Current Events > The number of sexual partners some people have always astounds me

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I like to watch trash TV like Love Island or whatever and they always play truth or dare and the number of partners they've had always comes up and these folks are putting up numbers in the hundreds and they're all like 22 years old. Where do they find the time?

Before i started watching this shit i'd say that 10 partners was a lot lol.

Hot people can easily up their numbers, and "sexual partner" doesn't necessarily mean penetration. Like a circle jerk would add a lot without really being that involved with each person.

Yea but let's see how many games they have in their steam library!

Meh. Im average, and have banged 30+

and Ive been with one person for a decade lol

RespectWomen posted...

Meh. Im average, and have banged 30+

and Ive been with one person for a decade lol

How absolutely embarrassing

lilORANG posted...

How absolutely embarrassing

No slut shaming

Meh. 30 isnt that bad. The only time I felt bad/gross is when I banged 2 people in 1 day (not a threesome)

lilORANG posted...

Where do they find the time?

Probably no real life goals aside from "Get rich/successful"... which essentially boils down to smoking pot, talking big about starting a business/hustle/novel/etc. and never actually doing it, so they have even more time.
And no real hobbies aside from maybe browsing a forum or watching TV, which again means more time to be bored accomplishing nothing.
They're probably the same people who are "fluent in sarcasm" or "looking for the Jim to my Pam.", or "eating/food" is one of their cited personality traits.

Basically "Idle hands are the devil's plaything." Dull people with no direction in life tend to fall back on primal wants and needs to fill the space, and sex just so happens to be one of them.
Which ends up making them even more boring because, as you get older and starting from university, most people care about legitimate experiences and not sexual ones.

lennethsoki posted...

Probably no real life goals aside from "Get rich/successful"... which essentially boils down to smoking pot, talking big about starting a business/hustle/novel/etc. and never actually doing it, so they have even more time.
And no real hobbies aside from maybe browsing a forum or watching TV, which again means more time to be bored accomplishing nothing.
They're probably the same people who are "fluent in sarcasm" or "looking for the Jim to my Pam.", or "eating/food" is one of their cited personality traits.

Basically "Idle hands are the devil's plaything." Dull people with no direction in life tend to fall back on primal wants and needs to fill the space, and sex just so happens to be one of them.
Which ends up making them even more boring because, as you get older and starting from university, most people care about legitimate experiences and not sexual ones.

Not that surprising, people who don't waste their life playing video games and hanging on dying internet message boards have all that time to being in clubs and having sex with each other and being part of the cool clique

If youre having sex with that many people (100+) why dont you just jerk off and save yourself the hassle

At some point you need to start valuing your time

Most of the people I know who were like this in their late teens/early 20s are complete burn outs now and constantly rehash their glory days. It's pretty weird and pathetic honestly.

They are also people who can't stand being alone and once their well runs dry they turn absolutely insufferable and miserable. If you're racking up that many partners when you are that young it's usually not because you have the greatest developed personality

lilORANG posted...

How absolutely embarrassing

What is embarrassing?

Turtlebread posted...

If youre having sex with that many people (100+) why dont you just jerk off and save yourself the hassle

At some point you need to start valuing your time

I could find a sexual partner for a quickie faster than searching for a porn video that is good enough to scratch the itch.

i wish i could have sex at least once before i die

Raikuro posted...

I could find a sexual partner for a quickie faster than searching for a porn video that is good enough to scratch the itch.

you have 15 seconds

why is your metric Love Island, that is probably a requirement. you need to be able to speedrun drama

Turtlebread posted...

you have 15 seconds

No way I can find a good vid that fast

Only had/have one partner and Im married to her. Shes the same. I do find a high number of partners kinda bad, to me its saying, how many kids did you cause and STDs you catch or spread?

SneakyGoomba posted...

Yea but let's see how many games they have in their steam library!

About 30? Shit, that's more than my partner count.

texanfan27 posted...

Only had/have one partner and Im married to her. Shes the same. I do find a high number of partners kinda bad, to me its saying, how many kids did you cause and STDs you catch or spread?

you do realize theres like a 24hr window where women can actually conceive lol. I mean theres obviously more but theres usually 1 peak day.

i did get the clap once though. And funnily enough, it was the one person I didnt really want to bang. But kinda had to, and then it hurt to pee smfh

RespectWomen posted...

you do realize theres like a 24hr window where women can actually conceive lol

i did get the clap once though. And funnily enough, it was the one person I didnt really want to bang. But kinda had to, and then it hurt to pee smfh

And how many women know that window? Also sperm cells can last up to 3 days I believe in the vagina.

texanfan27 posted...

Only had/have one partner and Im married to her. Shes the same. I do find a high number of partners kinda bad, to me its saying, how many kids did you cause and STDs you catch or spread?

I mean, yeah, shit happens, but what is considered a high number of partners? With protection, it tends to be pretty safe.

gunplagirl posted...

About 30? Shit, that's more than my partner count.

Those are rookie numbers! Get more bundles!

What Im really saying is, I have never been a huge proponent of condoms and pulling out is very effective.

just dont be one of those guys who waits until its too late

but hell it took my wife and I YEARS to conceive, and I never pulled out. We had to actively track her occupation to conceive.

bsp77 posted...

I mean, yeah, shit happens, but what is considered a high number of partners? With protection, it tends to be pretty safe.

I consider double digits high. But again, I was more stricter on having sex. Also took me a while to get into the dating scene. Just was unlucky on those I asked out.

Protection does help, so at least we got that going for them.

RespectWomen posted...

What Im really saying is, I have never been a huge proponent of condoms and pulling out is very effective.

just dont be one of those guys who waits until its too late

but hell it took my wife and I YEARS to conceive, and I never pulled out. We had to actively track her occupation to conceive.

C'mon, man, I was on your side until now. I hate condoms, and have admittedly been stupid about not using them, but I would never try to convince others that it is a good idea. I am also snipped so pregnancy wasn't a concern, but man HPV is rampant. Luckily, most young women are vaccinated today.

I actually dont consider it sex unless Im blasting full loads inside without protection

texanfan27 posted...

I consider double digits high. But again, I was more stricter on having sex. Also took me a while to get into the dating scene. Just was unlucky on those I asked out.

Protection does help, so at least we got that going for them.

Just be careful not to judge people on it, and much of it is related to personal experience. After my divorce after 20 years of marriage (only person I had been with), it was easy to hit double digits in a year and I probably wasn't doing well psychologically. I am calmed down now (and getting married again), but the point is you never know what people are going through.

bsp77 posted...

C'mon, man, I was on your side until now. I hate condoms, and have admittedly been stupid about not using them, but I would never try to convince others that it is a good idea. I am also snipped so pregnancy wasn't a concern, but man HPV is rampant. Luckily, most young women are vaccinated today.

they arent an option for me. Ive tried at various stages of my life. Shit is like a vice grip and immediately kills my erection. I can go multiple rounds without, so its not a stamina issue.

I dont choose not to use them, I legitimately just cant. Ive tried different brands, sizes, material etc.

RespectWomen posted...

they arent an option for me. Ive tried at various stages of my life. Shit is like a vice grip and immediately kills my erection. I can go multiple rounds without, so its not a stamina issue.

I dont choose not to use them, I legitimately just cant. Ive tried different brands, sizes, material etc.

I can understand. I can't use them anymore, but being over 40, it doesn't take much to screw me up. Lol

I just hate condoning the pull out method, and as I said, I am snipped. I already have 4 daughters from my ex wife.

Sex is weird man.

Imagine there is an alien species where 1/2 the members of that species got a 3rd hand they got no control of. Sometimes when one the members with a hand gets turned on the 3rd hand moves by itself and gets bigger and there is nothing you can do to control said hand, thus telling the other alien how you feel about it. Also imagine being that other alien and seeing that and being like oohhh this other alien fancies me. And now you both know.

That's pretty much sex.

bsp77 posted...

What is embarrassing?

not embarrassing at all. But I couldn't do it.

Have you had chili? Every chili is different, isn't it? Maybe not every chili, but many chili are very different even though they're the same thing.

If you've only had one chili you have no idea what chili really is, because you've only had that one. If you ever try another chili you will be like "WOW SO DIFFERENT!". Sex is like that. If you haven't been with more than 3 people in your entire life, how do you know what sex is really like?

The_shibe posted...

not embarrassing at all. But I couldn't do it.

Have you had chili? Every chili is different, isn't it? Maybe not every chili, but many chili are very different even though they're the same thing.

If you've only had one chili you have no idea what chili really is, because you've only had that one. If you ever try another chili you will be like "WOW SO DIFFERENT!". Sex is like that. If you haven't been with more than 3 people in your entire life, how do you know what sex is really like?

I have had lots of chili and lots of partners, thank you very much

Not sure why you responded to my question to TC...

That seems easy for people who are able to do it just based on TV and stuff. I have no personal experience to back that up.

bsp77 posted...

I have had lots of chili and lots of partners, thank you very much

Not sure why you responded to my question to TC...

so U agree with me, right? It's impossible to really know what sex is life if you only had 1 chili

The_shibe posted...

so U agree with me, right? It's impossible to really know what sex is life if you only had 1 chili

Yes and no. I mean, people with only one partner still know what sex is like. If I had stayed with my ex wife, I still would have know what sex was like, just not the variety.

But I just wanted to know why TC was saying 30 was "embarrassing".

the average man is unfuckable

the average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick

AlephZero posted...

the average man is unfuckable

the average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick

Shut the fuck up

bsp77 posted...

I can understand. I can't use them anymore, but being over 40, it doesn't take much to screw me up. Lol

I just hate condoning the pull out method, and as I said, I am snipped. I already have 4 daughters from my ex wife.

I mean, if done correctly, pulling out has similar efficacy to condoms. The issue is people get greedy with how long they want to stay in or overestimate their ability to hold back (and obviously pulling out also doesnt prevent STDs/STIs).

Kami_no_Kami posted...

I mean, if done correctly, pulling out has similar efficacy to condoms. The issue is people get greedy with how long they want to stay in or overestimate their ability to hold back (and obviously pulling out also doesnt prevent STDs/STIs).

agreed. For it to be effective(as it has for me for 15 years), you need to pull out IMMEDIATELY when you start to feel that tingle. Not wait until the flood gates are being knocked down.

if you track ovulation on top of this, the chances of pregnancy are extremely slim.

but yeah you can still catch something, no question about that.

Gay man here.

I've lost count. It's almost 60 at least.

I averaged a partner a month for like a decade of being single and active. I'm very regular looking. 90% of them were just girls that I'd meet in a bar that night or knew from class. I was going out with friends or going to school anyway, so it wasn't like I was putting in a lot of work or anything.

Jiek_Fafn posted...

I averaged a partner a month for like a decade of being single and active. I'm very regular looking. 90% of them were just girls that I'd meet in a bar that night or knew from class. I was going out with friends or going to school anyway, so it wasn't like I was putting in a lot of work or anything.

Exactly. I only led that lifestyle for a little over a year, but my number would be astronomical if I had been single and going out for many years. It's not that hard to do, the problem is that the guys here who think it is difficult have social issues in general. It's not about being "average" or what not.

texanfan27 posted...

Only had/have one partner and Im married to her. Shes the same. I do find a high number of partners kinda bad, to me its saying, how many kids did you cause and STDs you catch or spread?

Have you ever heard of these magical things called condoms? I've had tons of sex with different people and never got someone pregnant or gotten an STD.

I had a friend who was at 170 when he was 22. This was before online dating. But he was smooth as hell and looked like Brad Pitt so it was understandable.

SneakyGoomba posted...

Yea but let's see how many games they have in their steam library!

LMFAO

Also, this topic reeks of jealousy

Drumiester posted...

LMFAO

Also, this topic reeks of jealousy

We just don't like people

Pulling out is great.

Probably like 2000 and 0. Shit works, and it's fun seeing what happens at that point.