Current Events > If you live with parents, do you still hve to ask permission to leave the house?

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S_A_S 05/13/24 5:38:57 AM #1:	HOw old are you? <cite>S_A_S posted [p:980370619] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>HOw old are you?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Glob 05/13/24 5:44:06 AM #3:	Even when people live with their parents as teenagers, do they ask permission to leave the house? I never did. <cite>Glob posted [p:980370640] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>Even when people live with their parents as teenagers, do they ask permission to leave the house? I never did.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
S_A_S 05/13/24 5:58:23 AM #4:	Bump. <cite>S_A_S posted [p:980370698] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>Bump.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Just_a_loser 05/13/24 6:01:54 AM #5:	If you are an adult, you don't need anyone's permission to leave. It's none of anyone else's business. Now if you are still living with your parents into your 30s or later and you go out, you are more likely to need their permission to come back. --- Your face looks like I need a beer. <cite>Just_a_loser posted [p:980370715] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>If you are an adult, you don't need anyone's permission to leave. It's none of anyone else's business.Now if you are still living with your parents into your 30s or later and you go out, you are more likely to need their permission to come back. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12 05/13/24 6:03:40 AM #6:	Sunhawk Topic --- (He/Him) I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:980370723] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>Sunhawk Topic </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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S_A_S 05/13/24 6:16:45 AM #8:	Is it normal for parents to make your ask for permission to leave the house? <cite>S_A_S posted [p:980370772] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>Is it normal for parents to make your ask for permission to leave the house?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
toreysback 05/13/24 6:16:56 AM #9:	i can see where this might become a problem --- we're all on a ship. we know where it's bound death comes calling. you won't hear a sound <cite>toreysback posted [p:980370775] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>i can see where this might become a problem </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Just_a_loser 05/13/24 6:23:28 AM #10:	S_A_S posted... Is it normal for parents to make your ask for permission to leave the house? No. And if they are that controlling, its past time you left. Be an adult. --- Your face looks like I need a beer. <cite>Just_a_loser posted [p:980370811] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>S_A_S posted... </cite><quote>Is it normal for parents to make your ask for permission to leave the house?</quote>No. And if they are that controlling, its past time you left. Be an adult. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
S_A_S 05/13/24 6:43:17 AM #11:	Bump. <cite>S_A_S posted [p:980370900] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>Bump.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FinalBraveNUT 05/13/24 6:50:39 AM #12:	S_A_S posted... Bump. Wtf you bumping for If someone just posted... ??? --- FFBE friend ID 958,168,629 Rank 156 <cite>FinalBraveNUT posted [p:980370951] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>S_A_S posted... </cite><quote>Bump.</quote>Wtf you bumping for If someone just posted... ??? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheSuperSilver 05/13/24 6:54:29 AM #13:	If you are an adult, you don't need anyone's permission to leave. It's none of anyone else's business I disagree, especially now since I've owned my home for the last several years. I don't want traffic coming in and out of the house at all times of the day or night. So if you're going to be living in my house I don't necessarily need "permission" but the least you could do as a courtesy would be to drop a message or note about it. You can't just do whatever the hell you want in my house while living rent free - don't care how old you are. Don't like it? Easy solution - get your own place. --- When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the goals, adjust the action steps. - Confucius <cite>TheSuperSilver posted [p:980370972] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote><quote>If you are an adult, you don't need anyone's permission to leave. It's none of anyone else's business</quote>I disagree, especially now since I've owned my home for the last several years.I don't want traffic coming in and out of the house at all times of the day or night. So if you're going to be living in my house I don't necessarily need "permission" but the least you could do as a courtesy would be to drop a message or note about it.You can't just do whatever the hell you want in my house while living rent free - don't care how old you are. Don't like it? Easy solution - get your own place. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Glob 05/13/24 7:01:07 AM #14:	TheSuperSilver posted... I disagree, especially now since I've owned my home for the last several years. I don't want traffic coming in and out of the house at all times of the day or night. So if you're going to be living in my house I don't necessarily need "permission" but the least you could do as a courtesy would be to drop a message or note about it. You can't just do whatever the hell you want in my house while living rent free - don't care how old you are. Don't like it? Easy solution - get your own place. That would be exactly what would happen with that shitty attitude. <cite>Glob posted [p:980371002] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>TheSuperSilver posted... </cite><quote>I disagree, especially now since I've owned my home for the last several years.I don't want traffic coming in and out of the house at all times of the day or night. So if you're going to be living in my house I don't necessarily need "permission" but the least you could do as a courtesy would be to drop a message or note about it.You can't just do whatever the hell you want in my house while living rent free - don't care how old you are. Don't like it? Easy solution - get your own place.</quote>That would be exactly what would happen with that shitty attitude.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
toreysback 05/13/24 8:47:20 AM #15:	seriously, with some people i know living with adult parents, it's the other way around. the parents need a high level of care, and get concerned whenever the caretaker, their child, is leaving for a while. how healthy are your parents? --- we're all on a ship. we know where it's bound death comes calling. you won't hear a sound <cite>toreysback posted [p:980371735] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>seriously, with some people i know living with adult parents, it's the other way around. the parents need a high level of care, and get concerned whenever the caretaker, their child, is leaving for a while.how healthy are your parents? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MangaBroski 05/13/24 9:03:02 AM #16:	I havent needed to ask permission even when I was a teen. I do tell my mom if Ill be going out for a long time though because shes expressed worry when I dont. <cite>MangaBroski posted [p:980371864] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>I havent needed to ask permission even when I was a teen. I do tell my mom if Ill be going out for a long time though because shes expressed worry when I dont.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Euripides 05/13/24 9:09:07 AM #17:	FinalBraveNUT posted... Wtf you bumping for If someone just posted... ??? Gobstoppers12 posted... Sunhawk Topic --- he/him/his <cite>Euripides posted [p:980371918] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>FinalBraveNUT posted... </cite><quote>Wtf you bumping for If someone just posted... ???</quote>Gobstoppers12 posted... </cite><quote>Sunhawk Topic</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Waxitron_Gazer 05/13/24 9:13:24 AM #18:	I lived with my parents for a bit not too long ago. I'd announce I was leaving if they were home but jesus christ no i did not need permission to leave. --- five, five, five, jack -five nobs <cite>Waxitron_Gazer posted [p:980371948] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>I lived with my parents for a bit not too long ago. I'd announce I was leaving if they were home but jesus christ no i did not need permission to leave. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
S_A_S 05/13/24 2:22:40 PM #19:	Are baby boomer parents more controlling than other parents? <cite>S_A_S posted [p:980375910] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>Are baby boomer parents more controlling than other parents?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
toreysback 05/13/24 2:24:33 PM #20:	who would be in a position to compare? --- we're all on a ship. we know where it's bound death comes calling. you won't hear a sound <cite>toreysback posted [p:980375942] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>who would be in a position to compare? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
S_A_S 05/13/24 2:26:17 PM #21:	Do you have to ask permission to leave the house, toreysback? <cite>S_A_S posted [p:980375970] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>Do you have to ask permission to leave the house, toreysback?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
toreysback 05/13/24 2:26:53 PM #22:	are your parents still alive? --- we're all on a ship. we know where it's bound death comes calling. you won't hear a sound <cite>toreysback posted [p:980375980] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>are your parents still alive? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
S_A_S 05/13/24 2:37:20 PM #23:	Yes, why? <cite>S_A_S posted [p:980376117] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>Yes, why?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
toreysback 05/13/24 2:47:07 PM #24:	i was wondering if they really existed that's all. honestly, i hadn't expected you to actually make a declarative response. i'm a bit flummoxed right now --- we're all on a ship. we know where it's bound death comes calling. you won't hear a sound <cite>toreysback posted [p:980376233] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>i was wondering if they really existed that's all.honestly, i hadn't expected you to actually make a declarative response. i'm a bit flummoxed right now </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bigblu89 05/13/24 2:50:12 PM #25:	TheSuperSilver posted... I disagree, especially now since I've owned my home for the last several years. I don't want traffic coming in and out of the house at all times of the day or night. So if you're going to be living in my house I don't necessarily need "permission" but the least you could do as a courtesy would be to drop a message or note about it. You can't just do whatever the hell you want in my house while living rent free - don't care how old you are. Don't like it? Easy solution - get your own place. As a homeowner with a kid that is of "Adult" age, but still in high school, kinda this, but not to that extreme. Since she's in HS, we know my daughter's school schedule, including which days she has to stay late for athletics. She also shares her work schedule with us via a shared schedule on all of our phones. Her and my wife are also close enough that she doesn't (to our knowledge) feel the need to hide where she's going, so whenever she leaves, she doesn't ask for permission, but she'll usually let us know where she's going and ask if there's anything she needs to do before she leaves. If she suddenly stopped doing that? I don't think I'd jump right to kicking her out, but a conversation would be had. I was pretty much the same with my parents up until I graduated High School. They still knew my work schedule, but since it was before cell phones, all they really knew was that I was going "out" after work and would only have to call them if I was staying out past 1 am. But once I was out of college, that ended until I eventually moved out when I was 23. --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:980376281] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>TheSuperSilver posted... </cite><quote>I disagree, especially now since I've owned my home for the last several years.I don't want traffic coming in and out of the house at all times of the day or night. So if you're going to be living in my house I don't necessarily need "permission" but the least you could do as a courtesy would be to drop a message or note about it.You can't just do whatever the hell you want in my house while living rent free - don't care how old you are. Don't like it? Easy solution - get your own place.</quote>As a homeowner with a kid that is of "Adult" age, but still in high school, kinda this, but not to that extreme.Since she's in HS, we know my daughter's school schedule, including which days she has to stay late for athletics. She also shares her work schedule with us via a shared schedule on all of our phones. Her and my wife are also close enough that she doesn't (to our knowledge) feel the need to hide where she's going, so whenever she leaves, she doesn't ask for permission, but she'll usually let us know where she's going and ask if there's anything she needs to do before she leaves.If she suddenly stopped doing that? I don't think I'd jump right to kicking her out, but a conversation would be had.I was pretty much the same with my parents up until I graduated High School. They still knew my work schedule, but since it was before cell phones, all they really knew was that I was going "out" after work and would only have to call them if I was staying out past 1 am. But once I was out of college, that ended until I eventually moved out when I was 23. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PoopPotato 05/13/24 2:51:41 PM #26:	Yes. But it's because im on house arrest. I can go to the grocery store, home, and work. Mom has to know when I leave. I'm 39. --- http://i.minus.com/i5EWBMXTN4ERv.gif <cite>PoopPotato posted [p:980376303] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>Yes. But it's because im on house arrest. I can go to the grocery store, home, and work. Mom has to know when I leave. I'm 39. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
S_A_S 05/13/24 3:31:03 PM #27:	Why are you on house arrest? <cite>S_A_S posted [p:980376876] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>Why are you on house arrest?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jaguar34 05/13/24 3:35:18 PM #28:	32 living with my 50 year old Brother and folks. I have to wait until everyone leaves or leave before everyone gets home. It's not about permission, my family is just nosy as shit it's better to do things first. My friends with older kids have similar problems. Me and my gf get a lot of hotel rooms. I make good money but FL sucks for homeowners. I'm probably going to have to leave the state to be a homeowner and that means leaving my family in a vulnerable spot. <cite>Jaguar34 posted [p:980376940] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>32 living with my 50 year old Brother and folks. I have to wait until everyone leaves or leave before everyone gets home.It's not about permission, my family is just nosy as shit it's better to do things first. My friends with older kids have similar problems. Me and my gf get a lot of hotel rooms. I make good money but FL sucks for homeowners. I'm probably going to have to leave the state to be a homeowner and that means leaving my family in a vulnerable spot. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
littlebro07 05/13/24 3:44:21 PM #29:	My wife and I moved back in with my parents for about a year when we sold our house so we could find the next one without feeling rushed. We never asked permission to leave, but would let them know when we were heading somewhere just as a courtesy in case they want us to pick something up for them on the way back, or so they arent wondering who the hell is going in and out of the house at weird hours >_> --- https://i.imgtc.com/MGGa6Os.gif <cite>littlebro07 posted [p:980377072] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>My wife and I moved back in with my parents for about a year when we sold our house so we could find the next one without feeling rushed. We never asked permission to leave, but would let them know when we were heading somewhere just as a courtesy in case they want us to pick something up for them on the way back, or so they arent wondering who the hell is going in and out of the house at weird hours >_> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Turbam 05/13/24 3:45:10 PM #30:	Are mom and dad getting snippy with you, sunhawk? --- ~snip (V)_(;,;)_(V) snip~ I'm just one man! Whoa! Well, I'm a one man band! https://imgur.com/p9Xvjvs <cite>Turbam posted [p:980377087] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>Are mom and dad getting snippy with you, sunhawk? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pedro45 05/13/24 3:48:18 PM #31:	Ask? no. My parents can be nosy. They also forget I'm an adult, but that's parents for you. They want constant communication, but they have to settle with whatever i tell them, cause I'm not narrating my life to them. Rarely am I actually gone overnight, but i usually will tell them when that happens so they can lock up the house. we were much closer when i was living elsewhere but we're all adjusting and trying to respect each other, or at least i hope they're trying. --- Warning: Sometimes biased http://i.imgur.com/V0x5fw8.jpg http://i.imgur.com/IOovUge.gif http://i.imgur.com/zw7bqPH.jpg <cite>pedro45 posted [p:980377131] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>Ask? no.My parents can be nosy. They also forget I'm an adult, but that's parents for you.They want constant communication, but they have to settle with whatever i tell them, cause I'm not narrating my life to them. Rarely am I actually gone overnight, but i usually will tell them when that happens so they can lock up the house.we were much closer when i was living elsewhere but we're all adjusting and trying to respect each other, or at least i hope they're trying. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Prismsblade 05/13/24 3:49:46 PM #32:	No, I lived with relatives for a sort time for two years not long ago and was a shut in for the most part. Once I got a good job that remained so until I eventually saved up enough for a down payment on a house after a year. --- 3DS FC:3368-5403-9633 Name: Kaizer PSN: Blackkaizer <cite>Prismsblade posted [p:980377152] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>No, I lived with relatives for a sort time for two years not long ago and was a shut in for the most part. Once I got a good job that remained so until I eventually saved up enough for a down payment on a house after a year. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 05/13/24 3:50:07 PM #33:	PoopPotato posted... But it's because im on house arrest. I can go to the grocery store, home, and work. it's better than prison at least. a short leash they have :( meant to punish. --- currently playing: elder scrolls skyrim (ps5) RIP Sophie the dog: February 2011-april 2024. we'll miss you alot. <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:980377158] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>PoopPotato posted...</cite><quote>But it's because im on house arrest. I can go to the grocery store, home, and work.</quote>it's better than prison at least. a short leash they have :(meant to punish. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
darkmaian23 05/13/24 3:59:41 PM #34:	TheSuperSilver posted... You can't just do whatever the hell you want in my house while living rent free - don't care how old you are. Don't like it? Easy solution - get your own place. bigblu89 posted... If she suddenly stopped doing that? I don't think I'd jump right to kicking her out, but a conversation would be had. Just when I thought CE was running out of shitty people. --- Cuteness is justice! It's the law. <cite>darkmaian23 posted [p:980377316] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>TheSuperSilver posted... </cite><quote>You can't just do whatever the hell you want in my house while living rent free - don't care how old you are. Don't like it? Easy solution - get your own place.</quote>bigblu89 posted... </cite><quote>If she suddenly stopped doing that? I don't think I'd jump right to kicking her out, but a conversation would be had.</quote>Just when I thought CE was running out of shitty people. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bigblu89 05/13/24 4:09:03 PM #36:	darkmaian23 posted... Just when I thought CE was running out of shitty people. I mean, She's still in High School, and after YEARS of letting us know where she was and when she'd be home, if she just decided that she wasn't coming home on a school night, I feel I have the right to question where she was, no? --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:980377490] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>darkmaian23 posted... </cite><quote>Just when I thought CE was running out of shitty people.</quote>I mean, She's still in High School, and after YEARS of letting us know where she was and when she'd be home, if she just decided that she wasn't coming home on a school night, I feel I have the right to question where she was, no? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Just_a_loser 05/13/24 5:17:01 PM #37:	bigblu89 posted... I mean, She's still in High School, and after YEARS of letting us know where she was and when she'd be home, if she just decided that she wasn't coming home on a school night, I feel I have the right to question where she was, no? I think his comment was more towards you bringing up even the possibilty of kicking her out. Like, ok, teens are rebels. That is normal. Doesn't matter if they are an addict, staying out doing who knows what, or whatever. Unless she is over 18 and has the slimmest chance of taking care of herself, you can't just kick out your underage kids if they have no other place to go. You'd send them out to what, be homeless and probably die? If there are other family willing to take them in, then fair enough. --- Your face looks like I need a beer. <cite>Just_a_loser posted [p:980378453] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>bigblu89 posted... </cite><quote>I mean, She's still in High School, and after YEARS of letting us know where she was and when she'd be home, if she just decided that she wasn't coming home on a school night, I feel I have the right to question where she was, no?</quote>I think his comment was more towards you bringing up even the possibilty of kicking her out.Like, ok, teens are rebels. That is normal. Doesn't matter if they are an addict, staying out doing who knows what, or whatever. Unless she is over 18 and has the slimmest chance of taking care of herself, you can't just kick out your underage kids if they have no other place to go. You'd send them out to what, be homeless and probably die?If there are other family willing to take them in, then fair enough. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bigblu89 05/13/24 5:22:19 PM #38:	Just_a_loser posted... I think his comment was more towards you bringing up even the possibilty of kicking her out. Like, ok, teens are rebels. That is normal. Doesn't matter if they are an addict, staying out doing who knows what, or whatever. Unless she is over 18 and has the slimmest chance of taking care of herself, you can't just kick out your underage kids if they have no other place to go. You'd send them out to what, be homeless and probably die? If there are other family willing to take them in, then fair enough. That's why all I said was "I don't think I'd jump right to kicking her out, but a conversation would be had". I can only speak for my house, but A LOT would have to happen for it to get to the point where I was legit kicking her out of the house. And even then, it would last all of 5 minutes until my wife would convince me to let cooler heads prevail. --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:980378522] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>Just_a_loser posted... </cite><quote>I think his comment was more towards you bringing up even the possibilty of kicking her out.Like, ok, teens are rebels. That is normal. Doesn't matter if they are an addict, staying out doing who knows what, or whatever. Unless she is over 18 and has the slimmest chance of taking care of herself, you can't just kick out your underage kids if they have no other place to go. You'd send them out to what, be homeless and probably die?If there are other family willing to take them in, then fair enough.</quote>That's why all I said was "I don't think I'd jump right to kicking her out, but a conversation would be had".I can only speak for my house, but A LOT would have to happen for it to get to the point where I was legit kicking her out of the house. And even then, it would last all of 5 minutes until my wife would convince me to let cooler heads prevail. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PoopPotato 05/13/24 6:39:46 PM #39:	S_A_S posted... Why are you on house arrest? Shit posting on a Fandom owned website. --- http://i.minus.com/i5EWBMXTN4ERv.gif <cite>PoopPotato posted [p:980379639] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>S_A_S posted... </cite><quote>Why are you on house arrest?</quote>Shit posting on a Fandom owned website. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
toreysback 05/13/24 6:48:52 PM #40:	at least you avoided hornyjail --- we're all on a ship. we know where it's bound death comes calling. you won't hear a sound <cite>toreysback posted [p:980379758] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>at least you avoided hornyjail </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nirvanas_Nox 05/13/24 7:40:48 PM #41:	It's not normal. I used to live with my parents (I did pay rent) but I never needed permission to leave. All they required was for me to let them know where I was going and who I'd be with and for how long so they could keep the door unlocked if I was gonna be late. Now if I wanted to bring a guy home THEN I needed permission. Can't just be bringing random strangers to my parents house lol --- Kee Oth Rama Pancake <cite>Nirvanas_Nox posted [p:980380488] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>It's not normal. I used to live with my parents (I did pay rent) but I never needed permission to leave. All they required was for me to let them know where I was going and who I'd be with and for how long so they could keep the door unlocked if I was gonna be late. Now if I wanted to bring a guy home THEN I needed permission. Can't just be bringing random strangers to my parents house lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AgentCoulson 05/13/24 7:42:43 PM #42:	I don't live with my mother anymore but when I did I came and went as I pleased. Never even bothered to ask permission as a grown, working man. --- I haven't set a signature for the message boards yet <cite>AgentCoulson posted [p:980380511] in If you liv... [t:80768184]...</cite> <quote>I don't live with my mother anymore but when I did I came and went as I pleased. Never even bothered to ask permission as a grown, working man. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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