Current Events > Can YOU just be friends with women?

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It means girls that are your friends. That was the context there lol. Its why I said girlfriends not girlfriend.

The way I responded to the other guy was needed since he was trying to insult me for my preferences. Im not trying to look good here at all. I started off responding to the topic in question from the first post then in turn responded to the people being personally offended.

Yeah I can see his logic, but idk where he got that logic from since I never implied Im out to fuck women that are taken. Thats looking at the topic and adding more to it. Im mainly talking about having close relationships with the attractive ones. Im not going to bang someones girl nor am I going to be friends with them because theyre taken. Its not worth it to me.

he was trying to insult me for my preferences.

Your preference is that women are sex objects and that's the extent of their worth.

You say it right there. If a women isn't available to you for sex they have no worth. That's pathetic.

I mean, I don't see why not.

If you respect someone, you can interact with them on all levels that are appropriate and respect them enough to not interact with them on inappropriate levels.

Of course I can. Pathetic when people can't.

I don't know of men who use that word for female friends. Yes, "female" is okay in this context.

Regardless, I didn't see your comment about not caring about friends in general prior to messaging. That admittedly changes things. Your response was still immature though.

Nah I think you just cant accept that you missed the context of what I said and want to name call anyways. I can have my preferences and respond to someone mocking me saying it sounds like someone that doesnt have sex would say however I want without the judgment. That part wasnt needed and we wouldnt be where we are right now if it wasnt for the previous person acting bitter.

Nah I think you just cant accept that you missed the context of what I said and want to name call anyways. I can have my preferences and respond to someone mocking me saying it sounds like someone that doesnt have sex would say however I want without the judgment. That part wasnt needed and we wouldnt be where we are right now if it wasnt for the previous person acting bitter.

lmao I'm "bitter" because I pointed out that seeing women as sex objects only is a virgin mindset.

It does sound exactly like what someone who doesn't have sex would say. Everything you've been saying in this topic sounds like it's coming from a teenager who hasn't had sex yet and still puts the pussy on a pedestal, as it were. And you're presumably in your 30s so it's extra sad.

That's not even getting into the fact that you clearly view women as only sex objects to an extreme degree, which you keep avoiding addressing.

Are you seriously trying to argue that gloating about having one night stands means someone has never had sex?

Both of those have nothing to do with each other. It's not uncommon for many individuals (or even locker room talk) to gloat about how they had sex with multiple people, or had sex with X or Y person

lmao I'm "bitter" because I pointed out that seeing women as sex objects only is a virgin mindset.

Your reading comprehension is ass, alt.

Your preference is that women are sex objects and that's the extent of their worth.

You say it right there. If a women isn't available to you for sex they have no worth. That's pathetic.

This argument is the equivalent to saying that people seeing other folks as banks is a "virgin mindset"

It makes absolutely no sense. You can argue it means
A. The person has commitment issues
B. Doesn't take the other person too seriously
C. Is a Playa
D. Potentially manipulative If the person lies to someone about what they want

Note: I am not saying Zero is or isn't this. I don't know him

But thats not the same as "virgin mindset". That said, if a person has sex with someone and leaves or doesn't stick around for long: That is their right. As long as nothing illegal is conducted. As far as morals..well you'd be hardpressed to get into a good argument about that when ghosting is often praised and encouraged

The fact of the matter is, people do have a right to view someone however they want. You can't dictate what someone should/shouldn't think . Someone can look to someone only for money or status. someone can look only for looks and no personality. someone can seek someone only for intimacy. There are going to be doctors who view you as only a paycheck or inconvenience. and not a human. There are going to be people you meet who have no empathy. There are going to be people who use you strictly for work and don't care about your struggles or home problems

thats the way of the world.

Online Dating makes it much easier and more effective in meeting people.

I said that in response to a post claiming that he could never be friends with a girl because he's just want to fuck them, and I stand by that. That's the nonsense you hear from 14 year old boys that fantasize over women all day and have no idea what sex is even like.

If you want, take the virgin out of it and replace it with pathetic, because that's what it is.

Of course I can't. Pathetic when people who can act like they're superior to those who can't.