Current Events > If you text someone after a month-ish of not talking..

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And they reply with Hi (my name). Ive been thinking about you. Am I overthinking/reading into it too much or is that kind of intimate? Just wondering if I should step up my interactions with this person. She was my coworker for a while and weve gotten lunch and dinner a few times in the recent past but no dates or anything like that. IMO shes shown a few minor signs of interest before but nothing concrete.

Dont try and interpret signs of a woman liking you via 1 text after a month of not talking maybe

That could be intimate yes, as the thought they were denoting time to thinking of you is more than a lot of people have. You should set a date with them

hereforemnant posted...

That could be intimate yes, as the thought they were denoting time to thinking of you is more than a lot of people have. You should set a date with them

I suggested meeting up for lunch again which she agreed to and we did. But wasnt a date or anything like that.

meatlesshotdogz posted...

Dont try and interpret signs of a woman liking you via 1 text after a month of not talking maybe

like I said theres definitely the possibility of me overthinking it. I really dont get the catty responses to these kind of topics all the time. Just wondering if in peoples opinions, I should try talking to this person a little more. I havent gotten a line like that from many people in my life.

Itachi157 posted...

I suggested meeting up for lunch again which she agreed to and we did. But wasnt a date or anything like that.

like I said theres definitely the possibility of me overthinking it. I really dont get the catty responses to these kind of topics all the time. Just wondering if in peoples opinions, I should try talking to this person a little more. I havent gotten a line like that from many people in my life.

The last time a girl told me she was thinking about me like that, we did something dirty following up.

But no it was a date, it just was a at the time platonic date. You both agreed to a time to meet up one on one at a specific place & time, that's a date. Just sounds like neither one of you is pulling the trigger on pushing it beyond

I'm putting all my chips on "platonic date that leads to spontaneous sex"

at least the intention is platonic but like

peeps follow flowcharts like ken in street fighter, this is the pattern

She's probably just interested in friendship. I mean, if she was madly in love with you, would she have gone a month without texting you?

Just take it as a sign that she likes talking to you and busk it from there.

Everything from casual acquaintance to a love story for the ages is still on the table. Have fun finding out.

Keep it light and low stakes until you have something more concrete than close analysis of a text message to go on.