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GuerrillaSoldier
12/09/22 10:05:42 PM
#51:


they're not competitive. i don't feel like i always have to try to best them at everything, like my guy friends. everything isn't about being better than me. maybe with other girls, but not with me directly.

they like different things. that alone is great. i get tired of the same shit all the time.

different perspective. different ways of solving or thinking about things that i wouldn't have thought of.

oh wait this wasn't a serious topic?

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MetallicSlug
12/09/22 10:08:50 PM
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DumbQuestion posted...


Excellent troll topic, well done


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Arcanine2009
12/10/22 2:30:19 AM
#53:


GuerrillaSoldier posted...
they're not competitive. i don't feel like i always have to try to best them at everything, like my guy friends. everything isn't about being better than me. maybe with other girls, but not with me directly.

they like different things. that alone is great. i get tired of the same shit all the time.

different perspective. different ways of solving or thinking about things that i wouldn't have thought of.

oh wait this wasn't a serious topic?
Agreed. I've never had a guy friend that was competitive, but I've seen some that are, and they are annoying and feel like they have something to prove for their insecurities. I've also seen girls that are as well. They weren't my friends either.

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Silver_Patron
12/10/22 3:03:21 AM
#54:


I can tell you for sure that there's plenty of benefits to having female friends. Pretty much all of the ideas I was gonna mention were already mentioned by others but you should always try and be friends with everyone if you can

You have no idea if that can lead to a relationship with another girl they know, a job opportunity, connects to things you want that are hard to get (sought after sneakers for a good price for example) and more

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kurdt032
12/10/22 3:51:11 AM
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You could introduce them to video games. Maybe starting out with a turn based game to get her used to the controller.

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Crow0000
12/10/22 4:29:49 AM
#57:


GuerrillaSoldier posted...


they like different things. that alone is great. i get tired of the same shit all the time.

different perspective. different ways of solving or thinking about things that i wouldn't have thought of.

oh wait this wasn't a serious topic?
women literally have interest in nails and beauty products. the average man couldn't care less about how long their nails or getting pedicures
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Crow0000
12/10/22 4:32:11 AM
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Glob posted...
You can as long as you arent being a dick about women when talking to men. Funnily enough, they dont like that.
If i have to tone it down for a woman to be my friend, then it aint going to work. The point of a friend is to talk about anything or to approach subjects naturally

you can't do that with the opposite sex because you'll be seen as weird or creepy. with a guy, i can roast him, insult him(all in good fun), talk about body counts, who i like, or hardships with.

I dare say that men have better friendships with other men

and women have better friendships with other women

compared to men and woman friendships
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Questionmarktarius
12/10/22 4:42:34 AM
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women showing up have taught me three simple things:
  1. there is a designated place for discarded socks, and it's not the back of the couch.
  2. anything that doesn't move, accumulates dust - even if you can't see that dust.
  3. raccoons are supposed to be outside.
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Kloe_Rinz
12/10/22 5:16:37 AM
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This topic is full of benefits but I think Id like to add a negative. Girls have cooties.
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NeonTentacles
12/10/22 5:22:19 AM
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Sometimes you see their boobs >_> I've seen 1 of my female friends boobs.

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lennethsoki
12/10/22 5:32:20 AM
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Glob posted...
You can as long as you arent being a dick about women when talking to men. Funnily enough, they dont like that.

Nah, they love that if you're funny and charismatic about it, men and women both.
There's a difference between being a likeable jackass who's fun and interesting, and an unlikeable jackass who's foul and the stay-away-from-me kind of weird. The former gets invitations to hang out and constant engagement to chat 24/7 even from people who disagree; the latter gets a restraining order from people who agree and disagree alike.

Of course, CE's socially awkward, so I wouldn't put it past them to not know the difference, or even fathom how people *gasp* actually like people who AREN'T boring?

By the time I started university, it blew my mind how few guys and girls suck ass at being likeable while doing it. Thank god I learned that before starting, 'cause now I'm happy as hell and I'm not even 30 yet.

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Hoodroar
12/10/22 5:37:14 AM
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This isn't universally the case but I don't generally see women vibing the same way with their male friends that they do with their other female friends.

What's the point if you don't get the full friend experience?

lennethsoki posted...
There's a difference between being a likeable jackass who's fun and interesting, and an unlikeable jackass who's foul and the stay-away-from-me kind of weird. The former gets invitations to hang out and constant engagement to chat 24/7 even from people who disagree; the latter gets a restraining order from people who agree and disagree alike.

Of course, CE's socially awkward, so I wouldn't put it past them to not know the difference, or even fathom how people *gasp* actually like people who AREN'T boring?

Well I like people who aren't biased and actually judge behavior consistently.

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Anony1125
12/10/22 6:11:25 AM
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females are too lewd and only ever think about sex
I try to avoid them to keep my thoughts pure

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FaultyCircuitry
12/10/22 8:51:29 AM
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Crow0000 posted...
women literally have interest in nails and beauty products. the average man couldn't care less about how long their nails or getting pedicures

Time for the average man to start caring about their physical appearance then

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Crow0000
12/10/22 9:29:08 AM
#67:


FaultyCircuitry posted...
Time for the average man to start caring about their physical appearance then
a lot of men care more about building a career a providing for their family through hard work or talking about sports, than they do about looking like pretty boys
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Kakapo
12/10/22 9:35:47 AM
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Crow0000 posted...
a lot of men care more about building a career a providing for their family through hard work or talking about sports, than they do about looking like pretty boys
Youre forgetting that most quite successful guys actually take quite good care of their appearance.

On account of the fact that nobody takes a guy who looks and smells like an overturned trash can seriously.

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JTilly
12/10/22 9:39:43 AM
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???

Same benefits as having guy friends, you get to have sex with dem

what a silly topic

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Crow0000
12/10/22 9:46:14 AM
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JTilly posted...
???

Same benefits as having guy friends, you get to have sex with dem

what a silly topic
this doesn't happen when men and women are regular friends
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AloofHermit
12/10/22 12:04:22 PM
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CopyMan1 posted...
None


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NoxObscuras
12/10/22 12:08:30 PM
#73:


A user named DumbQuestion asks a dumb question and never responds to any of the posts, yet it somehow still gets over 70 replies...

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/9/6/AAQgjdAAD-Xo.jpg

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bsp77
12/10/22 12:09:17 PM
#74:


NoxObscuras posted...
A user named DumbQuestion asks a dumb question and never responds to any of the posts, yet it somehow still gets over 70 replies...

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/9/6/AAQgjdAAD-Xo.jpg
He responded using alts

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NoxObscuras
12/10/22 12:17:58 PM
#75:


bsp77 posted...
He responded using alts
Ah that's what he's doing? I didn't read through the whole thing, just looked to see if I saw (Topic Creator) anywhere.

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MedeaLysistrata
12/10/22 12:32:10 PM
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there are none tc, just avoid them

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FaultyCircuitry
12/10/22 12:33:58 PM
#78:


Crow0000 posted...
a lot of men care more about building a career a providing for their family through hard work or talking about sports, than they do about looking like pretty boy


This is why women are just choosing to not deal with men more and more

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furb
12/10/22 12:43:51 PM
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You have more options for friends. Having friends is good.

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lolife67
12/10/22 12:47:17 PM
#80:


Crow0000 posted...
Also, as a guy I can shoot the s*** and talk about a cute girl I saw with a buddy or talk about how I would f*** X or Y girl.
You can definitely talk about these things with female friends. I do. It sounds like you haven't ever actually had any women as platonic friends and are just using outdated stereotypes.
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bsp77
12/10/22 1:06:28 PM
#81:


lolife67 posted...
You can definitely talk about these things with female friends. I do. It sounds like you haven't ever actually had any women as platonic friends and are just using outdated stereotypes.
Agreed

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NoxObscuras
12/10/22 1:16:28 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Ah so TC is the guy with the really negative opinions in this topic. Makes sense now that it's pointed out lol. He's making a lot of generalizations about women.

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Glob
12/13/22 2:38:52 AM
#84:


Crow0000 posted...
If i have to tone it down for a woman to be my friend, then it aint going to work. The point of a friend is to talk about anything or to approach subjects naturally

you can't do that with the opposite sex because you'll be seen as weird or creepy. with a guy, i can roast him, insult him(all in good fun), talk about body counts, who i like, or hardships with.

I dare say that men have better friendships with other men

and women have better friendships with other women

compared to men and woman friendships

If you have to tone it down to not disgust any woman you interact with, women arent the problem. You are.

You can talk to women exactly the same way you talk to men without having to tone anything down, unless the way youre talking to men is already poor.

I work in a female dominated profession and you can definitely roast them or talk about sexual escapades or whatever. You just have to do it in a way which isnt inappropriate.
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Gobstoppers12
12/13/22 4:04:40 AM
#85:


Real talk, I just prefer the company of women over most men. I have a lot of cool friends who are guys, but when it comes down to it, I'd rather spend time with my friends who are girls.

Before anybody gets the wrong idea, there's nothing sexual about it, I just happen to like having women around. I've been in a happy committed relationship for over 3 years now.

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Crow0000
12/13/22 4:14:45 PM
#87:


Glob posted...
If you have to tone it down to not disgust any woman you interact with, women arent the problem. You are.


That basically confirms that men and women aren't the same in terms of interaction. There are certain subjects I can talk with men, that I can't with women. Vice Versa with women. I can't tell a woman friend "you need to lose weight, you're getting fat". But no one would bat an eye if I told my guy friend he's gaining weight or getting fat. Society themselves makes it more acceptable to call out men for flaws or to be blunt with men.
You really can't talk to a woman, the same way you do to a guy.

I can't talk to most guys about my hair products. A lot of men have short hair or dont care , etc. And If I do talk to women, most of them don't give a shit or care about fighting or combat sports.
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Glob
12/13/22 5:07:35 PM
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Crow0000 posted...
That basically confirms that men and women aren't the same in terms of interaction. There are certain subjects I can talk with men, that I can't with women. Vice Versa with women. I can't tell a woman friend "you need to lose weight, you're getting fat". But no one would bat an eye if I told my guy friend he's gaining weight or getting fat. Society themselves makes it more acceptable to call out men for flaws or to be blunt with men.
You really can't talk to a woman, the same way you do to a guy.

I can't talk to most guys about my hair products. A lot of men have short hair or dont care , etc. And If I do talk to women, most of them don't give a shit or care about fighting or combat sports.

No, it really doesnt.

All of your examples are sweeping generalisations based on outdated stereotypes.

The only subjects that are absolutely off
limits with the vast majority of women should also be off limits with men.
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Trumpo
12/13/22 5:14:26 PM
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Hearing gossip

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yusiko
12/13/22 5:16:03 PM
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well if you had female friends you would have known this topic was stupid and not subjected CE to it
thats one benefit

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Solar_Crimson
12/13/22 5:17:04 PM
#92:


metralo posted...
The same as having guy friends would be? They're people?


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Crow0000
12/13/22 5:22:07 PM
#93:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Men communicate better with men

women communicate better with women

A guy having a physical and strong attraction to his female friend could also potentially ruin said friendship.
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bsp77
12/13/22 5:24:21 PM
#94:


Crow0000 posted...
Men communicate better with men

women communicate better with women
Not in my experience. I communicate well with both. You seem to be coming up with excuses for why you don't have female friends.

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Tappor
12/13/22 5:26:21 PM
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I don't think CE is the place to get help with this problem that seemingly only you are having


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Crow0000
12/13/22 5:26:28 PM
#96:


bsp77 posted...
Not in my experience. I communicate well with both. You seem to be coming up with excuses for why you don't have female friends.
i've had female friends when i was in my early 20's

it was never worth it because I was physically attracted to them.

even in highschool, had it. wasn't worth it because I had little to nothing in common with them, compared to my guy friends
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Glob
12/13/22 5:32:09 PM
#97:


Crow0000 posted...
i've had female friends when i was in my early 20's

it was never worth it because I was physically attracted to them.

even in highschool, had it. wasn't worth it because I had little to nothing in common with them, compared to my guy friends

I dont have any reason to doubt thats your experience. I believe you.

However, what I really want you to understand is that is not a universal experience. Plenty of men are capable of having meaningful friendships with women.
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bsp77
12/13/22 5:32:32 PM
#98:


Crow0000 posted...
i've had female friends when i was in my early 20's

it was never worth it because I was physically attracted to them.

even in highschool, had it. wasn't worth it because I had little to nothing in common with them, compared to my guy friends
So there is your problem... you view them as more of a potential sex pertner than as a friend.

Let me ask you this, were you dating anyone at the time or able to get sex if you wanted it? Maybe part of the reason I can have female friends is because I don't have an issue getting laid. I don't need to push my frustrations onto my friends.

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Guide
12/13/22 5:35:13 PM
#99:


bsp77 posted...
So there is your problem... you view them as more of a potential sex pertner than as a friend.

Let me ask you this, were you dating anyone at the time or able to get sex if you wanted it? Maybe part of the reason I can have female friends is because I don't have an issue getting laid. I don't need to push my frustrations onto my friends.

Being attracted to someone isn't the same as viewing them as a potential partner. You put some words in his mouth.

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bsp77
12/13/22 5:37:33 PM
#100:


Guide posted...
Being attracted to someone isn't the same as viewing them as a potential partner. You put some words in his mouth.
"Sex partner" is the wrong term, but not being able to be friends with women because you can't stop viewing them in a sexual manner is clearly an issue.

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