Current Events > I think I'm going to last minute cancel a date I was supposed to have

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FelineCyborg posted...

if I had a partner who said "hey I'm not your therapist" everytime I wanted to vent about something or was going through something that relationship wouldn't last long.

It's not a partner. It's a first date and the date spent kept venting about someone else every 30 seconds. Use common sense.

FelineCyborg posted...

if I had a partner who said "hey I'm not your therapist" everytime I wanted to vent about something or was going through something that relationship wouldn't last long.

bruh this is a first fucking date

Swagger_Dagger posted...

It's not a partner. It's a first date and the date spent kept venting about someone else every 30 seconds. Use common sense.

I understand. I just personally have a really high tolerance for emotional stuff like that I wouldn't even have viewed it as troubling or time wasting. I relate to things like that. even if it went nowhere I'd be able to distract her for the night and in the future it might develop. maybe she'd be like "wow thanks for being patient with me that really helped." I know everybody isn't me and I don't slight TC , I just think his thought process is totally different than what I would've done. making people feel better about shit fulfills me, it doesn't frustrate me. maybe I should be a therapist.

A_Good_Boy posted...

I'm married with kids actually.

Sure you are and I'm the king of America

"Hey babe, I know we have a date - but I'm a child. Sorry, I'll have to cancel. You understand."

BigMeatyClaws posted...

I went on the date and really shouldn't have. Started normal until I asked how her experience with the app was. She said she's met a bunch of duds and then began mentioning her ex and kept coming back to her ex like every 30 seconds. She didn't even mention that he died, just kept mentioning him like he was a past lover. Everytime I tried to deflect to other subjects, she'd just, stop and stare into space, lost and detached each time. Once I realized there was no getting through to this girl, I politely told her that I needed to go. That flipped this switch where she came back to reality and didn't want me to leave. She asked if i wanted to come over. I said no and was on my way and that was it.

I don't know why I didn't cancel the date. It was just her not even close to getting over this and using me as a sponge to talk about it. She never mentioned that he died or anything and I didn't bother to ask more about it because that would be dumb. It still made me feel bad to just sit there and watch someone pretty much uninterested in getting to know you and wanting you to just sit there and listen to them talk about someone else.

Messed up from her. Seems likely she was pushed toward dating again by friends/family

But you could have gotten laid as long as you didn't mind being called his name