with both of us in trouble, but a history isn't something I'd judge. --- He/Him http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/slowpoke.gif https://i.imgur.com/M8h2ATe.png https://i.imgur.com/6ezFwG1.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NatsuSama 11/15/24 2:10:28 PM #35: |
Unless the last substance abuse was weed or alcohol, no. And even then, I'd need more details. Like how long ago was it, and how bad was it. --- WAAAH, I CAN'T BEAT THIS GUY WITH HIS TACTICS, I'M GONNA CALL IT SPAM AND CONDEMN HIM FOR USING IT ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vengeance29 11/15/24 2:10:36 PM #36: |
Can't exactly throw stones in glass houses. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ratchetrockon 11/15/24 2:17:53 PM #37: |
yep --- I'm a Taurus. Currently playing: Oldschool Runescape. He/Him ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TotallyNotAGirl 11/15/24 2:19:29 PM #38: |
If they are clean now... And if they have a big pp --- Don'tTalkToMe. She/Her ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Yawn_Master2 11/15/24 2:22:42 PM #39: |
Geez. One of my best friends used to be addicted to meth in his teens. Hes been clean and sober for over 15 years. He got a masters of science degree, makes $100k a year in a tough job is very intelligent and dignified. People in here are ignorant. --- "Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Buffy_Summers 11/15/24 2:41:21 PM #40: |
Yawn_Master2 posted... Geez. One of my best friends used to be addicted to meth in his teens. Hes been clean and sober for over 15 years. He got a masters of science degree, makes $100k a year in a tough job is very intelligent and dignified. People in here are ignorant. My mother was a drug addict. She was clean for 6 months, before she relapsed. I had to deal with her addiction every day. I had to watch as she basically killed herself. And I was the one who found her body when she OD'd. So excuse me for not wanting to date someone with substance abuse history. Excuse me for not wanting to take the risk of someone relapsing, and having to deal with that all over again. People have their own reasons for not wanting to date someone with substance abuse history. Do not try to invalidate them by calling them ignorant. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Azn_Psycho 11/15/24 2:45:25 PM #41: |
What substance? How long a history? How long sober? --- Blah, blah, blah, and blah. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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W_S_C_M 11/15/24 2:49:02 PM #42: |
No --- Peacefully non-compliant/non-conformist De-influencer ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mad-Dogg 11/15/24 2:55:43 PM #43: |
This actually would be legit hard for me if this person's substance abuse issues was with pain medication since I receive pain medicine prescriptions for my chronic illness. Like if they have been clean for years then the temptation of just being around my stronger medicines would be hard since I'll have these kind of prescriptions around for the rest of my life. A person that is withdrawing but they know for a fact you have medicine of your own would be willing to do things they never would otherwise. (Personally witnessed this with one of my sisters. One of the coolest people you could meet, but at her absolute lowest she took her car and rammed my brother in law's since he hid his pain medicines that he receives from pain management for his back issues. She is good now since she went to rehab, but its definitely something I would never think she was capable of until I heard it happened). --- GTag:MadDogg730 PSN:lMadDogg NNID:xMadDoggx NS friend code:5313-0564-0819 Go buy cyber shadow like right now. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sansoldier 11/15/24 2:56:18 PM #44: |
Only if it's been multiple years. I don't want to deal with the risk of relapse. --- http://www.youtube.com/user/san3711 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 11/15/24 3:25:35 PM #45: |
Buffy_Summers posted... My mother was a drug addict. She was clean for 6 months, before she relapsed. I had to deal with her addiction every day. I had to watch as she basically killed herself. And I was the one who found her body when she OD'd. So excuse me for not wanting to date someone with substance abuse history. Excuse me for not wanting to take the risk of someone relapsing, and having to deal with that all over again. People have their own reasons for not wanting to date someone with substance abuse history. Do not try to invalidate them by calling them ignorant.Yeah, seriously Also, I am sorry you had to go through that. Sounds horrible. --- Currently playing - Blasphemous 2 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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vycebrand2 11/15/24 3:41:18 PM #46: |
I knew someone. If she did not have that past yes. Considering my sister fought it and lost, I understood the fight. I liked her, tried to help as much as I could. I could see she was slipping back. It started up again after she lost custody of her sun. I saw this alot when my sister did it. A bad life event, slip. Get clean, bad life event, slip. I closed up shop, moved in with my friend to help her then left the area altogether. I got a fight of my own to handle now. --- I was born when she kissed me. I died when she left me. I lived a few weeks while she loved me- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Glob 11/15/24 7:30:00 PM #47: |
Yawn_Master2 posted... Geez. One of my best friends used to be addicted to meth in his teens. Hes been clean and sober for over 15 years. He got a masters of science degree, makes $100k a year in a tough job is very intelligent and dignified. People in here are ignorant. Good for your friend and everything but you should consider that for some people, its the exact opposite of being ignorant that makes them not want an addict as a partner. Its lived experience. I grew up surrounded by addicts and the one thing you very quickly learn is that even when they get clean, theyre still an addict and they always will be. Ive seen too many people get their shit together only to relapse hard. Ive lost people Ive cared about to addiction after they seemed to have kicked their habit. Excuse me for not wanting to risk going through such things again. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jiek_Fafn 11/15/24 7:39:01 PM #48: |
I have and it did not go well --- I don't believe in belts. There should be no ranking system for toughness. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Thermador446 11/15/24 7:48:00 PM #49: |
I don't know a lot about people with hard drug problems, but I worked with a couple people with fentanyl issues, and it's honestly the fucking worst. One was a lady in her mid 50's, and we just thought it was mental health issues combined with being old. It wasn't until after she got fired that we found out it was meth and fentanyl. She had a car for like a week, but crashed it less than a block from her apartment because it was 5am and she thought it was 5pm and time for work --- "While you were wasting your time castrating a priceless antique, I was systematically feeding babies to hungry mutated puppies!" -The Monarch ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guide 11/15/24 7:51:05 PM #50: |
LeTigre posted... Thats half of the Midwest. I respect the effort, but like, why would I not just date someone less likely to have problems, in this theoretical scenario where all options are this neutral void except for the binary of "do they have a history" --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU ... Copied to Clipboard!
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