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Master_Kazuya
09/10/23 2:02:40 AM
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A few months later, when I asked her if she wanted to hook up, she said she was lesbian.

A few months later, aka recently, I asked if she wanted to Mario Wonder + smoke + chill, she said sounds fun

I haven't hung out with her yet, we used to work together, I mainly just wanna hook up

What do

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Big_Nabendu
09/10/23 2:05:25 AM
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Whip it out

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boxoto
09/10/23 2:05:52 AM
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if she's down to hang out, and you want to, then why not?

but if you don't want to, then don't, I guess.

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Itachi157
09/10/23 2:06:16 AM
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I say just do it. Keep communication open but have no expectations. At "worst" you might get a new friend.
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Master_Kazuya
09/10/23 2:07:07 AM
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boxoto posted...
if she's down to hang out, and you want to, then why not?

but if you don't want to, then don't, I guess.

Doesn't me saying Mario and chill imply that I wanna hook up, especially when I asked if she wanted to earlier?

She lives an hour away too so she'd be making that drive

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WalkingPlague
09/10/23 2:08:01 AM
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Master_Kazuya posted...
A few months later, when I asked her if she wanted to hook up, she said she was lesbian.

A few months later, aka recently, I asked if she wanted to Mario Wonder + smoke + chill, she said sounds fun

What do
sounds like you're friendzoned. it happens dude. two options: get used to it or slow ghost her.

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BewmHedshot
09/10/23 2:08:15 AM
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Sounds like TC is in the friendzone
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Itachi157
09/10/23 2:08:17 AM
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I wouldn't expect that she wanted to hook up unless you asked "wanna hook up" and she said yes.
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JKwaffle
09/10/23 2:08:40 AM
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Itachi157 posted...
I wouldn't expect that she wanted to hook up unless you asked "wanna hook up" and she said yes.


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Gremlynn
09/10/23 2:08:44 AM
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all seems pretty obvious.

If you don't have a weird hangup over her and can appreciate having what sounds like a cool friend then enjoy your victory.

if you can't just be friends cause you also think she's cute, well then... sucks to suck i guess.

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boxoto
09/10/23 2:10:40 AM
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Master_Kazuya posted...
Doesn't me saying Mario and chill imply that I wanna hook up, especially when I asked if she wanted to earlier?

She lives an hour away too so she'd be making that drive
not necessarily.

if she's really lesbian, then maybe she liked you as a person/thought you'd be cool to hang out with.

or maybe she initially blew you off for whatever reason, and she's now more open to the idea.

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A_Good_Boy
09/10/23 2:12:05 AM
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Master_Kazuya posted...
Doesn't me saying Mario and chill imply that I wanna hook up, especially when I asked if she wanted to earlier?

She lives an hour away too so she'd be making that drive
How are you so bad at communication? If you want to hookup then just ask so you both can be certain about what you're getting yourselves into.

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Master_Kazuya
09/10/23 2:14:17 AM
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I think I'd be willing to hang out once, if nothing happens then that's it

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Itachi157
09/10/23 2:16:01 AM
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Gremlynn posted...
all seems pretty obvious.

If you don't have a weird hangup over her and can appreciate having what sounds like a cool friend then enjoy your victory.

if you can't just be friends cause you also think she's cute, well then... sucks to suck i guess.

Even if it's the latter, those feelings eventually fade.
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VampireCoyote
09/10/23 2:24:57 AM
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Literally tell her you want to just hook up. Tell her how hot she is. Use your words.

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GuerrillaSoldier
09/10/23 3:02:55 AM
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this topic is the definition of not getting the hint


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Enclave
09/10/23 3:08:05 AM
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She's told you she's a lesbian, basically at this point if she wants a more than platonic friendship with you the ball is in her court. Most likely she's coming over for a gaming night and that's it, don't expect anything more.

You say "it's a 1 hour drive!" to which I point out that I've driven over an hour a ton of times over the years to hang out with friends, that's something friends do.

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StealThisSheen
09/10/23 3:15:43 AM
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Master_Kazuya posted...
I think I'd be willing to hang out once, if nothing happens then that's it

If you're only hanging out with the expectation that she hooks up with you, you probably definitely shouldn't hang out, and you're starting to sound pretty gross.

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VampireCoyote
09/10/23 3:17:05 AM
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I know several lesbians that sometimes sleep with guys just saying

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StealThisSheen
09/10/23 3:18:17 AM
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VampireCoyote posted...
I know several lesbians that sometimes sleep with guys just saying

The TC is literally saying "I don't want to be friends I just expect her to sleep with me and I'll break off contact if she doesn't." You probably shouldn't be encouraging him.

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VampireCoyote
09/10/23 3:19:12 AM
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StealThisSheen posted...
The TC is literally saying "I don't want to be friends I just expect her to sleep with me and I'll break off contact if she doesn't." You probably shouldn't be encouraging him.

I dont know these people

I want them to get real freaky

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DisgracefulSins
09/10/23 3:22:26 AM
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The only way it works is that you accept that she is a lesbian and is only interested in friendship, and probably not with benefits.

If you don't want to, then don't.

It's amazing that women can befriend a gay guy with no issues, yet men can't be just friends with a gay woman. It's sad.

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BewmHedshot
09/10/23 3:24:20 AM
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DisgracefulSins posted...
It's amazing that women can befriend a gay guy with no issues, yet men can't be just friends with a gay woman. It's sad.
I mean, men can, she just has to be ugly.
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Rai_Jin
09/10/23 3:41:55 AM
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you cannot expect anything more than gaming, do that and maybe ask if she knows anyone else.

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Enclave
09/10/23 3:42:41 AM
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DisgracefulSins posted...
The only way it works is that you accept that she is a lesbian and is only interested in friendship, and probably not with benefits.

If you don't want to, then don't.

It's amazing that women can befriend a gay guy with no issues, yet men can't be just friends with a gay woman. It's sad.

Please don't lump all guys together like that. I have plenty of women friends, one of whom is a lesbian. It's so fucking cringe when you hear guys claim that men can't be friends with women without it being sexual on some level.

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hyperskate65
09/10/23 4:07:28 AM
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You're either 16 or a cartoonish level of creep.

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Torgo
09/10/23 4:17:02 AM
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If this is a real topic and not bored trolling...

You have to decide if you can have a platonic relationship with a woman that may have zero interest in men. If you're good with that... hang out and see if it's a cool vibe.

If you don't think you would be comfortable with it, for whatever reason... save both of you some time and don't offer to hang out.

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neccis
09/10/23 4:37:50 AM
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Fuck that

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09/10/23 5:02:21 AM
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Fluttershy
09/10/23 5:48:32 AM
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this topic is the definition of not getting the hint

no, this topic is the definition of getting the hint, parsing it, writing it down for the rest of the forum to read, and then ignoring it anyway. this is exactly why people need to ghost.

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pegusus123456
09/10/23 6:00:35 AM
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It's weird to me that nobody in this topic has pointed out the fact that TC is not going to be hooking up with a lesbian woman.

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rexcrk
09/10/23 6:05:58 AM
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Mario Wonder is out already?


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COVxy
09/10/23 6:09:06 AM
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It's not even "not getting the hint". This woman straight up told tc she wasn't interested in him. Hard to be more clear than she was. It's tc not wanting it to be true. You shouldn't have her over unless you set your expectations to "hanging out with my dudebro".

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DrizztLink
09/10/23 6:39:03 AM
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pegusus123456 posted...
It's weird to me that nobody in this topic has pointed out the fact that TC is not going to be hooking up with a lesbian woman.
We gotta start somewhere with this fuckin' fiasco.

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Master_Kazuya
09/10/23 8:02:36 AM
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Some good points worth considering here

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Dat_Cracka_Jax
09/10/23 8:06:12 AM
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How hot is she

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rexcrk
09/10/23 8:56:08 AM
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Were you setting up like a future date or something because Mario Wonder isnt out yet.

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09/10/23 5:04:03 PM
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neccis
09/10/23 6:19:33 PM
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Just dress up like a chick, reassignment surgery, change your whole mentality through meditation etc... the works, then ask her... how ya like me now? If she still says no, you know for certain she's not gonna be the one.

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neccis
09/10/23 6:22:54 PM
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GuerrillaSoldier posted...
this topic is the definition of not getting the hint
Fucking bingo. Hello lol

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