Current Events > Say my friend hypothetically impregnated a woman he was with casually.

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lol

My friend actually has a family friend who specializes in this field so he'll try to meet with them this coming week.

This is weird logic. Having a kid is a much bigger choice than that or should be. This is why we cant have nice things.

Not knocking her but it seems really utilitarian of Well this works out well on my spreadsheet instead of actually wanting a child.

I say this mostly cause in this situation it was a fluke happenstance and just going O well, lets do this is weird to me.

Wait are you supposed to be the friend or the family friend, or are you just a friend of the friend?

Both parents in the childs life, maximizing the kids ability to thrive and grow with peace of mind.

Why are you having unprotected sex someone you couldnt possibly stand being with?

Who was #16?

Well, since I can't see it either and the only people who block me are butthurt MAGA types, I'm guessing a butthurt MAGA type.

You laugh but we have a massive issue of unwed mothers suffering from men who knock them up and go about their business. The effects of all these guys failing to uphold their responsibility is currently snowballing and causing more and more societal problems than people realize.

It's a guarantee that the government is going to step in and start holding people accountable and it won't be pretty.

This is weird logic. Having a kid is a much bigger choice than that or should be. This is why we cant have nice things.

Not knocking her but it seems really utilitarian of Well this works out well on my spreadsheet instead of actually wanting a child.

I say this mostly cause in this situation it was a fluke happenstance and just going O well, lets do this is weird to me.

Thats really the problem.

People whine about having a loveless marriage but they have no complaints about being careless about the needs of their children.

People care more about themselves than they care about making sacrifices to make their childrens life better.

Sounds like you are describing a child with divorced parents.

No child is worried about their parents relationship when they are still together.

I would know.

My parents got divorced with I was 7.

Your kids are also going to learn from you that its normal to have babies with someone and not have any sort of relationship with them.

Imagine the message of love youre teaching a child with those actions.

But going further, of course, kids will always see their parents fight and have arguments. Even perfect marriages have these things.

When I saw my grandparents fight as a kid and yell at each other, it scared the hell out of me, but they are still married to this day, and are an inspiration to me of how a relationship can survive even through hard times

You (Im using this generally, not literally YOU) liked someone enough to fuck them.

But being together to raise a child that you (again, general pronoun) made TOGETHER is just an impossible request that you couldnt possibly even entertain.

The way people think is wild.

Thats really the problem.

People whine about having a loveless marriage but they have no complaints about being careless about the needs of their children.

People care more about themselves than they care about making sacrifices to make their childrens life better.

That sounds like a problem

That sounds like a problem

you might wanna think about that statement

Many people are alcoholics.

Doesnt mean being drunk 24/7 is no problem.

Because you said,

Its really not [a problem] Something that many people do

Just because many people are having sex without knowing much about that person, doesnt make it a NOT a problem.

Many people do many bad things.

Marriage is a sacrifice.

You do this for the benefit of your children.

The issue is that people do not want to put the needs of their children over their own desires.

Having both parents in the same house raising a child gets rid of every problem mentioned ITT (going to court, worrying about who legally has the right to the child on certain holidays, etc.)

You are putting enormous amounts of stress on a child when you could make a sacrifice to make their lives easier.

People are just inherently selfish.

I just laid out my arguments.

Seems clear to me.

you just did a good job of explaining why being drunk 24/7 is a huge inconvenience and a major problem if you want to live any kind of functional life.

* Cant drive
* Cant reasonably hold down a job
* Major health issues that could lead to your death

Marriage has always been a sacrifice.

By getting married, your dating life from that point is permanently over.

When you get married, you are planning to never have sex with another stranger again.

Marriage is a sacrifice. Thats just a fact.

people dont want a marriage because they dont want to sacrifice their freedom for the benefit of the child.

In other words, they are more worried about themselves and their own desires than making sure the child is happy.

The shitty life continues when a child grows up being pulled at each arm like tug-of-war by each half of their family.

Believe me, I lived through this shit as a child and divorced parents.

The drama and stress for that child will be extreme. Especially when people at school ask them about their home life. Nobody wants to tell the class that their parents are separated or divorced.

if you could share one of those studies Id like to see it.

I dont think you realize that real life doesnt play out by a schedule.

Again, my parents got divorced, and even though everything got worked out in court they were always arguments about people not showing up on time to drop off the kids.

Forcing a child to deal with this shit makes them feel like an object rather than a person.

By separating, the parents are choosing to be selfish and pick the best life for themselves.

They make the child have a more stressful life

* You laid out your points. Theyre just bad and untrue points What is clear is that you have absolutely no idea how the real world works. You think everything should work the way you want it to

Actually, the problem with people who dont want to get married is that they always want to have things their own way.

Again, marriage is a sacrifice.

When you just want to be single, youre thinking of yourself.

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Its some alt called Abdul Carter. They have the worst takes and was an account made this month (Dec 2022). Im leaning towards SMAL but Im not quite sure.

Someone was saying it was the living loser guy