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ArsGoetia
02/17/24 2:03:48 PM
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i cant close my bank account without her present
and i dont want to keep eating overdraft fees
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Will_VIIII
02/17/24 2:06:06 PM
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Can you lock or freeze it at least, given the circumstances?

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ArsGoetia
02/17/24 2:07:52 PM
#54:


Will_VIIII posted...
Can you lock or freeze it at least, given the circumstances?

not without her present and in agreement
i could pursue legal action i guess but i dont want to do that
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Gwynevere
02/17/24 2:08:21 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
i cant close my bank account without her present
and i dont want to keep eating overdraft fees
I'd open a new account without her, and make sure nothing goes into the old account from now on. Turn off overdraft protection if possible so shit just declines instead of overdrafting

Switch mortgage and all payments to your new account, profit (literally)

btw I messaged you on discord

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ArsGoetia
02/17/24 2:13:02 PM
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Gwynevere posted...
I'd open a new account without her, and make sure nothing goes into the old account from now on. Turn off overdraft protection if possible so shit just declines instead of overdrafting

Switch mortgage and all payments to your new account, profit (literally)

btw I messaged you on discord

i think i gave you the wrong discord lol
its "oubliettes."

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ArsGoetia
02/17/24 2:14:26 PM
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i have overdraft protection
it's still charging me $37 each time she tries to pay something
and she has all of her credit cards set to auto pay, her kids' phone bills, netflix, hulu, playstation plus, xbox gold, amazon prime, etc.
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Gwynevere
02/17/24 2:16:00 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
i think i gave you the wrong discord lol
its "oubliettes."
Looks right to me on my friends list. I just never bothered to send a message til today lol

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ArsGoetia
02/17/24 2:18:39 PM
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i got nothin lol
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/c/c5a532af.png
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AlCalavicci
02/17/24 2:24:10 PM
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sorry tc

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Will_VIIII
02/17/24 2:37:45 PM
#62:


ArsGoetia posted...
i have overdraft protection
it's still charging me $37 each time she tries to pay something
and she has all of her credit cards set to auto pay, her kids' phone bills, netflix, hulu, playstation plus, xbox gold, amazon prime, etc.

If any of those services are on accounts that have your name, you can contact them to remove the account from billing


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ArsGoetia
02/17/24 2:38:59 PM
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Will_VIIII posted...
If any of those services are on accounts that have your name, you can contact them to remove the account from billing

they aren't
all i see is
"$xx.xx to CITIBANK(or CHASE, etc.) from card ending in xXXXX"
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Will_VIIII
02/17/24 2:39:47 PM
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Is your bank going to require her present to stop payment for those services you listed?

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ArsGoetia
02/17/24 2:40:11 PM
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Will_VIIII posted...
Is your bank going to require her present to stop payment for those services you listed?

yes (i've already gone in person to try)
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Mistere_Man
02/18/24 7:52:47 AM
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Remove yourself from the accounts without closing them. They may need to be there to close it out, but not to remove your name from it.

Also so did you ever decide on a new name for your new kitty?

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lilORANG
02/18/24 8:02:56 AM
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TC has a new kitty?!

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tremain07
02/18/24 8:08:25 AM
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holy shit this is fucked so let me get this straight

Bitch is lazy and entitled and refuses to work
You're basically a single income household
Bitch decides she wants someone else and divorces you
Court decides you are on the hook for how she wants to live effectively legally allowing her to effectively bankrupt you by stealing all of YOUR money?!
Whatever dick she's riding now even harasses you with text messages on how he's bed suplexing her all the time

Holy shit dude, I'm infuriated for you shame on that court for this, thanks to their ruling you don't even have any money to fight this shit on appeal

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Mistere_Man
02/18/24 8:46:13 AM
#69:


lilORANG posted...
TC has a new kitty?!

I believe so, I could be mistaken and confusing them with another poster, but I am fairly sure they made a topic asking for names the other day. I apologize if it turns out I am mistaken.

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Drunk_Cobra
02/18/24 3:12:20 PM
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Wait was Ars The Oubliettes? That dude had lore!

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HudGard
02/18/24 3:27:43 PM
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Damn.

Hope he can power through this.

Fucked up all around.

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lilORANG
02/18/24 4:22:01 PM
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So no pics of new kitty?
:(

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FinalBraveNUT
02/18/24 4:56:17 PM
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Really had the court date set to V day?

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Mistere_Man
02/18/24 5:08:59 PM
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lilORANG posted...
So no pics of new kitty?
:(

This was the one they posted in the topic

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/6/6aec6357.jpg

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lilORANG
02/18/24 5:55:20 PM
#76:


Mistere_Man posted...
This was the one they posted in the topic

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/6/6aec6357.jpg
Excellent

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FinalBraveNUT
02/18/24 11:49:51 PM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/f/f886c380.jpg

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NittanyLions23
02/19/24 12:05:00 AM
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Im confused.

I thought TC was a woman?

Was this a same-sex marriage?

Or was I just wrong about them being a woman?

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MrAntisocial
02/19/24 9:50:37 AM
#79:


Drunk_Cobra posted...
Wait was Ars The Oubliettes? That dude had lore!
If so probably why he closed his account

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NittanyLions23
02/19/24 12:47:34 PM
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why did I think TC was a woman?

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