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ZannoL 04/05/23 12:50:30 PM #1:	Your partner, who you've been dating for three years, breaks down and admits to you that they blew another person while in a relationship with you. Would you dump them? Yes, I would dump them No, I would not dump them Other (explain) Your partner, who you've been dating for three years, breaks down and admits to you that they blew another person while in a relationship with you. Would you dump them? - Results (184 votes) Yes, I would dump them 87.5% (161 votes) 161 No, I would not dump them 11.41% (21 votes) 21 Other (explain) 1.09% (2 votes) 2 Vote and discuss. <cite>ZannoL posted [p:972654082] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote> Your partner, who you've been dating for three years, breaks down and admits to you that they blew another person while in a relationship with you. Would you dump them? Yes, I would dump them No, I would not dump them Other (explain) Vote View Results Your partner, who you've been dating for three years, breaks down and admits to you that they blew another person while in a relationship with you. Would you dump them? - Results (184 votes) Yes, I would dump them 87.5% (161 votes) 161 No, I would not dump them 11.41% (21 votes) 21 Other (explain) 1.09% (2 votes) 2 Show Voting Form function poll_vote() { var vote_option = $("input[name='poll_vote']:checked").val(); if(!vote_option) return; $.ajax({ type: 'POST', url: '/ajax/forum_poll_vote', data: { option: vote_option, board: '400', topic: '80403067', message: '0', key: 'ecb22760' }, success: function(response) { if(response.error) { alert(response.error); } else { $("#poll_vote").hide(); $("#poll_results").html(response.html).show(); } } }); } function view_results_legacy() { $("#poll_vote").hide(); $("#poll_results").show(); } function hide_results_legacy() { $("#poll_results").hide(); $("#poll_vote").show(); } Vote and discuss. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Master_Bass 04/05/23 12:51:55 PM #3:	Bye. --- Many Bothans died to bring you this post. <cite>Master_Bass posted [p:972654109] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Bye. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jagr_68 04/05/23 12:52:24 PM #4:	37?! --- New York Rangers [2004-2008] https://media.giphy.com/media/WvQHBYW0q4TuxdAg61/giphy.gif https://psnprofiles.com/Jaromiroquai68 <cite>Jagr_68 posted [p:972654124] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>37?!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeonTentacles 04/05/23 12:52:27 PM #5:	Yep https://youtu.be/Kbx7m2qVVA0 --- https://imgur.com/aMaI3hj https://imgur.com/7PsdJNc https://imgur.com/eK8vZVn https://imgur.com/u2HR4nG https://imgur.com/nQGM5cZ <cite>NeonTentacles posted [p:972654125] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Yephttps://youtu.be/Kbx7m2qVVA0</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bigblu89 04/05/23 12:53:43 PM #6:	Jagr_68 posted... 37?! I'M 37!!! --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:972654147] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Jagr_68 posted... </cite><quote>37?!</quote>I'M 37!!!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
blackrider76 04/05/23 12:54:02 PM #7:	Jagr_68 posted... 37?! In a row? --- Preparation is the last refuge of the weak <cite>blackrider76 posted [p:972654155] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Jagr_68 posted... </cite><quote>37?!</quote>In a row?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NoxObscuras 04/05/23 12:54:29 PM #8:	I would be thankful that she came clean, but cheating is a deal breaker for me. So yeah, I'd be done no matter how much she begs or apologizes. If she didn't want to get dumped, then she should have had better self control --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 \| i9-10900K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 3600 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:972654162] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>I would be thankful that she came clean, but cheating is a deal breaker for me. So yeah, I'd be done no matter how much she begs or apologizes. If she didn't want to get dumped, then she should have had better self control</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 04/05/23 12:55:29 PM #9:	At what point in our dating? Cause I probably have cold feet the first few months too. I wouldn't cheat over it, but Im not that sexually driven. I feel like if you're 3 years in and they only cheated in the first couple months and never again, you're kind of childish for not thinking any further into it. Don't @ me @jeffhardyb0yz --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:972654180] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>At what point in our dating? Cause I probably have cold feet the first few months too. I wouldn't cheat over it, but Im not that sexually driven. I feel like if you're 3 years in and they only cheated in the first couple months and never again, you're kind of childish for not thinking any further into it. Don't @ me @jeffhardyb0yz</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dat_Cracka_Jax 04/05/23 1:13:10 PM #10:	Did she swallow --- http://img826.imageshack.us/img826/8131/flame201010170949481638.jpg http://img705.imageshack.us/img705/5517/cateyes.gif Rams: 7-9 <cite>Dat_Cracka_Jax posted [p:972654498] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Did she swallow</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NoxObscuras 04/05/23 1:37:18 PM #11:	Lost_All_Senses posted... At what point in our dating? Cause I probably have cold feet the first few months too. I wouldn't cheat over it, but Im not that sexually driven. I feel like if you're 3 years in and they only cheated in the first couple months and never again, you're kind of childish for not thinking any further into it. Don't @ me @jeffhardyb0yz I'm not Jeff, so... @Lost_All_Senses Speaking as someone that has been cheated on before, that breach of trust is hard to come back from. My ex cheated on me and eventually felt bad enough to tell me about it. I tried to move on from it (we had a kid together), but from that point on, it was very hard to trust her. Like sure, she tells me that she won't do it again, but how do I trust that? She already hid the truth from me before, so what was to stop her from doing so again? And sure enough, even though she swore up and down that nothing sexual was happening, she was secretly still hanging out with the friend that she cheated on me with. And that time I only found out because she had a car accident on her way to take him home. So nah, not worth giving the benefit of the doubt. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 \| i9-10900K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 3600 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:972654960] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite><quote>At what point in our dating? Cause I probably have cold feet the first few months too. I wouldn't cheat over it, but Im not that sexually driven. I feel like if you're 3 years in and they only cheated in the first couple months and never again, you're kind of childish for not thinking any further into it. Don't @ me @jeffhardyb0yz</quote>I'm not Jeff, so... @Lost_All_Senses Speaking as someone that has been cheated on before, that breach of trust is hard to come back from. My ex cheated on me and eventually felt bad enough to tell me about it. I tried to move on from it (we had a kid together), but from that point on, it was very hard to trust her. Like sure, she tells me that she won't do it again, but how do I trust that? She already hid the truth from me before, so what was to stop her from doing so again? And sure enough, even though she swore up and down that nothing sexual was happening, she was secretly still hanging out with the friend that she cheated on me with. And that time I only found out because she had a car accident on her way to take him home.So nah, not worth giving the benefit of the doubt. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArsGoetia 04/05/23 1:39:31 PM #13:	no i dont care <cite>ArsGoetia posted [p:972654998] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>no i dont care </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 04/05/23 1:45:05 PM #14:	NoxObscuras posted... I'm not Jeff, so... @Lost_All_Senses Speaking as someone that has been cheated on before, that breach of trust is hard to come back from. My ex cheated on me and eventually felt bad enough to tell me about it. I tried to move on from it (we had a kid together), but from that point on, it was very hard to trust her. Like sure, she tells me that she won't do it again, but how do I trust that? She already hid the truth from me before, so what was to stop her from doing so again? And sure enough, even though she swore up and down that nothing sexual was happening, she was secretly still hanging out with the friend that she cheated on me with. And that time I only found out because she had a car accident on her way to take him home. So nah, not worth giving the benefit of the doubt. It's fair to have experiences and not take additional emotional risks based off those personal experiences. But you just added a whole lot of extra onto what I said I was fine with lol. I went out my way to be specific about the only in the first few months thing. And the still hanging out thing is a whole other thing. To me, I don't think anyone should feel entitled to 100% of the other person in the first few months. Unless you had a long friendship before and this had been building up to a relationship all along. So, if during that period where we still didn't really know each, you got cold feet one day and did something regrettable, Im not gonna judge the version of you 3 years into a relationship by it and only it. --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:972655095] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>NoxObscuras posted... </cite><quote>I'm not Jeff, so... @Lost_All_Senses Speaking as someone that has been cheated on before, that breach of trust is hard to come back from. My ex cheated on me and eventually felt bad enough to tell me about it. I tried to move on from it (we had a kid together), but from that point on, it was very hard to trust her. Like sure, she tells me that she won't do it again, but how do I trust that? She already hid the truth from me before, so what was to stop her from doing so again? And sure enough, even though she swore up and down that nothing sexual was happening, she was secretly still hanging out with the friend that she cheated on me with. And that time I only found out because she had a car accident on her way to take him home.So nah, not worth giving the benefit of the doubt.</quote>It's fair to have experiences and not take additional emotional risks based off those personal experiences. But you just added a whole lot of extra onto what I said I was fine with lol. I went out my way to be specific about the only in the first few months thing. And the still hanging out thing is a whole other thing. To me, I don't think anyone should feel entitled to 100% of the other person in the first few months. Unless you had a long friendship before and this had been building up to a relationship all along. So, if during that period where we still didn't really know each, you got cold feet one day and did something regrettable, Im not gonna judge the version of you 3 years into a relationship by it and only it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12 04/05/23 1:45:23 PM #15:	Context and details matter a lot, here. When, who, why, etc. But probably 95% of cases that's an instant 'fuck off, it's over' --- (He/Him) I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:972655103] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Context and details matter a lot, here. When, who, why, etc. But probably 95% of cases that's an instant 'fuck off, it's over'</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NoxObscuras 04/05/23 2:09:48 PM #16:	Lost_All_Senses posted... It's fair to have experiences and not take additional emotional risks based off those personal experiences. But you just added a whole lot of extra onto what I said I was fine with lol. I went out my way to be specific about the only in the first few months thing. And the still hanging out thing is a whole other thing. To me, I don't think anyone should feel entitled to 100% of the other person in the first few months. Unless you had a long friendship before and this had been building up to a relationship all along. So, if during that period where we still didn't really know each, you got cold feet one day and did something regrettable, Im not gonna judge the version of you 3 years into a relationship by it and only it. I guess I should have clarified there. I mean that, because I've been cheated on in the past, I have zero tolerance for it now. So it doesn't matter if it happened early on. Once I find out about it, the trust is gone and I'm gone. I was just being overly descriptive of my past experience. And I feel that you should be entitled to the other person once you both agree to be exclusive. Like, my girlfriend (not my ex) and I agreed to be exclusive around 2 months into dating. Before that it wouldn't have been considering cheating, but anything after that point would 100% be a deal breaker for me. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 \| i9-10900K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 3600 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:972655537] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite><quote>It's fair to have experiences and not take additional emotional risks based off those personal experiences. But you just added a whole lot of extra onto what I said I was fine with lol. I went out my way to be specific about the only in the first few months thing. And the still hanging out thing is a whole other thing. To me, I don't think anyone should feel entitled to 100% of the other person in the first few months. Unless you had a long friendship before and this had been building up to a relationship all along. So, if during that period where we still didn't really know each, you got cold feet one day and did something regrettable, Im not gonna judge the version of you 3 years into a relationship by it and only it.</quote>I guess I should have clarified there. I mean that, because I've been cheated on in the past, I have zero tolerance for it now. So it doesn't matter if it happened early on. Once I find out about it, the trust is gone and I'm gone. I was just being overly descriptive of my past experience.And I feel that you should be entitled to the other person once you both agree to be exclusive. Like, my girlfriend (not my ex) and I agreed to be exclusive around 2 months into dating. Before that it wouldn't have been considering cheating, but anything after that point would 100% be a deal breaker for me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lairen 04/05/23 2:11:25 PM #18:	So your partner cheated. Simple problems, simple solutions. --- When it rains, it pours. <cite>Lairen posted [p:972655573] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>So your partner cheated. Simple problems, simple solutions.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
voldothegr8 04/05/23 2:15:32 PM #19:	How hot is she? --- Oda break tracker 2022- 13 (3) \| THE Ohio State:11-1 \| Las Vegas Raiders: 6-9 <cite>voldothegr8 posted [p:972655645] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>How hot is she?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ZannoL 04/05/23 2:23:19 PM #20:	voldothegr8 posted... How hot is she? Moderately hot. <cite>ZannoL posted [p:972655837] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>voldothegr8 posted... </cite><quote>How hot is she?</quote>Moderately hot. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bigblu89 04/05/23 2:24:59 PM #21:	Gobstoppers12 posted... Context and details matter a lot, here. When, who, why, etc. But probably 95% of cases that's an instant 'fuck off, it's over' I'd like to know the circumstances of the other 5% that would make it ok. --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:972655875] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Gobstoppers12 posted... </cite><quote>Context and details matter a lot, here. When, who, why, etc. But probably 95% of cases that's an instant 'fuck off, it's over'</quote>I'd like to know the circumstances of the other 5% that would make it ok.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
K181 04/05/23 2:30:15 PM #22:	Adios. Jagr_68 posted... 37?! blackrider76 posted... In a row? Solid. --- Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less. <cite>K181 posted [p:972655985] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Adios.Jagr_68 posted... </cite><quote>37?!</quote>blackrider76 posted... </cite><quote>In a row?</quote>Solid.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kage_53 04/05/23 2:32:20 PM #23:	ToteAll posted... Cool now I get to do it. <cite>kage_53 posted [p:972656020] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>ToteAll posted... </cite><quote>Cool now I get to do it.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Gobstoppers12 04/05/23 2:43:57 PM #25:	bigblu89 posted... I'd like to know the circumstances of the other 5% that would make it ok. If it happened very early in the relationship, mostly. Coupled with a lot of remorse and reassurance. Like a lot. I probably should have said 99.9% though, to be honest. --- (He/Him) I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:972656253] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>bigblu89 posted... </cite><quote>I'd like to know the circumstances of the other 5% that would make it ok.</quote>If it happened very early in the relationship, mostly. Coupled with a lot of remorse and reassurance. Like a lot. I probably should have said 99.9% though, to be honest. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MICHALECOLE 04/05/23 2:46:55 PM #26:	My girlfriend and I are polyamorous <cite>MICHALECOLE posted [p:972656307] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>My girlfriend and I are polyamorous </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem-man 04/05/23 2:49:57 PM #27:	Lost_All_Senses posted... At what point in our dating? Cause I probably have cold feet the first few months too. I wouldn't cheat over it, but Im not that sexually driven. I feel like if you're 3 years in and they only cheated in the first couple months and never again, you're kind of childish for not thinking any further into it. I've noticed that questions about cheating don't impact me with the same force it does others. But I fully understand why it's such a hurtful thing for others. But I kinda agree with you. If we're 3 years in, and it happened like in the first month of it us making it clear that we were in a monogamous relationship, I'd probably shrug it off. At least, I imagine I would. --- http://avatar.xboxlive.com/avatar/emblem%20boy/avatar-body.png haters gonna hate <cite>emblem-man posted [p:972656365] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite><quote>At what point in our dating? Cause I probably have cold feet the first few months too. I wouldn't cheat over it, but Im not that sexually driven. I feel like if you're 3 years in and they only cheated in the first couple months and never again, you're kind of childish for not thinking any further into it. </quote>I've noticed that questions about cheating don't impact me with the same force it does others. But I fully understand why it's such a hurtful thing for others. But I kinda agree with you. If we're 3 years in, and it happened like in the first month of it us making it clear that we were in a monogamous relationship, I'd probably shrug it off. At least, I imagine I would. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
A_Good_Boy 04/05/23 2:50:04 PM #28:	MICHALECOLE posted... My girlfriend and I are polyamorous Doesn't that only work with communication? If she was sleeping with someone, didn't tell you, and tried to keep it a secret that she was lying about would that be a game changer? --- Who is? I am! <cite>A_Good_Boy posted [p:972656371] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>MICHALECOLE posted... </cite><quote>My girlfriend and I are polyamorous</quote>Doesn't that only work with communication? If she was sleeping with someone, didn't tell you, and tried to keep it a secret that she was lying about would that be a game changer? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MICHALECOLE 04/05/23 2:59:48 PM #29:	Doesn't that only work with communication? If she was sleeping with someone, didn't tell you, and tried to keep it a secret that she was lying about would that be a game changer? yes and no shes honestly mainly just into girls, so her being with another guy would be a shock in the first place, but things happen and we both live pretty crazy lives sometimes. sex really isnt that big of a deal for us <cite>MICHALECOLE posted [p:972656555] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote><quote>Doesn't that only work with communication? If she was sleeping with someone, didn't tell you, and tried to keep it a secret that she was lying about would that be a game changer? </quote>yes and no shes honestly mainly just into girls, so her being with another guy would be a shock in the first place, but things happen and we both live pretty crazy lives sometimes. sex really isnt that big of a deal for us </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 04/05/23 3:08:34 PM #30:	NoxObscuras posted... I guess I should have clarified there. I mean that, because I've been cheated on in the past, I have zero tolerance for it now. So it doesn't matter if it happened early on. Once I find out about it, the trust is gone and I'm gone. I was just being overly descriptive of my past experience. And I feel that you should be entitled to the other person once you both agree to be exclusive. Like, my girlfriend (not my ex) and I agreed to be exclusive around 2 months into dating. Before that it wouldn't have been considering cheating, but anything after that point would 100% be a deal breaker for me. I have no qualms with you settong your own standards. I 100% support you. Especially since you gave reason to have a paranoia from your past. Even if she never cheated on you again, you're better off leaving if the trust is broken over it. emblem-man posted... I've noticed that questions about cheating don't impact me with the same force it does others. But I fully understand why it's such a hurtful thing for others. But I kinda agree with you. If we're 3 years in, and it happened like in the first month of it us making it clear that we were in a monogamous relationship, I'd probably shrug it off. At least, I imagine I would. Yeah. And I don't see why she'd admit it if she still was considering cheating again to any extent. Unless her manipulation tactics are just that deep lol --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:972656715] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>NoxObscuras posted... </cite><quote>I guess I should have clarified there. I mean that, because I've been cheated on in the past, I have zero tolerance for it now. So it doesn't matter if it happened early on. Once I find out about it, the trust is gone and I'm gone. I was just being overly descriptive of my past experience.And I feel that you should be entitled to the other person once you both agree to be exclusive. Like, my girlfriend (not my ex) and I agreed to be exclusive around 2 months into dating. Before that it wouldn't have been considering cheating, but anything after that point would 100% be a deal breaker for me.</quote>I have no qualms with you settong your own standards. I 100% support you. Especially since you gave reason to have a paranoia from your past. Even if she never cheated on you again, you're better off leaving if the trust is broken over it.emblem-man posted... </cite><quote>I've noticed that questions about cheating don't impact me with the same force it does others. But I fully understand why it's such a hurtful thing for others. But I kinda agree with you. If we're 3 years in, and it happened like in the first month of it us making it clear that we were in a monogamous relationship, I'd probably shrug it off. At least, I imagine I would.</quote>Yeah. And I don't see why she'd admit it if she still was considering cheating again to any extent. Unless her manipulation tactics are just that deep lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NoxObscuras 04/05/23 3:34:12 PM #31:	Lost_All_Senses posted... I have no qualms with you settong your own standards. I 100% support you. Especially since you gave reason to have a paranoia from your past. Even if she never cheated on you again, you're better off leaving if the trust is broken over it. And I have no qualms with your standards (although I do disagree with you about it being childish), nor am I attempting to change your mind. Just getting a conversation going, because I want to see it from other's point of view. Yeah. And I don't see why she'd admit it if she still was considering cheating again to any extent. Unless her manipulation tactics are just that deep lol But this part gives me more insight into your reasoning. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 \| i9-10900K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 3600 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:972657182] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite><quote>I have no qualms with you settong your own standards. I 100% support you. Especially since you gave reason to have a paranoia from your past. Even if she never cheated on you again, you're better off leaving if the trust is broken over it.</quote>And I have no qualms with your standards (although I do disagree with you about it being childish), nor am I attempting to change your mind. Just getting a conversation going, because I want to see it from other's point of view. <quote>Yeah. And I don't see why she'd admit it if she still was considering cheating again to any extent. Unless her manipulation tactics are just that deep lol</quote>But this part gives me more insight into your reasoning.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
garan 04/05/23 3:38:35 PM #32:	Cheaters are scum and that bitch would immediately be dead to me. <cite>garan posted [p:972657254] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Cheaters are scum and that bitch would immediately be dead to me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 04/05/23 3:46:24 PM #33:	NoxObscuras posted... (although I do disagree with you about it being childish), That's fair. I can accept that addition as childish in itself. Sometimes I distract from everything I said before by taking a jab at everyone at the end lol. Work in progress. It's usually when someone else did the same first. Not that that's a good reason, but it is a reason. --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:972657377] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>NoxObscuras posted... </cite><quote>(although I do disagree with you about it being childish),</quote>That's fair. I can accept that addition as childish in itself. Sometimes I distract from everything I said before by taking a jab at everyone at the end lol. Work in progress. It's usually when someone else did the same first. Not that that's a good reason, but it is a reason. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flauros 04/05/23 3:47:58 PM #34:	Sorry thottie, im not a cuck. --- https://i.imgur.com/EX6Md7k.gif https://i.imgur.com/ygAzHKB.mp4 https://i.imgur.com/c84omp7.gif https://i.imgur.com/Hj9RrC6.mp4 <cite>Flauros posted [p:972657407] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Sorry thottie, im not a cuck.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BakonBitz 04/05/23 3:53:53 PM #35:	Yep. It's an immediate trust breaker for me. It's not healthy to have "what if she's cheating on me again" in the back of your mind constantly, even if she apologizes profusely about the first time. It would be healthier for both parties to just break things off. --- Game collection: http://www.backloggery.com/bakonbitz Gaming channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwVQm69J7bGScbv3_50C0dA <cite>BakonBitz posted [p:972657488] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Yep. It's an immediate trust breaker for me. It's not healthy to have "what if she's cheating on me again" in the back of your mind constantly, even if she apologizes profusely about the first time.It would be healthier for both parties to just break things off.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Oreos74 04/05/23 3:58:10 PM #36:	Id ask her to send me a video next time --- http://i.imgur.com/e9OCH.jpg http://i.imgur.com/RnA9A.gif Not an alt. <cite>Oreos74 posted [p:972657556] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Id ask her to send me a video next time </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheMikh 04/05/23 3:59:35 PM #37:	as a man who strictly abides by the graham rule when i'm in relationships, a SO that doesn't do the same is not a match for me, and so cheating is beyond crossing the line - i'd end it i also intentionally encourage my SOs to be unapologetically themselves and don't make the lines known in order to encourage full transparency --- http://i.imgur.com/A0TAfek.png <cite>TheMikh posted [p:972657577] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>as a man who strictly abides by the graham rule when i'm in relationships, a SO that doesn't do the same is not a match for me, and so cheating is beyond crossing the line - i'd end iti also intentionally encourage my SOs to be unapologetically themselves and don't make the lines known in order to encourage full transparency</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bigblu89 04/05/23 4:43:15 PM #39:	Gobstoppers12 posted... If it happened very early in the relationship, mostly. Coupled with a lot of remorse and reassurance. Like a lot. I probably should have said 99.9% though, to be honest. Dunno man. Once you establish the relationship is exclusive, there's no level of remorse and reassurance for me. --- It takes zero effort to be a good person. <cite>bigblu89 posted [p:972658408] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Gobstoppers12 posted... </cite><quote>If it happened very early in the relationship, mostly. Coupled with a lot of remorse and reassurance. Like a lot. I probably should have said 99.9% though, to be honest.</quote>Dunno man. Once you establish the relationship is exclusive, there's no level of remorse and reassurance for me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mistere_Man 04/05/23 4:44:34 PM #40:	Gobstoppers12 posted... Context and details matter a lot, here. When, who, why, etc. But probably 95% of cases that's an instant 'fuck off, it's over' This --- Water+Fall=Radiation. <cite>Mistere_Man posted [p:972658430] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Gobstoppers12 posted... </cite><quote>Context and details matter a lot, here. When, who, why, etc. But probably 95% of cases that's an instant 'fuck off, it's over'</quote>This</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 04/05/23 4:44:57 PM #41:	hot i'll ask her to film it next time --- https://i.imgur.com/286sD4e.png http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:972658437] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>hoti'll ask her to film it next time</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Unknown5uspect 04/05/23 4:56:26 PM #42:	Break it off because they didn't invite me. --- #EatTheRich <cite>Unknown5uspect posted [p:972658666] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Break it off because they didn't invite me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PokemonExpert44 04/05/23 4:59:08 PM #43:	I'd go down --- I just might 6-0 you in Pokemon. Watch out for my awesome teams. <cite>PokemonExpert44 posted [p:972658721] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>I'd go down</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ZannoL 04/05/23 6:36:52 PM #44:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Same. <cite>ZannoL posted [p:972660466] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Same.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NatsuSama 04/05/23 6:40:52 PM #46:	https://youtu.be/Kbx7m2qVVA0 --- WAAAH, I CAN'T BEAT THIS GUY WITH HIS TACTICS, I'M GONNA CALL IT SPAM AND CONDEMN HIM FOR USING IT <cite>NatsuSama posted [p:972660528] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>https://youtu.be/Kbx7m2qVVA0</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pogo_Marimo 04/05/23 6:43:45 PM #47:	Well, considering we're in an open relationship, I would probably ask how bad it was if she's breaking down in tears. --- 'Cause you know that I have no fear, ain't gonna walk into the river and disappear. I'm gonna be a powerful man. Red blood running down the broken sand. <cite>Pogo_Marimo posted [p:972660583] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Well, considering we're in an open relationship, I would probably ask how bad it was if she's breaking down in tears.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hoodroar 04/05/23 6:45:47 PM #48:	If it was a woman idc, but man is instant break-up. >_> --- sigless user logic <cite>Hoodroar posted [p:972660633] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>If it was a woman idc, but man is instant break-up. >_></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dakimakura 04/05/23 6:47:39 PM #49:	Damn, first I got a partner I didn't know about and it turns out they are going down on other people? Life be tough man. --- "Let the bears pay the bear tax I pay the Homer tax." - Bart Simpson <cite>Dakimakura posted [p:972660675] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Damn, first I got a partner I didn't know about and it turns out they are going down on other people? Life be tough man.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pfh1001 04/06/23 12:38:53 AM #50:	Trust destroyed by cheater, relationship over. <cite>pfh1001 posted [p:972667355] in Your partn... [t:80403067]...</cite> <quote>Trust destroyed by cheater, relationship over.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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