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11/04/23 10:10:08 AM
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https://www.yahoo.com/news/alabama-mayor-pastor-dies-suicide-084152190.html

An Alabama community is in shock after the tragic death of a local leader following their involuntary outing as a transgender woman when a local conservative news blog posted photos of them embracing their secret gender identity.

Smiths Station Mayor F.L. Bubba Copeland, who also served as the pastor of First Baptist Church in Phenix City, was found dead Friday evening, Lee County Sheriff Jay Jones confirmed to Columbus, Ga., CBS affiliate WRBL.

I can confirm he took his own life, Jones said.

Besides his political and religious affiliations, Copeland was known locally for owning a small grocery store in the Alabama backwaters. Recent scrutiny emerged when Alabama news blog 1819 News reported Wednesday that Copeland had been engaging in explicit online activities, allegedly posting pornography, memes, and photos of themself in womens clothing online under the pseudonym Brittini Blaire Summerlin.

The report shared screenshots from Copelands now-deleted Instagram and Reddit accounts, where the openly explored their transgender identity. Copeland also reportedly shared transgender-specific fiction and erotica that they authored, according to published reports. Copeland discussed hormone replacement therapy in some of their online posts

The Advocate honors peoples chosen names and pronouns. Because Copeland did not publicly come out before their death, The Advocate is referring to them as the person they presented publicly.

The revelation quickly spiraled into a community-wide controversy, eliciting many empathetic and derogatory reactions. One of Copelands friends, former Phenix City School Superintendent Larry DiChiara, expressed his anguish and support for Copeland on social media after the mayors death.

In a Facebook post, DiChiara wrote, Please bare with me while I vent. I am so angry right now and heartbroken. I witnessed a good man be publicly ridiculed and crucified over the last few daysto the point that he just took his own life today. He revealed that he had reached out to Copeland offering support and encouragement, and Copeland had acknowledged going through some dark days.

In a pointed message to those who ridiculed Copeland, DiChiara asked, Are you happy now? What crime did he commit? Some of you people make me sick. I hope you are really proud.

He ended his post with a prayer for Copeland: For our brother, F.L. Bubba Copeland, May God bless your soul and forgive those who took pleasure in your suffering. They should all be ashamed!

The Lee County Sheriffs Office and the Lee County District Attorneys Office are currently investigating the death.

The situation took a tragic turn when deputies responded to a request for a welfare check on Copeland, spotting them driving their truck on a county road near their grocery store. Upon attempting to pull Copeland over, they stopped, exited their truck, and fatally shot themself, Jones told WRBL.

The distressing details surrounding Copelands demise highlight the stark reality of the societal pressures and the often harsh judgments individuals may face when their private lives, particularly concerning their sexual orientation or gender identity, are involuntarily thrust into the public domain, especially in conservative communities.

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Rotterdammerung
11/04/23 10:12:47 AM
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That is absolutely tragic.

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Humble_Novice
11/04/23 10:14:04 AM
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Conservatives indirectly led this person to their demise. There is nothing more sinister than religious bigotry.

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Jagr_68
11/04/23 10:16:02 AM
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Nothing will change in the Bible Belt.

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DementedDurian
11/04/23 10:19:07 AM
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Jagr_68 posted...
Nothing will change in the Bible Belt.

I mean, my own family didn't really change when I came out as transgender.

Hell, my brother calls out my gender dysphoria as "misguided angst".

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11/04/23 10:19:37 AM
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Rotterdammerung posted...
That is absolutely tragic.


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Flambian
11/04/23 10:19:59 AM
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Slightly unrelated question: why do people say "died by suicide" now? Thats like saying I fell off a building by jumping.

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mercurydude
11/04/23 10:20:23 AM
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Whoever wrote that post should be held accountable. They did it maliciously and knew that, at a bare minimum, it would ruin this person's life. It's fucking sociopathic that these people consider "triggering" the other side to be more important than having even a smidge of human decency.

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Humble_Novice
11/04/23 10:20:34 AM
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DementedDurian posted...
I mean, my own family didn't really change when I came out as transgender.

Hell, my brother calls out my gender dysphoria as "misguided angst".
Are you still forced to live with them?

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DementedDurian
11/04/23 10:21:50 AM
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Humble_Novice posted...
Are you still forced to live with them?

Yes, though I am working on writing books to become independent.

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CountCorvinus
11/04/23 10:22:52 AM
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"An Alabama community is in shock after the tragic death of a local leader following their involuntary outing as a transgender woman "

"For our brother, F.L. Bubba Copeland, May God bless your soul and forgive those who took pleasure in your suffering. They should all be ashamed!

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Disrespecting this person even in death.


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Humble_Novice
11/04/23 10:25:15 AM
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CountCorvinus posted...
"An Alabama community is in shock after the tragic death of a local leader following their involuntary outing as a transgender woman "

"For our brother, F.L. Bubba Copeland, May God bless your soul and forgive those who took pleasure in your suffering. They should all be ashamed!

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Disrespecting this person even in death.
Conservatives could care less about the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals, so why would they even respect one's preferred pronouns? If you have a bigoted family member, please cut all ties with them if it's a viable move for you.

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lilORANG
11/04/23 10:25:16 AM
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So as a pastor, was she preaching the same hate that led to her death?

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Turbam
11/04/23 10:28:36 AM
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That's terrible.

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Sariana21
11/04/23 10:28:49 AM
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Flambian posted...
Slightly unrelated question: why do people say "died by suicide" now? Thats like saying I fell off a building by jumping.
Committed suicide sounds like a criminal act. Died by suicide is a more human-centered (and more accurate) way to verbalize what happened.

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Flambian
11/04/23 10:32:59 AM
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Sariana21 posted...
Committed suicide sounds like a criminal act. Died by suicide is a more human-centered (and more accurate) way to verbalize what happened.
How is it more accurate to remove the suicide victim's culpability?

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AldousIsDead
11/04/23 10:33:34 AM
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Spot the chud.

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littlebro07
11/04/23 10:33:45 AM
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mercurydude posted...
Whoever wrote that post should be held accountable. They did it maliciously and knew that, at a bare minimum, it would ruin this person's life. It's fucking sociopathic that these people consider "triggering" the other side to be more important than having even a smidge of human decency.

Conservatives are mentally incapable of empathy and decency.


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Zikten
11/04/23 10:39:44 AM
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lilORANG posted...
So as a pastor, was she preaching the same hate that led to her death?
It's possible she was more liberal than most pastors. Might be what got some conservative mad and to look into her secrets. Some conservative Christians really hate liberal Christians
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thronedfire2
11/04/23 10:45:27 AM
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Flambian posted...
How is it more accurate to remove the suicide victim's culpability?

I feel like that's pretty obvious when it comes to suicide

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11/04/23 10:46:56 AM
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Rotterdammerung posted...
That is absolutely tragic.


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ai123
11/04/23 10:55:23 AM
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CountCorvinus posted...
"An Alabama community is in shock after the tragic death of a local leader following their involuntary outing as a transgender woman "

"For our brother, F.L. Bubba Copeland, May God bless your soul and forgive those who took pleasure in your suffering. They should all be ashamed!

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Disrespecting this person even in death.
They addressed that in the article. They use the pronouns that the deceased used in their public life.

The Advocate honors peoples chosen names and pronouns. Because Copeland did not publicly come out before their death, The Advocate is referring to them as the person they presented publicly.

Whether that is the correct decision or not, I don't know, but there doesn't seem to be any disrespectful intention.

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Flambian
11/04/23 11:00:48 AM
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thronedfire2 posted...
I feel like that's pretty obvious when it comes to suicide
But its not. Whatever the circumstances that compels the victim, what matters is the conclusion the victim draws from those circumstances. Only by taking those circumstances as a compelling argument against their own person, their own unique way of navigating through life, as evidence of their failure as an individual in the face of a standard they want to meet and cannot. And this can only happen when one applies moral standards to oneself, completely freely.

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littlebro07
11/04/23 11:00:53 AM
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Zikten posted...
It's possible she was more liberal than most pastors. Might be what got some conservative mad and to look into her secrets. Some conservative Christians really hate liberal Christians

Yeah this is most likely what happened. Conservatives are the most hate filled group of individuals in the country and being angry at literally anything gives their sad miserable lives meaning.

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ArsGoetia
11/04/23 11:01:29 AM
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Flambian posted...
How is it more accurate to remove the suicide victim's culpability?

tf are you on homie, and what culpability is being removed?
suicide by definition is self inflicted
do you think anyone is unclear on that?
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Flambian
11/04/23 11:04:41 AM
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ArsGoetia posted...
tf are you on homie, and what culpability is being removed?
suicide by definition is self inflicted
do you think anyone is unclear on that?
the verbiage used in the wake of a tragedy is paramount to the victim's loved ones
They person I'm responding to agrees that the phrase "committed suicide" sounds like culpability, specifically culpability for a crime. Go harass them instead.

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MabusIncarnate
11/04/23 11:05:32 AM
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A pastor of a church getting to the point of saying "I need to die instead of face the churches ridicule" is why religion needs to go away.

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DrizztLink
11/04/23 11:08:07 AM
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Flambian posted...
They person I'm responding to agrees that the phrase "committed suicide" sounds like culpability, specifically culpability for a crime. Go harass them instead.
You're the person bringing up the term "culpability."

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Kaldrenthebold
11/04/23 11:10:47 AM
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That blog and the people running it are pure scum

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Flambian
11/04/23 11:13:05 AM
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DrizztLink posted...
You're the person bringing up the term "culpability."
No, the person who said that committing suicide sounds like committing a crime brought up culpability.

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CountCorvinus
11/04/23 11:13:06 AM
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ai123 posted...
They addressed that in the article. They use the pronouns that the deceased used in their public life.

The Advocate honors peoples chosen names and pronouns. Because Copeland did not publicly come out before their death, The Advocate is referring to them as the person they presented publicly.

Whether that is the correct decision or not, I don't know, but there doesn't seem to be any disrespectful intention.

The quote is not from the Advocate. It's from the deceased's "friend".

Please bare with me while I vent. I am so angry right now and heartbroken. I witnessed a good man be publicly ridiculed and crucified over the last few daysto the point that he just took his own life today. He revealed that he had reached out to Copeland offering support and encouragement, and Copeland had acknowledged going through some dark days.

In a pointed message to those who ridiculed Copeland, DiChiara asked, Are you happy now? What crime did he commit? Some of you people make me sick. I hope you are really proud.

He ended his post with a prayer for Copeland: For our brother, F.L. Bubba Copeland, May God bless your soul and forgive those who took pleasure in your suffering. They should all be ashamed!

I know exactly what kind of support and encouragement" people like them give.

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Humble_Novice
11/04/23 11:15:02 AM
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They looked really happy here... Why take that away from them?
https://twitter.com/kevinmyoung/status/1720625579509068231

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Humble_Novice
11/04/23 11:18:11 AM
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This is apparently why conservatives went after him: https://twitter.com/TheDaleJackson/status/1720803306811851107

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ArsGoetia
11/04/23 11:18:45 AM
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Flambian posted...
They person I'm responding to agrees that the phrase "committed suicide" sounds like culpability, specifically culpability for a crime. Go harass them instead.

and you said

Flambian posted...
How is it more accurate to remove the suicide victim's culpability?


implying you believe culpability for a crime exists
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Umbreon
11/04/23 11:21:36 AM
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Do not fall for the crocodile tears from the people secretly celebrating this tragedy.

These people are monsters, and they hide behind religion to justify it.

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Flambian
11/04/23 11:21:46 AM
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Humble_Novice posted...
They looked really happy here... Why take that away from them?
https://twitter.com/kevinmyoung/status/1720625579509068231
For the moralists who bullied this person, what matters is not whether a person is happy with their life, but whether said person complies with their morals. People are only allowed to be happy if they deserve it. This is an attitude shared by all moral thinkers; what differs is only the standards involved.

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Flambian
11/04/23 11:24:09 AM
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ArsGoetia posted...
and you said

implying you believe culpability for a crime exists
so nah imma grill you on it thx
Obviously a crime must have a perpetrator. I didn't bring up crime.

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CSCA33
11/04/23 11:00:59 PM
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I remember her from one of our communities where we talk and help support each other.

This is so sad.

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11/04/23 11:15:43 PM
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The world religious zealots want

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11/05/23 12:08:15 AM
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Humble_Novice posted...
https://twitter.com/TheDaleJackson/status/1720803306811851107
using photos of underage boys from his community in memes about transitioning? And he was writing erotic fan fiction about killing real people?

I read the part about them writing a (fictional) story about killing a woman on Imgur. Is the other part true? It makes me suspicious. Feels too in line with the agenda conservatives are trying to push about transgender people.

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11/05/23 12:09:58 AM
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Humble_Novice posted...
Conservatives indirectly led this person to their demise. There is nothing more sinister than religious bigotry.
Indirectly? I'm prepared to go as far as directly.

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11/05/23 12:11:07 AM
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It was totally a hit piece and they got what they wanted.

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11/05/23 12:14:13 AM
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Humble_Novice posted...
Conservatives indirectly led this person to their demise.
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Inohira
11/05/23 12:27:40 AM
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Copeland was elected to be mayor of Smiths Station, a town of about 5,000 near the Georgia state line, in 2016. He was thrust into the national spotlight in 2019 when a string of tornadoes ravaged the area and then-President Donald Trump visited. Copeland was photographed with Trump and used the picture to campaign for re-election in 2020.

Another face eating leopards tragedy. Really unfortunate.

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HylianFox
11/05/23 12:29:29 AM
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In a Facebook post, DiChiara wrote, Please bare with me while I vent.

No, I don't think I will.

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Enclave
11/05/23 12:30:04 AM
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Jagr_68 posted...
Nothing will change in the Bible Belt.

No, this will cause real change. A person who has taken a strong lead in disasters in the area will no longer be around to give their expertise and assistance any more. This is going to probably cost lives and resources on top of the tragic loss that's being experienced by their family and friends.

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CSCA33
11/05/23 1:02:00 AM
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Inohira posted...
Another face eating leopards tragedy. Really unfortunate.
There are small southern towns like this where only cishet normative society and culture is tolerated, but even those places still have closeted gay and/ or trans people who are late bloomers.

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brestugo
11/05/23 6:19:55 AM
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lilORANG posted...
So as a pastor, was she preaching the same hate that led to her death?

From published accounts so far, no.

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