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SpiritSephiroth
05/05/24 5:14:53 AM
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Been seeing this girl recently in Osaka. Everytime we met she would actively talk and message me. Whenever I showed her London she'd always make these side comments that i'm "cute" or "handsome", basically commending my appearence. She'd even outright lean near me when talking.

Then last week the topic of the MBTI personality test came up and she told me hers. Then she said I should take one and she's interested in what I got. I took it for fun and messaged her the results the next night. After that she kinda just started messaging me less. When I saw her in person she barely striked up any convos. She didn't outright ignore me but I could obviously tell there was something totally different in her attitude towards me. I've met her twice now after that and its been the same which sucks, we were really getting along well too.

I think I'll just chalk this one up to bad luck I guess. If she messages me and shows interest, then that'll be cool. But I'll stop trying to start convos with her from now on if this is the vibe I get >_>

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MEGAsoldier
05/05/24 5:19:37 AM
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The fuck did you get on the test
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SpiritSephiroth
05/05/24 5:20:51 AM
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MEGAsoldier posted...
The fuck did you get on the test

INTP-T.

I really don't know what any of this shit means I just looked it up recently. I barely even cared about these tests tbh, only took it because of her.

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Kim_Seong-a
05/05/24 5:26:30 AM
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SpiritSephiroth posted...
I really don't know what any of this shit means

It means you're a big nerd, you big nerd. :P

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_____Cait
05/05/24 5:29:37 AM
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Is she Japanese?

A lot of people here in Japan look for foreigners as pets to show off in front of their friends. Especially if you are from the UK or the US. They are like reverse weebs. But they have an image of westerners from movies, like The Rock or Bruce Willis (for some reason, he is a big one). Kind of like how weebs get upset if a Japanese girl isnt thin and submissive. There are a TON of shallow people here, just like anywhere else. But status culture is big here. Not everyone of course, but now you get to experience being exotic and not Japanese.

I dont know what you are looking for exactly, but she sounds kind of shallow if thats what ended things.

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LSGW_Zephyra
05/05/24 5:34:57 AM
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Dodged a bullet TC

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SpiritSephiroth
05/05/24 5:36:19 AM
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_____Cait posted...
Is she Japanese?

A lot of people here in Japan look for foreigners as pets to show off in front of their friends. Especially if you are from the UK or the US. They are like reverse weebs. But they have an image of westerners from movies, like The Rock or Bruce Willis (for some reason, he is a big one). Kind of like how weebs get upset if a Japanese girl isnt thin and submissive. There are a TON of shallow people here, just like anywhere else. But status culture is big here. Not everyone of course, but now you get to experience being exotic and not Japanese.

I dont know what you are looking for exactly, but she sounds kind of shallow if thats what ended things.

I know exactly what you're talking about and I've met those type of girls. She wasn't like that (Wanting a foreigner because they're a foreigner). The fact that she probably lost interest in me because of the test actually supports that lol.

Also Japanese girls are definitely not submissive if you have been with one as long as me. I had a Japanese girlfriend of 5 years. >_>

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SpiritSephiroth
05/05/24 5:36:58 AM
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LSGW_Zephyra posted...
Dodged a bullet TC

Most likely. Maybe I'll just randomly ask her out. If it doesn't fall through I'll move on.

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_____Cait
05/05/24 5:38:00 AM
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SpiritSephiroth posted...
I know exactly what you're talking about and I've met those type of girls. She wasn't like that. The fact that she probably lost interest in me because of the test actually supports that lol.

Also Japanese girls are definitely not submissive if you have been with one as long as me. I had a Japanese girlfriend of 5 years. >_>

I live in Japan and yeah. Weebs are gonna hate the place when they find out that the women arent gonna be like they imagine.

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_____Cait
05/05/24 5:39:17 AM
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SpiritSephiroth posted...
I know exactly what you're talking about and I've met those type of girls. She wasn't like that (Wanting a foreigner because they're a foreigner). The fact that she probably lost interest in me because of the test actually supports that lol.

Also Japanese girls are definitely not submissive if you have been with one as long as me. I had a Japanese girlfriend of 5 years. >_>

Also, Im saying the test results and how she suddenly stopped right after that, makes me guess that you arent ideal now. Which is shallow and immature, so you are better off. Too many people just wanting status and the perfect partner, rather than getting to know someone and growing on them.

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SpiritSephiroth
05/05/24 5:42:33 AM
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_____Cait posted...
Also, Im saying the test results and how she suddenly stopped right after that, makes me guess that you arent ideal now. Which is shallow and immature, so you are better off. Too many people just wanting status and the perfect partner, rather than getting to know someone and growing on them.

Yeah I agree totally.

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_____Cait
05/05/24 5:43:52 AM
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SpiritSephiroth posted...
Yeah I agree totally.

Was it from a dating app?

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SpiritSephiroth
05/05/24 5:45:50 AM
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_____Cait posted...
Was it from a dating app?

Nope, met her personally at a place. I don't do dating apps, they're unhealthy as fuck.

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_____Cait
05/05/24 5:49:14 AM
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SpiritSephiroth posted...
Nope, met her personally at a place. I don't do dating apps, they're unhealthy as fuck.

Yeah for real. Osaka is a good place to meet people, so you are lucky.

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SpiritSephiroth
05/05/24 5:50:29 AM
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Kim_Seong-a posted...
It means you're a big nerd, you big nerd. :P

Oh I know don't worry lol

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CountCorvinus
05/05/24 5:52:29 AM
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https://www.16personalities.com/

I got the same result. Some of this stuff just feels like astrology horoscope stuff that could apply to anyone. I wouldn't put much thought into it, OP.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/7/7113743a.png

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Karovorak
05/05/24 6:04:52 AM
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You truly have a new "cute girl in japan" story every few days.

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SpiritSephiroth
05/05/24 6:12:42 AM
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CountCorvinus posted...
https://www.16personalities.com/

I got the same result. Some of this stuff just feels like astrology horoscope stuff that could apply to anyone. I wouldn't put much thought into it, OP.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/7/7113743a.png

Edit: I was right. Pseudosciency bullshit.
https://www.vice.com/en/article/bjv8y5/the-myers-briggs-personality-test-bullshit

Oh what a surprise.

Karovorak posted...
You truly have a new "cute girl in japan" story every few days.

I do have a lot of experiences. Unfortunately not all good.

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bover_87
05/05/24 6:13:12 AM
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Myers-Briggs is not well-regarded at all scientifically. Granted, the topic of personality in psychology is a lot of unknowns (a lot of it is based on how you define things), but still.

If someone rejects you purely because of a personality test, they're probably saving you a lot of time and trouble down the road. They're just not worth the effort.

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Fluttershy
05/05/24 6:17:51 AM
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i remember when a lot of people were intjs and it wasn't because dr house was on that mbti type poster as one nope

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punkfanalways
05/05/24 6:23:37 AM
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Dodged a bullet TC. Some people are just weird when it comes to relationships.
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Jiek_Fafn
05/05/24 6:45:23 AM
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In America, there are women that will do this when they learn your astrological sign

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DuuuDe14
05/05/24 6:51:19 AM
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This is why you gotta be Neo.

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action52
05/05/24 6:59:58 AM
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If someone dumps you over a personality test result, you're better off without them.

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SomeLikeItHoth
05/05/24 7:02:04 AM
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Whats the link to the test you took? I want to take it.

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LightningThief
05/05/24 7:20:38 AM
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Sounds similar to astrology fanatics. If she is similar to those types, I say move on.
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action52
05/05/24 7:24:41 AM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/9/99476527.jpg
I think I'm probably more of an INFP-T, really. I'm an introvert by nature but I'm also a teacher and I kind of force myself to be extroverted. Anyway I was borderline (53%), so eh. Fairly accurate.

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SpiritSephiroth
05/05/24 7:33:04 AM
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SomeLikeItHoth posted...
Whats the link to the test you took? I want to take it.

I used this one:

https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

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rexcrk
05/05/24 7:45:30 AM
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LSGW_Zephyra posted...
Dodged a bullet TC
This.

I hate when girls do this shit. You dont need that in your life.

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DuneMan
05/05/24 7:47:16 AM
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That sort of reaction to something can be thought of as a filter. If you're interested in someone, give them the opportunity up front to pull something stupid like this. You want to weed them out before forming a long term commitment.

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2Pacavelli
05/05/24 7:48:10 AM
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I'm an INFP-J
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SpiritSephiroth
05/05/24 10:19:20 AM
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So I asked her out as a final ditch effort and she said shes busy. Guess I'll leave it there then. Onwards!

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Sad_Face
05/05/24 10:27:24 AM
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SpiritSephiroth posted...
INTP-T.

I really don't know what any of this s*** means I just looked it up recently. I barely even cared about these tests tbh, only took it because of her.


It means you're the smack dab in the demographic who still dwells on dead message boards. Welcome my INTP brother.

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kirbymuncher
05/05/24 10:40:44 AM
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LightningThief posted...
Sounds similar to astrology fanatics.
MBTI is literally just horoscopes for nerdy guys who think actual star horoscopes are unscientific

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DrizztLink
05/05/24 4:32:53 PM
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...are you saying you failed a personality teat

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Irony
05/05/24 4:34:55 PM
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People in Japan lose interest in people that have the wrong blood type

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FL81
05/05/24 4:35:35 PM
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If you get dumped over an MBTI test, then you really dodged a bullet

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LightningThief
05/06/24 10:20:08 AM
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kirbymuncher posted...
MBTI is literally just horoscopes for nerdy guys who think actual star horoscopes are unscientific
Not to be rude but, what's your point?

I dont see too many guys taking merit in that personality test either. But that aside, the TCs scenario said the girl asked for this test, and he participated for fun, for her.
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WingsOfGood
05/06/24 10:29:16 AM
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Probably unrelated.

She found a different guy.
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DKBananaSlamma
05/06/24 10:30:13 AM
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People in Japan use Line right? >_>

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-BrokenSpiral-
05/06/24 10:32:50 AM
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The more you post, the more I can see why your fiance left you.
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MI4_REAL
05/06/24 10:37:08 AM
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Virtuoso INTD-J....or whatever.

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MI4_REAL
05/06/24 10:40:11 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

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Yes. But you can find decent tests, an analyze those that are not decent.

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SpiritSephiroth
05/06/24 10:41:51 AM
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-BrokenSpiral- posted...
The more you post, the more I can see why your fiance left you.

Why's that? She wasn't my fiance btw, please get your facts straight lol.

Also you're a pretty big hater of mine so please try to be serious, comments like these won't bring out any emotion in me. Let me know if I could have done anything different and maybe I'd take that advice on board >_>

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SpiritSephiroth
05/06/24 10:43:05 AM
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DKBananaSlamma posted...
People in Japan use Line right? >_>

Yup. Its like our version of Whatsapp in the UK. They even got other features that us in the west don't have, like access to pay accounts (Line pay) and even a lot of different delivery systems, payment systems, government websites and services ect ect.

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SpiritSephiroth
05/06/24 10:44:13 AM
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DrizztLink posted...
...are you saying you failed a personality teat

Probably in her eyes lol

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SpiritSephiroth
05/06/24 10:44:56 AM
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That's what i gathered too, but I thought it'd be fun nonetheless. Probably another thing to talk about with her :/

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mystic_belmont
05/06/24 10:47:53 AM
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When I took it I got ISTJ.

https://www.16personalities.com/istj-personality

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