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BignutzisBack
05/26/23 6:31:29 PM
#1:


Call me a stupid dumbass, I deserve it

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Kurt_Russel
05/26/23 6:32:31 PM
#2:


Well, stop

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apocalyptic_4
05/26/23 6:33:55 PM
#3:


Been there done that.

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R1masher
05/26/23 6:37:38 PM
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You should probably tell them or maybe them and their spouse

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the_final_bahamut
05/26/23 6:37:41 PM
#5:


You're a stupid dumbass. Respect your coworkers.

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FolkenRawr
05/26/23 6:38:23 PM
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You're a stupid dumbass.

But for real, it happens. Just don't be a real C U Next Tuesday and act on it.

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Jiek_Fafn
05/26/23 6:39:11 PM
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Tell her your feelings. Embarrass yourself beyond salvation

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GeraldDarko
05/26/23 6:41:22 PM
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FolkenRawr posted...
You're a stupid dumbass.

Might want to change that last part. CE has people that mark just to get people in trouble.

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BignutzisBack
05/26/23 6:50:25 PM
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R1masher posted...
You should probably tell them or maybe them and their spouse

I've never met her husband and she never brings him up at all despite us always talking about weekend plans/life in general, I don't think she's ever even mentioned his first name now that I think about it. We sit just a few feet apart and have to work closely together. It's progressed to borderline flirting both ways over Teams chat and she has been bringing me candy lately.

DUMBASS

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Kombucha
05/26/23 7:13:47 PM
#11:


someone is a salty banana

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Dat_Cracka_Jax
05/26/23 7:16:02 PM
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Cut off all contact except business communications IMMEDIATELY and without explanation

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BignutzisBack
05/26/23 7:23:59 PM
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Kombucha posted...
someone is a salty banana

I'm calling myself a dumbass brotato chip

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BignutzisBack
05/26/23 7:24:12 PM
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Dat_Cracka_Jax posted...
Cut off all contact except business communications IMMEDIATELY and without explanation

But then I won't get any more cake pops

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the_final_bahamut
05/26/23 7:26:09 PM
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BignutzisBack posted...
But then I won't get any more cake pops

If you're going to pursue it, at least, communicate like an responsible adult. Like, find out if her marriage is open or not, and if it isn't, ask yourself if you really want to get involved with someone who cheats on their SO. It's about self-respect.

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BignutzisBack
05/26/23 7:27:15 PM
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the_final_bahamut posted...
If you're going to pursue it, at least, communicate like an responsible adult. Like, find out if her marriage is open or not, and if it isn't, ask yourself if you really want to get involved with someone who cheats on their SO. It's about self-respect.

I have to tone it down, I don't want to be the guy that sleeps with a married woman. It's just hard because she is initiating conversation a lot


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Dat_Cracka_Jax
05/26/23 7:27:50 PM
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BignutzisBack posted...
But then I won't get any more cake pops
You might get even more

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the_final_bahamut
05/26/23 7:36:52 PM
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BignutzisBack posted...
I have to tone it down, I don't want to be the guy that sleeps with a married woman. It's just hard because she is initiating conversation a lot

Well, then let her know you're not interested and be prepared for things to get colder. I messed up and got kind of flirtatious with a co-worker I didn't want to get romantically involved with at one point. I usually keep things professional, but she was fun. Things get more and more blatant and it starts becoming clear that this wasn't just a workplace joke-flirt. Then at one point we're sitting alone together working on stuff and she's like "I really love it when we work together" and I'm like "I always enjoy working with good colleagues." and she spins my chair, looks me straight in the eyes and go "No, I mean I really *love* working with *you*." and I go "I like *working* with all my good *colleagues*" turn around and just focus on work. She didn't say anything more than strictly what was necessary for work for like... half a year? Something like that. Thems the breaks.

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mybbqrules
05/26/23 8:24:55 PM
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BignutzisBack posted...
I have to tone it down, I don't want to be the guy that sleeps with a married woman. It's just hard because she is initiating conversation a lot
Then steer the conversation away from flirtatious stuff and keep it PG.

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Heavy_D_Forever
05/26/23 8:32:50 PM
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If you are single and she wants to bang you then you got nothing to lose. Don't go catching feelings tho, that won't end well.

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CSCA33
05/26/23 8:33:57 PM
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Shouldnt there be, like, a Christmas ghost or something to warn about this stuff?

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TaylorHeinicke
05/26/23 8:54:50 PM
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Nothings going to happen so you might as well post pics

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AloneIBreak
05/26/23 9:12:51 PM
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Hows her feet?

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DCinGA
05/27/23 6:43:34 AM
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It's a psychological phenomenon called the proximity effect, TC. She'd be a 5 or 6 if you didn't know her.

It's also called an emotional affair. You should back off unless you enjoy a poisonous workplace.
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ai123
05/27/23 6:49:16 AM
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The heart wants what the heart wants.


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Ushiromiya
05/27/23 6:50:24 AM
#26:


Kurt_Russel posted...
Well, stop


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