Current Events > How is it CHEATING going out with another girl for coffee at WORK?

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SaccharineSmile 03/16/24 8:32:20 PM #1:	or hanging out with that same girl Friday night with other work people? I have to go through my whole life just hanging out with guys now? Literally 1950s mindset here get outta here --- Sent from my IPhone X <cite>SaccharineSmile posted [p:979406682] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>or hanging out with that same girl Friday night with other work people?I have to go through my whole life just hanging out with guys now? Literally 1950s mindset here get outta here </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12 03/16/24 8:33:26 PM #2:	What the fuck are you talking about --- (He/Him) I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:979406704] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>What the fuck are you talking about </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Umbreon 03/16/24 8:33:44 PM #3:	Depends on the context, and this sort of thing should be discussed with your partner. Incidentally, how would you feel if your girl was hanging out with another dude? --- Black Lives Matter. ~DYL~ (On mobile) <cite>Umbreon posted [p:979406707] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>Depends on the context, and this sort of thing should be discussed with your partner.Incidentally, how would you feel if your girl was hanging out with another dude? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 03/16/24 8:36:34 PM #4:	The standards set on what constitutes cheating are things to be discussed with your partner. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:979406752] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>The standards set on what constitutes cheating are things to be discussed with your partner. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SaccharineSmile 03/16/24 8:37:59 PM #5:	Umbreon posted... Depends on the context, and this sort of thing should be discussed with your partner. Incidentally, how would you feel if your girl was hanging out with another dude? Im fine with that she has friends that are guys at her current work she hangs out with now, she can hang out with whoever she wants Im not with her just to control who she can see thats ridiculous, but it seems its still a common thing to a lot of people still --- Sent from my IPhone X <cite>SaccharineSmile posted [p:979406786] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>Umbreon posted... </cite><quote>Depends on the context, and this sort of thing should be discussed with your partner.Incidentally, how would you feel if your girl was hanging out with another dude?</quote>Im fine with that she has friends that are guys at her current work she hangs out with now, she can hang out with whoever she wantsIm not with her just to control who she can see thats ridiculous, but it seems its still a common thing to a lot of people still </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
StealThisSheen 03/16/24 8:40:11 PM #6:	SaccharineSmile posted... Im fine with that she has friends that are guys at her current work she hangs out with now, she can hang out with whoever she wants Im not with her just to control who she can see thats ridiculous, but it seems its still a common thing to a lot of people still You haven't actually answered Gobstoppers12 posted... What the fuck are you talking about --- Seplito Nash, Smelling Like the Vault since 1996 Step FOUR! Get Paid! <cite>StealThisSheen posted [p:979406838] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>SaccharineSmile posted... </cite><quote>Im fine with that she has friends that are guys at her current work she hangs out with now, she can hang out with whoever she wantsIm not with her just to control who she can see thats ridiculous, but it seems its still a common thing to a lot of people still</quote>You haven't actually answeredGobstoppers12 posted... </cite><quote>What the fuck are you talking about</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Umbreon 03/16/24 8:43:44 PM #7:	SaccharineSmile posted... Im fine with that she has friends that are guys at her current work she hangs out with now, she can hang out with whoever she wants Im not with her just to control who she can see thats ridiculous, but it seems its still a common thing to a lot of people still Alright cool. A lot of people are hypocrites in that regard. But yeah, this is a conversation between couples. I had an ex that was rather jealous of me talking to my female best friend. That one wasn't meant to be. --- Black Lives Matter. ~DYL~ (On mobile) <cite>Umbreon posted [p:979406908] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>SaccharineSmile posted... </cite><quote>Im fine with that she has friends that are guys at her current work she hangs out with now, she can hang out with whoever she wantsIm not with her just to control who she can see thats ridiculous, but it seems its still a common thing to a lot of people still</quote>Alright cool. A lot of people are hypocrites in that regard. But yeah, this is a conversation between couples. I had an ex that was rather jealous of me talking to my female best friend. That one wasn't meant to be. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
luigi33 03/16/24 8:44:17 PM #8:	Ahh, the "work wife". --- RTX 3070, Ryzen 7 5700x,16GB DDR4, 700WGold PSU Switch FC: SW-3966-2111-8902, Proud Steam Deck Owner <cite>luigi33 posted [p:979406925] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>Ahh, the "work wife". </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BlueberryWaffle 03/16/24 8:46:31 PM #10:	For me, going out to lunch during a work day is fine, but Id find it a bit odd for my partner to go out with a person of the opposite gender for dinner. Thats just me though. <cite>BlueberryWaffle posted [p:979406970] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>For me, going out to lunch during a work day is fine, but Id find it a bit odd for my partner to go out with a person of the opposite gender for dinner. Thats just me though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Torgo 03/17/24 3:42:42 PM #11:	Depends on your intention. If you have it in your mind you'll "see where it goes" and part of that is a romantic or sexual encounter and you have an exclusive agreement with your current GF- then yeah, you're cheating. --- Aren't we all just a series of tubes? <cite>Torgo posted [p:979419127] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>Depends on your intention.If you have it in your mind you'll "see where it goes" and part of that is a romantic or sexual encounter and you have an exclusive agreement with your current GF- then yeah, you're cheating. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dakimakura 03/17/24 3:43:09 PM #12:	Guide posted... The standards set on what constitutes cheating are things to be discussed with your partner. --- Bees <cite>Dakimakura posted [p:979419134] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>Guide posted... </cite><quote>The standards set on what constitutes cheating are things to be discussed with your partner.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
falayyou01 03/17/24 3:43:35 PM #13:	Emotional damage. You wouldn't want your girl grabbing a coffee at work with a strapping young chap at her place of work now wouldja. --- Pordalance <cite>falayyou01 posted [p:979419139] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>Emotional damage. You wouldn't want your girl grabbing a coffee at work with a strapping young chap at her place of work now wouldja. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hmnut7 03/17/24 3:45:07 PM #14:	Its cheating if your significant other says its cheating, if you feel they are being unreasonable, get a different significant other. --- Starfire: "They are too numerous to fight. What shall we do?" Robin: "Fight anyway!" (pb) <cite>hmnut7 posted [p:979419159] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>Its cheating if your significant other says its cheating, if you feel they are being unreasonable, get a different significant other. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Chadawah 03/17/24 3:48:16 PM #15:	Me (39M) and my coworker (20F) shared a milkshake, with our own straws on each side I might add, and my wife (37F) got mad. AITAH? --- Bethany took my pickles. All of them. Even the spicey ones. <cite>Chadawah posted [p:979419213] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>Me (39M) and my coworker (20F) shared a milkshake, with our own straws on each side I might add, and my wife (37F) got mad. AITAH? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ColdOne666 03/17/24 4:04:04 PM #16:	I have lunch one on one with a women at work slightly younger then me all the time this year. We are friends and are almost like work wife's/ husbands at this stage. She has had a partner for years and years. --- Aussie Aussie Aussie OI OI OI! <cite>ColdOne666 posted [p:979419440] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>I have lunch one on one with a women at work slightly younger then me all the time this year. We are friends and are almost like work wife's/ husbands at this stage. She has had a partner for years and years. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
deoxxys 03/17/24 5:52:16 PM #17:	I don't think it's cheating but it's unfair to your partner if they don't want you to, because at the end of the day how is going out to have coffee or watching movies, etc any different from going on a date? "He's just a friend" https://streamable.com/8jkifx --- twylite sprinkle http://tinyurl.com/jeqyas3 https://tinyurl.com/mgvx7h2 <cite>deoxxys posted [p:979421113] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>I don't think it's cheating but it's unfair to your partner if they don't want you to, because at the end of the day how is going out to have coffee or watching movies, etc any different from going on a date?"He's just a friend"https://streamable.com/8jkifx </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssb_yunglink2 03/17/24 5:53:29 PM #18:	Gobstoppers12 posted... What the fuck are you talking about --- Hee Ho <cite>ssb_yunglink2 posted [p:979421137] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>Gobstoppers12 posted... </cite><quote>What the fuck are you talking about</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SaccharineSmile 03/19/24 9:14:58 AM #19:	so I ended up getting that chicks number is that considered cheating? Like I dont see how thats a problem just a work chick --- Sent from my IPhone X <cite>SaccharineSmile posted [p:979447679] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>so I ended up getting that chicks number is that considered cheating? Like I dont see how thats a problem just a work chick </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Goldice 03/19/24 9:19:56 AM #20:	deoxxys posted... because at the end of the day how is going out to have coffee or watching movies, etc any different from going on a date? You could ask the same about going out with your guy friends --- New England Patriots: Super Bowl XXXVI, XXXVIII, XXXIX, XLIX, LI, LIII Champions <cite>Goldice posted [p:979447740] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>deoxxys posted...</cite><quote>because at the end of the day how is going out to have coffee or watching movies, etc any different from going on a date?</quote>You could ask the same about going out with your guy friends </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 03/19/24 9:29:15 AM #21:	SaccharineSmile posted... is that considered cheating? Tell your girl everything and see what she thinks. It can be seen as cheating, but you obfuscating this from your partner is not a healthy look and means its even more likely to lead to cheating. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:979447867] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>SaccharineSmile posted...</cite><quote>is that considered cheating?</quote>Tell your girl everything and see what she thinks.It can be seen as cheating, but you obfuscating this from your partner is not a healthy look and means its even more likely to lead to cheating. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LonelyStoner 03/19/24 9:30:03 AM #22:	Gobstoppers12 posted... What the fuck are you talking about --- He's all alone through the day and night. <cite>LonelyStoner posted [p:979447878] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>Gobstoppers12 posted... </cite><quote>What the fuck are you talking about</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VeggetaX 03/19/24 9:30:38 AM #23:	There's a lot of variables to this and I love it. One could be she's being highly insecure and controlling and have trust issues or she's projecting and these are all red flags. Another is you should respect your s/o's feelings. Everyone here is a love and relationship expert, though so it'll be very fun to see what everyone will spew. --- Don't like it? Don't watch it. It's that simple Dictator of Nice Guys <cite>VeggetaX posted [p:979447886] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>There's a lot of variables to this and I love it.One could be she's being highly insecure and controlling and have trust issues or she's projecting and these are all red flags. Another is you should respect your s/o's feelings. Everyone here is a love and relationship expert, though so it'll be very fun to see what everyone will spew. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LonelyStoner 03/19/24 9:30:39 AM #24:	SaccharineSmile posted... so I ended up getting that chicks number is that considered cheating? Like I dont see how thats a problem just a work chick Im already so tired of these coy, bait posts. Troll Reddit. --- He's all alone through the day and night. <cite>LonelyStoner posted [p:979447888] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>SaccharineSmile posted... </cite><quote>so I ended up getting that chicks number is that considered cheating? Like I dont see how thats a problem just a work chick</quote>Im already so tired of these coy, bait posts. Troll Reddit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tanthalas 03/19/24 9:32:41 AM #26:	Tomorrow: I started putting my hand on that chicks lower back while we talk, is that cheating? --- Sir Markham pointed out, drinking another brandy. "A chap who can point at you and say 'die' has the distinct advantage". <cite>Tanthalas posted [p:979447909] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>Tomorrow:I started putting my hand on that chicks lower back while we talk, is that cheating? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bigblu89 03/19/24 9:40:47 AM #27:	When it comes to cheating, it's a simple as "Would I be mad if they did this to me?" and if the answer is "Yes" then it's cheating. But if the answer is "No" but to your S.O. the answer is "Yes", then you should immediately stop whatever it is and a conversation needs to happen. --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:979448010] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>When it comes to cheating, it's a simple as "Would I be mad if they did this to me?" and if the answer is "Yes" then it's cheating.But if the answer is "No" but to your S.O. the answer is "Yes", then you should immediately stop whatever it is and a conversation needs to happen. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SaccharineSmile 03/20/24 5:31:23 PM #28:	VeggetaX posted... There's a lot of variables to this and I love it. One could be she's being highly insecure and controlling and have trust issues or she's projecting and these are all red flags. Another is you should respect your s/o's feelings. Everyone here is a love and relationship expert, though so it'll be very fun to see what everyone will spew. yeah thats the thing we joke about me hanging out and talking to other girls but shes chill about it and vice versa when she hangs out with other guys from work but a couple of my friends say its disrespectful and emotionally cheating which I cant agree on I just feel thats like such an boomer way of thinking like I should be able to talk and be friends with anyone I have so my guy friends that are so controlling of their girl its disgusting Im not that --- Sent from my IPhone X <cite>SaccharineSmile posted [p:979473909] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>VeggetaX posted... </cite><quote>There's a lot of variables to this and I love it.One could be she's being highly insecure and controlling and have trust issues or she's projecting and these are all red flags. Another is you should respect your s/o's feelings. Everyone here is a love and relationship expert, though so it'll be very fun to see what everyone will spew.</quote>yeah thats the thing we joke about me hanging out and talking to other girls but shes chill about it and vice versa when she hangs out with other guys from work but a couple of my friends say its disrespectful and emotionally cheating which I cant agree on I just feel thats like such an boomer way of thinking like I should be able to talk and be friends with anyone I have so my guy friends that are so controlling of their girl its disgusting Im not that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 03/20/24 5:32:48 PM #29:	Why are you going out with her or the group of people? To spend with her and not your SO? --- "I don't question our existence, I just question our modern needs" Pearl Jam - Garden My theme song - https://youtu.be/-PXIbVNfj3s <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:979473935] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>Why are you going out with her or the group of people? To spend with her and not your SO? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SaccharineSmile 03/20/24 5:32:53 PM #30:	Tanthalas posted... Tomorrow: I started putting my hand on that chicks lower back while we talk, is that cheating? weve shared drinks and straws is that cheating? Like where is this imaginary social line start and end? --- Sent from my IPhone X <cite>SaccharineSmile posted [p:979473937] in How is it ... [t:80723392]...</cite> <quote>Tanthalas posted... </cite><quote>Tomorrow:I started putting my hand on that chicks lower back while we talk, is that cheating?</quote>weve shared drinks and straws is that cheating? Like where is this imaginary social line start and end? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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