Current Events > Is 34 and 22 too big of an age gap?

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Sufferedphoneix 07/19/23 4:16:26 AM #53:	VirtuousWrath posted... Exactly, 34 and 22 are at hugely different places in life. If you're immature at 34, sure. 22 is the best age for hookups tho Yeah why I wasn't bothered dating an adult at 16. He still acted like he was my age and he did have some issues that probably caused that. When I say adult he was 20. 4 year gap. --- I put my heart and soul into my work and I fear I have lost my mind in the process <cite>Sufferedphoneix posted [p:974930517] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>VirtuousWrath posted... </cite><quote>Exactly, 34 and 22 are at hugely different places in life.If you're immature at 34, sure.22 is the best age for hookups tho</quote>Yeah why I wasn't bothered dating an adult at 16. He still acted like he was my age and he did have some issues that probably caused that. When I say adult he was 20. 4 year gap. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ai123 07/19/23 4:25:11 AM #54:	This isn't even on the boundary of illegal. So it isn't anyone else's business. --- We ain't free/We're just spilling blood in the streets. <cite>ai123 posted [p:974930573] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>This isn't even on the boundary of illegal.So it isn't anyone else's business.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Wandering__Hero 07/19/23 4:29:44 AM #56:	Is this the new Pitbull esque topic spam? --- Rip Politics board. Not that anything on there actually mattered <cite>Wandering__Hero posted [p:974930600] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>Is this the new Pitbull esque topic spam?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sufferedphoneix 07/19/23 4:33:54 AM #57:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Plot twist I came on to him first. Pains of being gay in the rural south. You kinda jump all over whoever you find. Cause most stayed In the closet at those ages --- I put my heart and soul into my work and I fear I have lost my mind in the process <cite>Sufferedphoneix posted [p:974930623] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Plot twist I came on to him first. Pains of being gay in the rural south. You kinda jump all over whoever you find. Cause most stayed In the closet at those ages</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Poorly 07/19/23 5:02:08 AM #58:	Turbam posted... Both are adults so who cares Who dares --- <cite>Poorly posted [p:974930777] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>Turbam posted... </cite><quote>Both are adults so who cares</quote>Who dares</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tremain07 07/19/23 5:18:26 AM #59:	Anything from ages 60 plus to 18 and in some places 16 = none of anyone else's business --- A worthless existence <cite>tremain07 posted [p:974930884] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>Anything from ages 60 plus to 18 and in some places 16 = none of anyone else's business </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
chaos_knight 07/19/23 5:37:34 AM #60:	tremain07 posted... Anything from ages 60 plus to 18 and in some places 16 = none of anyone else's business --- Seattle Seahawks Super Bowl XLVIII Champions <cite>chaos_knight posted [p:974931008] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>tremain07 posted... </cite><quote>Anything from ages 60 plus to 18 and in some places 16 = none of anyone else's business</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Trumble 07/19/23 5:39:17 AM #61:	tremain07 posted... Anything from ages 60 plus to 18 and in some places 16 = none of anyone else's business Even if it's legal, 16 or 17 with way older just doesn't sit right... I wouldn't think twice about, say, 20+16, but once it's much beyond that... --- See children, Trumbles are bad, and if you don't believe me ask your dad... <cite>Trumble posted [p:974931018] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>tremain07 posted... </cite><quote>Anything from ages 60 plus to 18 and in some places 16 = none of anyone else's business</quote>Even if it's legal, 16 or 17 with way older just doesn't sit right... I wouldn't think twice about, say, 20+16, but once it's much beyond that...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 07/19/23 5:46:03 AM #63:	The difference between numbers isnt the problem. The likely wildly different levels of life experience is gonna be the issue. Is it a moral issue? Probably not. Is it a good idea? Probably not. --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:974931048] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>The difference between numbers isnt the problem. The likely wildly different levels of life experience is gonna be the issue. Is it a moral issue? Probably not. Is it a good idea? Probably not. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
chaos_knight 07/19/23 5:48:48 AM #64:	pinky0926 posted... The difference between numbers isnt the problem. The likely wildly different levels of life experience is gonna be the issue. Is it a moral issue? Probably not. Is it a good idea? Probably not. What if the 40 year old is just as immature as the 20 year old? --- Seattle Seahawks Super Bowl XLVIII Champions <cite>chaos_knight posted [p:974931068] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>pinky0926 posted... </cite><quote>The difference between numbers isnt the problem. The likely wildly different levels of life experience is gonna be the issue. Is it a moral issue? Probably not. Is it a good idea? Probably not.</quote>What if the 40 year old is just as immature as the 20 year old?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 07/19/23 6:00:24 AM #65:	chaos_knight posted... What if the 40 year old is just as immature as the 20 year old? Even worse. Women aren't out here being creeped on and groomed by mature 40 year olds. --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:974931144] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>chaos_knight posted... </cite><quote>What if the 40 year old is just as immature as the 20 year old?</quote>Even worse. Women aren't out here being creeped on and groomed by mature 40 year olds. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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deoxxys 07/19/23 6:13:46 AM #67:	No Lmao what's with the age gap topics? --- twylite sprinkle http://tinyurl.com/jeqyas3 https://tinyurl.com/mgvx7h2 <cite>deoxxys posted [p:974931240] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>NoLmao what's with the age gap topics?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Raikuro 07/19/23 6:15:18 AM #68:	Sounds like a question for the 34yo and 22yo to answer for themselves <cite>Raikuro posted [p:974931248] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like a question for the 34yo and 22yo to answer for themselves</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
action52 07/19/23 6:22:26 AM #69:	chaos_knight posted... What if the 40 year old is just as immature as the 20 year old? I mentioned this in another post but I'll go into a little more depth. A 20 year old who is really the same maturity level as a 40 year old is extremely rare. Immature 40 year olds are a lot more common. So if a 40 year old has the same maturity level as a 20 year old, chances are that's because the 40 year old stopped maturing when they were about at the level of a 20 year old. So the 20 year old is going to mature normally, but the 40 year old is going to stay the same. They may start out in sync with each other but as the 20 year old matures and the 40 year old doesn't, that's going to change. And the 20 year old is going to get more and more fed up with the manchild's (or womanchild's) bullshit. --- And who are you, my little friend? Not a spoon... not a fork... but something in between. A fpoon. What will you think of next, Germany? <cite>action52 posted [p:974931307] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>chaos_knight posted... </cite><quote>What if the 40 year old is just as immature as the 20 year old?</quote>I mentioned this in another post but I'll go into a little more depth. A 20 year old who is really the same maturity level as a 40 year old is extremely rare. Immature 40 year olds are a lot more common. So if a 40 year old has the same maturity level as a 20 year old, chances are that's because the 40 year old stopped maturing when they were about at the level of a 20 year old. So the 20 year old is going to mature normally, but the 40 year old is going to stay the same. They may start out in sync with each other but as the 20 year old matures and the 40 year old doesn't, that's going to change. And the 20 year old is going to get more and more fed up with the manchild's (or womanchild's) bullshit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 07/19/23 6:23:24 AM #70:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Sure, but in the context of making swift judgment calls, I'd say it's just more likely it's too big of an age gap to work. If it was my 34 year old pal and they were asking me advice I'd be saying "dude, that's a big gap. Like, tell me she's at least graduated, has her own place, a career. If you say she's at home with mum and dad and she works part time in hospitality and the other half on OF then this is not gonna end well for you." --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:974931317] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Sure, but in the context of making swift judgment calls, I'd say it's just more likely it's too big of an age gap to work.If it was my 34 year old pal and they were asking me advice I'd be saying "dude, that's a big gap. Like, tell me she's at least graduated, has her own place, a career. If you say she's at home with mum and dad and she works part time in hospitality and the other half on OF then this is not gonna end well for you."</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HANGtheDJ_86 07/19/23 7:10:39 AM #71:	electricbugs2 posted... Lmao 34 and 22 is nothing. Try 70 and 32 like my parents. Huh, I guess that does make sense considering the whole spoiled rich and out for a wild time thing --- I feel well put <cite>HANGtheDJ_86 posted [p:974931691] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>electricbugs2 posted... </cite><quote>Lmao 34 and 22 is nothing.Try 70 and 32 like my parents.</quote>Huh, I guess that does make sense considering the whole spoiled rich and out for a wild time thing</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/19/23 7:40:32 AM #72:	action52 posted... I mentioned this in another post but I'll go into a little more depth. A 20 year old who is really the same maturity level as a 40 year old is extremely rare. Immature 40 year olds are a lot more common. So if a 40 year old has the same maturity level as a 20 year old, chances are that's because the 40 year old stopped maturing when they were about at the level of a 20 year old. So the 20 year old is going to mature normally, but the 40 year old is going to stay the same. They may start out in sync with each other but as the 20 year old matures and the 40 year old doesn't, that's going to change. And the 20 year old is going to get more and more fed up with the manchild's (or womanchild's) bullshit. Throwing something out there. It doesn't have to be maturity per se, it can simply be where one is in life. I got divorced at 40 and I had no local friends. I also had been with her since 19 and never experienced much. I started just going out to bars near my place and attending Meetups. I quickly made a lot of friends, most of whom were like 5 to 18 years younger. This also became my dating pool as well. So maybe my lifestyle was a little immature, but otherwise I was mostly mature. --- Currently playing: Final Fantasy XVI <cite>bsp77 posted [p:974931965] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>action52 posted... </cite><quote>I mentioned this in another post but I'll go into a little more depth. A 20 year old who is really the same maturity level as a 40 year old is extremely rare. Immature 40 year olds are a lot more common. So if a 40 year old has the same maturity level as a 20 year old, chances are that's because the 40 year old stopped maturing when they were about at the level of a 20 year old. So the 20 year old is going to mature normally, but the 40 year old is going to stay the same. They may start out in sync with each other but as the 20 year old matures and the 40 year old doesn't, that's going to change. And the 20 year old is going to get more and more fed up with the manchild's (or womanchild's) bullshit.</quote>Throwing something out there. It doesn't have to be maturity per se, it can simply be where one is in life. I got divorced at 40 and I had no local friends. I also had been with her since 19 and never experienced much. I started just going out to bars near my place and attending Meetups. I quickly made a lot of friends, most of whom were like 5 to 18 years younger. This also became my dating pool as well. So maybe my lifestyle was a little immature, but otherwise I was mostly mature.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lobinde 07/19/23 7:48:09 AM #73:	Both are adults so no it's fine. Screw this recent social media attitude of anyone under 25 still being considered to be effectively a child. Shit's literally a psy-op from Xer/boomer politicians to deny young adults autonomy and independence. <cite>Lobinde posted [p:974932034] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>Both are adults so no it's fine.Screw this recent social media attitude of anyone under 25 still being considered to be effectively a child. Shit's literally a psy-op from Xer/boomer politicians to deny young adults autonomy and independence.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wandering__Hero 07/19/23 7:48:56 AM #74:	Lobinde posted... Both are adults so no it's fine. Screw this recent social media attitude of anyone under 25 still being considered to be effectively a child. Shit's literally a psy-op from Xer/boomer politicians to deny young adults autonomy and independence. To be fair a lot of 25 year olds on tumblr and twitter are mentally children. Mostly the ones who think very highly of themselves --- Rip Politics board. Not that anything on there actually mattered <cite>Wandering__Hero posted [p:974932039] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>Lobinde posted... </cite><quote>Both are adults so no it's fine.Screw this recent social media attitude of anyone under 25 still being considered to be effectively a child. Shit's literally a psy-op from Xer/boomer politicians to deny young adults autonomy and independence.</quote>To be fair a lot of 25 year olds on tumblr and twitter are mentally children. Mostly the ones who think very highly of themselves</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lobinde 07/19/23 7:50:28 AM #75:	Wandering__Hero posted... To be fair a lot of 25 year olds on tumblr and twitter are mentally children. Mostly the ones who think very highly of themselves Yeah true, but I like to think those terminally online people are the exception rather than the norm. They basically assume everyone else in their 20's is just as immature as they are. <cite>Lobinde posted [p:974932057] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>Wandering__Hero posted... </cite><quote>To be fair a lot of 25 year olds on tumblr and twitter are mentally children. Mostly the ones who think very highly of themselves</quote>Yeah true, but I like to think those terminally online people are the exception rather than the norm. They basically assume everyone else in their 20's is just as immature as they are. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vegy 07/19/23 7:52:36 AM #76:	Anything after 18 is good i think --- http://i.imgur.com/gt58G1y.gif http://i.imgur.com/Kdvuckz.png http://i.imgur.com/SYqReLE.gif https://i.imgur.com/MbgGQWx.jpg <cite>Vegy posted [p:974932072] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>Anything after 18 is good i think</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wandering__Hero 07/19/23 7:55:29 AM #77:	WHat was the name of that account? MyBirthright? Someone @ him or an alt into this thread I think it could use some spice --- Rip Politics board. Not that anything on there actually mattered <cite>Wandering__Hero posted [p:974932095] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>WHat was the name of that account? MyBirthright? Someone @ him or an alt into this thread I think it could use some spice</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Admiral_Zero 07/22/23 1:49:00 AM #78:	KainWind posted... There are guys on NBA teams at those ages and they seem fine I remember when Vince Carter was older than Trae Youngs dad. --- [[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[[ \|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\| ]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]] <cite>Admiral_Zero posted [p:974992507] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>KainWind posted... </cite><quote>There are guys on NBA teams at those ages and they seem fine</quote>I remember when Vince Carter was older than Trae Youngs dad. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pfh1001 07/22/23 3:40:37 AM #79:	BunkerBoy posted... No, you're both adults <cite>pfh1001 posted [p:974993408] in Is 34 and ... [t:80512567]...</cite> <quote>BunkerBoy posted...</cite><quote>No, you're both adults </quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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