Current Events > I'm bored. AMA. I'm recently single out of a 6 year relationship

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bobbaaay
10/11/23 5:23:36 PM
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And probably about to be homeless in two months. Also losing my cats.
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Smackems
10/11/23 5:25:27 PM
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Do you have a job?

I'm going through something similar

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bobbaaay
10/11/23 5:27:04 PM
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Smackems posted...
Do you have a job?

I'm going through something similar

Yes. I make like $34,000 a year - but I'm really bad with money and have basically zero savings.
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NittanyLions23
10/11/23 5:38:03 PM
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Why do you only have 4 years of karma but your account is 15 years old?
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bobbaaay
10/11/23 5:39:25 PM
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NittanyLions23 posted...
Why do you only have 4 years of karma but your account is 15 years old?

I go on a year or so hiatus every once in awhile. I've also had dozens upon dozens of suspensions and karma losses in the past cause idgaf
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Big_Nabendu
10/11/23 5:49:46 PM
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Why she leave u

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bobbaaay
10/11/23 6:59:19 PM
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Big_Nabendu posted...
Why she leave u

I'll spill all the mess here.
Our sex life has been kinda meh for a few years now. She's kind of a pillow princess. She also decided awhile back that she doesn't want to give or receive oral anymore, because that bacteria isn't meant to be mixed. She also decided no more anal or butt stuff, because again - she said that bacteria doesn't belong outside of that area. She also quit shaving. Sexually she also never took initiative and expected me to always make the first move - which, after my last girlfriend before her, I'm afraid to always do (sometimes I'd misread the situation, and instead of saying "no" she'd call me disgusting, shame me, etc.).

On her end - I've been bad with money for my entire adult life. I also went back to school and I'm struggling a bit more than I should with studying and time management. She's also been posting nudes on Reddit and liking all the extra attention that I'm clearly not giving her (for the above reasons).

One day a few months ago I was just peeping her Reddit (as I did from time to time) and saw someone say something like, "don't you have a boyfriend?" and she was like, "Yeah, but I'm hoping to leave him soon."
I called her out on it. I told her she's still not making meaningful efforts to be better with me sexually. So instead of having to worry about moving out, splitting up our cats -- and the comfort of living with her since she makes like $85/hour, I asked to just do something open instead of breaking up.
Fast forward to my first serious FWB since then - she kind of made me realize I did the open thing for selfish reasons, and to kind of redeem myself I just broke up with her like she'd initially wanted.
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AloneIBreak
10/11/23 7:08:20 PM
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Im sorry about your cats

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bobbaaay
10/11/23 7:09:06 PM
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AloneIBreak posted...
Im sorry about your cats

Thank you. I'm so sad my ex won't let me keep either one.
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Big_Nabendu
10/11/23 8:38:16 PM
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bobbaaay posted...
She's also been posting nudes on Reddit and liking all the extra attention that I'm clearly not giving her (for the above reasons).

You did the right thing then. Don't beat yourself up. Move forward.

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bobbaaay
10/12/23 12:05:16 AM
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bump
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TripleDouble
10/12/23 12:09:00 AM
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She makes 85/hr?

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bobbaaay
10/12/23 12:09:56 AM
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TripleDouble posted...
She makes 85/hr?

Yes. She's a pharmacy manager.
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bobbaaay
10/12/23 12:30:50 AM
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I'm lonely and sad. Not because I miss being with her.
I still have been getting plenty of sex and have options, but I kind of really like my one fwb and I don't think it's mutual at all. I'm also not vibing on an emotional level with any other women I'm talking to.
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WalkingPlague
10/12/23 12:34:59 AM
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itll get better with time.

nothing looks good because youre still attached to your ex. itll fade in time.

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NittanyLions23
10/12/23 12:51:41 AM
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bobbaaay posted...
I kind of really like my one fwb and I don't think it's mutual at all.

go with your gut feeling.

Dont emotionally wreck yourself by catching feelings for this person

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