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ArsGoetia 10/26/23 7:53:26 PM #1: |
someone found my bra and i had lots of splainin to do >,> anyways they mostly took it well and said it makes sense. my dad doesn't know yet tho, and he's the biggest issue. doc said since i dont have an established history of dysphoria (meaning i haven't seen the doc about it, i've been massively dysphoric for more than 20 years) he wants me to wait a month and come back in. i did get botox and juvederm yesterday tho which was hella expensive but worth it imo https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/6/8/9/AAfc_TAAE-hx.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Crimsoness 10/26/23 7:54:08 PM #2: |
Good luck Ars.
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ArsGoetia 10/26/23 7:56:04 PM #3: |
oh and i'm also kinda pissy that the "marilyn manson white" contacts i ordered for Halloween are.... not that Crimsoness posted... Good luck Ars. thanks! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kitt 10/26/23 7:57:43 PM #4: |
ArsGoetia posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/6/8/9/AAfc_TAAE-hx.jpgDamn, shawty --- What is up, my sister!? https://m.imgur.com/pmc9XsI https://m.imgur.com/hfzvdPe ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AnsestralRecall 10/26/23 7:59:34 PM #5: |
ArsGoetia posted... doc said since i dont have an established history of dysphoria (meaning i haven't seen the doc about it, i've been massively dysphoric for more than 20 years) he wants me to wait a month and come back in. God at that point fuck that doctor, diy hrt has some fantastic documentation and is significantly cheaper if you go for injections ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArsGoetia 10/26/23 8:00:45 PM #6: |
AnsestralRecall posted... God at that point fuck that doctor, diy hrt has some fantastic documentation and is significantly cheaper if you go for injections i'm a broke bitch on medicaid insurance doesnt cover it? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AnsestralRecall 10/26/23 8:02:00 PM #7: |
ArsGoetia posted... i'm a broke bitch on medicaid Ahh, yeah, it'd be entirely out of pocket for DIY which is the downside for it You could look into seeing if there are any informed consent clinics that your Medicaid would be accepted by tho ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bnui_ransder 10/26/23 8:08:55 PM #11: |
Good luck! Hopefully your doctor is better than my friends doctor in Florida, they made a bunch of excuses to why they can't help
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ArsGoetia 10/26/23 8:35:56 PM #12: |
AnsestralRecall posted... Ahh, yeah, it'd be entirely out of pocket for DIY which is the downside for it thx I'll def check em out. tbh i didn't really even do any research because i was afraid someone would see even browsing incognito >,> now that the cat's out of the bag tho it's no big deal I guess [LFAQs-redacted-quote] aw tell her I said thx lol all thanks to dr mckenna at the cincinnati institute of cosmetic surgery man is a god damn legend ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Gwynevere 10/26/23 8:38:30 PM #13: |
The fuck TC, you already look like you've been on HRT longer than I have
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King_Rial 10/26/23 8:39:03 PM #14: |
Good luck, beautiful. We're all in your corner.
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hockeybub89 10/26/23 8:39:36 PM #15: |
That's great! Good luck!
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ArsGoetia 10/26/23 8:50:18 PM #16: |
Gwynevere posted... The fuck TC, you already look like you've been on HRT longer than I have fillers baby ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Gwynevere 10/26/23 9:21:30 PM #18: |
ArsGoetia posted...
fillers babyI mean that in the best way possible, you're for sure gonna make it If your doctor gives you the run around again, you should go to planned parenthood if there's any nearby. Hell, even if there aren't; I did a telehealth appointment and had HRT at the pharmacy the next day --- A hunter is a hunter...even in a dream [She/they] ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doe 10/26/23 9:24:08 PM #19: |
ArsGoetia posted...
Okay but like how did your family not know until now lol --- https://imgur.com/gallery/dXDmJHw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75GL-BYZFfY ... Copied to Clipboard!
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--Zero- 10/26/23 9:24:41 PM #20: |
Damnnn
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GiftedACIII 10/26/23 9:31:49 PM #21: |
Seems all's well that ends well which is good.
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ArsGoetia 10/26/23 9:38:16 PM #22: |
Doe posted... Okay but like how did your family not know until now lol b/c my day to day life looks/looked like this https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/1/2/AAfc_TAAE-js.jpg pic in op is a pound of makeup, false eyelashes, a wig and contacts. also about 20 lbs weight loss and the aforementioned botox/fillers i've worn makeup and been feminine since i was 12 tho. my first girlfriend in 6th grade and i used to do each other's makeup this was me in high school https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/1/3/AAfc_TAAE-jt.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ricemills 10/26/23 9:39:49 PM #23: |
ArsGoetia posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/6/8/9/AAfc_TAAE-hx.jpg Would --- You have the right to remain silent. Anything you posted will be misquoted, then be used against you. http://error1355.com/ce/Ricemills.html ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Turbam 10/26/23 9:41:05 PM #24: |
Glad that they took it well
Hopefully your dad isn't a shit head. --- ~snip (V)_(;,;)_(V) snip~ I'm just one man! Whoa! Well, I'm a one man band! https://imgur.com/p9Xvjvs ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KitKats 10/26/23 9:43:42 PM #25: |
Definitely look into finding a clinic that does informed consent
This is a resource that compiled all the known clinics in the US that do informed consent; it might be slightly outdated and is from 2019 https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/d6p05q/i_compiled_every_single_informed_consent_clinic/ https://www.google.com/maps/d/u/0/viewer?mid=1DxyOTw8dI8n96BHFF2JVUMK7bXsRKtzA&ll=42.47025816653201%2C-97.03854516744877&z=4 --- her/she ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JuanCarlos1 10/26/23 9:45:02 PM #26: |
Ricemills posted...
Would Same --- Mas dicen, que en las dimensiones de nuestro ser... hay muchos detalles por conocer... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Umbreon 10/26/23 9:48:10 PM #27: |
*Looks at pic in #1 and #22*
This is some deep magic right here! You look absolutely pretty. Best of luck to you. --- Black Lives Matter. ~DYL~ (On mobile) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Gwynevere 10/26/23 10:17:44 PM #28: |
ArsGoetia posted...
b/c my day to day life looks/looked like thisI see the potential here, you're gonna have an A+ transition for sure I'm just proud of you for taking this first step. It can be a scary one --- A hunter is a hunter...even in a dream [She/they] ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArsGoetia 10/26/23 10:46:12 PM #29: |
KitKats posted... Definitely look into finding a clinic that does informed consent thanks so much! i'll def be making some calls in the morning. i understood why my doc said no for the moment(he's just incredibly cautious and knows my extremely volatile mental state[i get my psych meds from him too], he's not a bad dude whatsoever) but it was still kinda heartbreaking ... Copied to Clipboard!
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King_Rial 10/26/23 11:56:40 PM #30: |
So...do I have you confused with someone else, or... did you have a spell with a bit of alcohol? Has the drinking slowed down or stopped?
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ArsGoetia 10/27/23 12:37:03 AM #31: |
King_Rial posted... So...do I have you confused with someone else, or... did you have a spell with a bit of alcohol? Has the drinking slowed down or stopped? slowed down a lot yea i still drink a couple nights a week tho and dance alone in my house ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArsGoetia 10/27/23 1:52:15 AM #32: |
took the earliest possible booking thanks for the heads up everyone https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/8/9/AAfc_TAAE-md.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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King_Rial 10/27/23 2:18:21 AM #33: |
That's awesome.
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teep_ 10/27/23 3:18:51 AM #34: |
Good luck TC, I'm glad your family was supportive
Others have said it too but you look great! I especially like the hair lol --- this lie is love and this lie is a gift to the world ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArsGoetia 10/27/23 9:19:01 AM #35: |
teep_ posted... Good luck TC, I'm glad your family was supportive thanks you too can enjoy luxurious silver locks for the low price of $22.99 BESTUNG Short White Silver Wigs for Women Ombre Grey Wavy Bob Wig with Bangs Medium Length Synthetic Hair Water Wave Dark Roots Wig Gray Colorful Wigs12 Incheshttps://a.co/d/eEs6ZXl ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Zwijn 10/27/23 9:39:55 AM #36: |
Im still in the process but still way too scared shitless of their reaction. Also 37 already and have issues with that it feels too late. Wish I had your guts, good for you for making the step. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BearlyWilling 10/27/23 9:41:42 AM #37: |
Botox when your this young?
Also love your hair. One of my best friends went that same color and she rocks it well. --- Hmm... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lilORANG 10/27/23 9:43:07 AM #38: |
Lol, from the topic title I was expecting that you watched a documentary on the topic with your family and somehow it made them catch on.
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CyricZ 10/27/23 9:48:55 AM #39: |
I wish you the best Ars. I know you're gonna do great!
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ArsGoetia 10/27/23 9:52:26 AM #40: |
BearlyWilling posted... Botox when your this young? i'll be 36 in february homie ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AnsestralRecall 10/27/23 10:00:12 AM #41: |
Zwijn posted... Im still in the process but still way too scared shitless of their reaction. Also 37 already and have issues with that it feels too late. Wish I had your guts, good for you for making the step. As someone also in their 30s that shares similar feelings of being "too late" from what I have seen regarding HRT and late 20s-30+ trans women that shit is made of magic and hope. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ScazarMeltex 10/27/23 10:01:18 AM #42: |
Looking good TC, best of luck to you.
Zwijn posted... Im still in the process but still way too scared shitless of their reaction. Also 37 already and have issues with that it feels too late. Wish I had your guts, good for you for making the step.It's never too late. 37 is nothing. You still have a huge chunk of life ahead of you. --- Furthermore, The GOP is a Fascist Organization and must be destroyed ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Xatrion 10/27/23 10:01:47 AM #43: |
Fuck the haters. Best of luck to you.
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ArsGoetia 10/27/23 11:52:51 AM #44: |
ScazarMeltex posted... Looking good TC, best of luck to you. Thx! And ya for sure there's plenty of options especially if you got the cash and if you dont (or even if you do) dont leave the house without sunscreen. I use retinol+SPF lotion every day and have for years. Exfoliate once or twice a week. Hyaluronic acid mask every other night or so. Drink lots of water. Collagen and biotin supplements. Dont be afraid to consult a cosmetic surgeon. Most consultations are free. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArsGoetia 10/27/23 11:58:16 AM #47: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Here? 0. Only DMs I get are when I'm drinking and being hyper melodramatic and crying to relative strangers on gamefaqs about how much I appreciate them for basic kindnesses. Grindr? Like 8 and half million dick pics from 20-60 y/o dudes. It's fun to respond to them with Skyrim guard dialogue tho ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GranAures 10/27/23 12:02:16 PM #49: |
Nice that it seems the majority of your family are taking it well. Live your best life.
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